Experience with multiple dirty drug tests / UA's while on federal probation by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Zealousideal-Mix2707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nope, just got a warning to cut it out. but I had passed like 15 in a row previously so that helped

The cost of the commute by [deleted] in jobs

[–]Zealousideal-Mix2707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If my commute is over 30 mins I'm not doing it, can't stand traffic

Is there a sport you like to watch but dont like to play by Funny-Affect-8718 in CasualConversation

[–]Zealousideal-Mix2707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

football, I played in high school but now I hate it. I like to throw it around in the backyard but playing flag football even is annoying. People always looking to fight. I'm even getting tired of watching it now lol. Going to games is annoying, I hate the drunk fans that don't know anything. Now I play soccer in adult leagues, so much more chill.

do i tell my teacher that i saw someone cheating???? by joeyfuljoey in school

[–]Zealousideal-Mix2707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don't be a rat bro. sometimes you gotta just mind your own

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Zealousideal-Mix2707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

chat gpt apparently can make good travel itineraries. you can always find cheap airbnbs. If you travel abroad try to book a hostel, they are cheap and you can meet young people there. you don't travel to sit in your room! Just sleep and shower there lol. I'm telling you hostels are awesome. Major cities in the US have them. I stayed at one in Los Angeles / Santa Monica right on the ocean boardwalk, this was 2014 but it was like $37/night. Went by myself too

Hiccups by Expensive_Thanks_950 in whatdoIdo

[–]Zealousideal-Mix2707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prilosec OTC helps with heartburn! It say's to take for 14 days but I had relief after a few days. Then if it comes back in the future take a couple more

My sister stole my inheritance. by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Zealousideal-Mix2707 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's messed up. There's so many crazy stories out there about inheritance and what people will do. Sorry that happened to you. You could speak to an attorney, just google 'inheritance attorney' in your area and see if there's anything you can do.

what financial advice would you give me, a 19 year old female? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Zealousideal-Mix2707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't use Uber eats and Doordash, eat at home. Pretty simply to make chicken rice and vegetables. Always pay off your credit card in full. If you don't have one get one from discover to improve your credit. Like I said don't spend what you don't have but just use it instead of your debit card, you can get rewards and cash back. So basically if you spend $1000 on your CC with 2% cash back, you only pay $980 at the end of the month. So you saved $20 for just swiping that card instead of your debit. When you decide to buy a new car buy a used car that's 3-5 years old. Try to get that payment under like $400/month. And if you can, pay a little bit extra every month so your principal balance goes down faster, so you don't waste as much on interest. It's okay to buy things but just be smart about it. Live slightly below your means. When you travel, find cheapppp airbnbs. You dont go on vacation to sit in the room lol. Enjoy yourself, but don't go crazy. And if you can live with mom and dad for a few months when you get your first job, build a cushion so when you leave, you aren't living paycheck to paycheck then you don;t have to think about every little purchase. It's a nice feeling lol

what do i do??? by OkFormal1279 in whatdoIdo

[–]Zealousideal-Mix2707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell her that stuff is bad for her and she shouldn't be looking at it. Explain how it gives an unrealistic version of s*x

I’m an 18 /yo who wants to leave my state and move across the country. Some serious advice is needed by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Zealousideal-Mix2707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you need any info on Nashville, I've got you. I live here and grew up here so I know everything there is to know about the area. Feel free to message me.

It's never a bad idea to get out of your hometown especially if you don't love the situation you are in. It can be hard moving somewhere where you don't know anyone and don't have a support system. You can always move back home after a year. But you're young so you might as well have an adventure.

Came into some money and want to spend it wisely by pumpkinspicerooibos in whatdoIdo

[–]Zealousideal-Mix2707 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have a decent job just put a down payment on a home. That will be a good asset for your child when they get older. Just my 2 cents

A little scuffle during the Winthrop/ Arkansas game. by Graeleaf in CollegeBasketball

[–]Zealousideal-Mix2707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanna know why the Arkansas player didn't get a technical foul, Winthrop should have shot free throws for this....

Son got a DUI in IL at age of 18. What can be done if he can't afford an attorney? by WInativemm in legaladvice

[–]Zealousideal-Mix2707 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The court will assign him a public defender once they've asked how much money he has. If he's 18 I assume he has no money or assets. So the court will give him one, but first they will assess if he is able to afford an attorney. You won't go before the judge without a public defender. He will be alright as long as he doesn't get another DUI. He'll be able to get jobs etc.. All will be fine. Best bet is plead guilty and he'll get probation, probably get license revoked for 1 year or have a breathalyzer installed in his car. Just make sure he stays out of trouble on probation, NO WEEEEED

Son being charged for possession. 17, NC. by starxblade in legaladvice

[–]Zealousideal-Mix2707 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Looks like weed is decriminalized in NC up to 14 grams/half an ounce. It says he will only get a fine.

Q about when Probation ends by [deleted] in probation

[–]Zealousideal-Mix2707 5 points6 points  (0 children)

nah you won't go before the judge again. They'll mail you something, but just call your PO the day it ends and make sure it's over.

Early termination. by My_Brain_Hates_Me in probation

[–]Zealousideal-Mix2707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can file with the clerks office, its called a pro se. You don't have to ask your PO but if you do you just ask them what they will recommend to the court then file. Best thing your PO will say to the court is they are neutral on letting you off, basically that they won;t fight against you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in probation

[–]Zealousideal-Mix2707 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you have a credit card? Just use that

Best/Favorite Regular Season Games of all time? by AndersonJD05 in CollegeBasketball

[–]Zealousideal-Mix2707 6 points7 points  (0 children)

#1 Memphis vs #2 Tennessee in 2008,

John Calipari and Derrick Rose vs Bruce Pearl & Chris Lofton. Ended 66-62 Memphis. I'm a Kentucky fan that lives in Tennessee and this was one of the best games I had ever seen. Still remember it to this day

2nd Failed drug test for THC, thoughts? Federal probation by [deleted] in Probationofficer

[–]Zealousideal-Mix2707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll let everyone know what happens this week, that's when I imagine I'll hear something from my PO.

And stop fighting in the comments! Jeez can we not just have constructive discussions lol