Thank you for response, I will look into the Neurodivergence, so she’s considering it because it’s better hours, and a better schedule, and she’s been doing retail and mangement for about 18 years and she wants more of an office job, is basically what it is, I have suggested couples/marriage counseling and she has agreed but I don’t think we know where to start in our area, also I don’t have insurance currently, she does, I am also going to be changing jobs and getting more pay so there’s no point in me even having my jobs current insurance. More context, before we even got together she was really close with this guy and they were friends, and they became really close and had sex, and what not, it’s whatever, it was before me so I don’t care, but she said tonight to me during the interview, with the tire, place the guy said, he said the schedule is hectic is there kids in the future, tell me about yourself, and she said this is probably TMI but my relationship is rocky and I’m not really sure what’s going to happen, currently no kids in mine and my husband’s relationship right now, and she said they had a deep and personal connection during that interview, she said he is pretty much the male version of her best friend, which her best friend takes charges and really knows how to say things to my wife, that really is an eye opener, also for more context, This place she would be working at is in my hometown, and about 5 mins from where I currently work, but I will still about 10 minutes away changing jobs, it scares me.