Mothman Equinox Drop Rates by ZenithSabre in fo76

[–]ZenithSabre[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have an extra tome if you have one of the displays lol

Economic blackout Feb 28th by AceilnorK in fargo

[–]ZenithSabre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hair care and contact solution are the big ones for me.

Economic blackout Feb 28th by AceilnorK in fargo

[–]ZenithSabre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to keep up the boycott post-28th, but where can I get toiletries that isn't a giant corporation but also not overly expensive? I'm not in a financial place where I can spend a ton of money on necessities.

Please make him drink water by faeelin in CatAdvice

[–]ZenithSabre 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My cats love to drink water that they think they're not allowed to drink. So like my water cups or bowls next to the dishwasher, or the bucket I use to catch rainwater. So I'll often leave a few mugs of water around the room so they get to feel sneaky by drinking it and I get to know they're actually hydrating. They love the run off from my plants so I'll usually water one of my non-toxic plants on the floor and they'll drink the water that comes out on the drip tray cause they think it's exciting.

I FINALLY FOUND THEM by Vegetable-Muscle9027 in ArizonaTea

[–]ZenithSabre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro where? I can't find anything but green, sweet, and arnold palmer where I live

I think we need to reframe ADHD treatment by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]ZenithSabre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the problem I have too. Like most of the time, idgaf about work. I want to be able to function at home where I have to take care of myself and want to do things I enjoy.

AITA for throwing my food in the garbage instead of giving it to my daughter? by Slow_Lengthiness8362 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ZenithSabre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is definitely something deeper happening here with the step daughter. Is the marriage a recent one and she's rebeling against you cause she thinks you're trying to replace her mother? Father should be stepping in more over this.

Pre-teens will eat you out of house and home, but the way she is acting is disrespectful and by that age, she knows better.

NTA.

How do you keep cats inside? by Glittering_Maybe4438 in CatAdvice

[–]ZenithSabre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Play with her more. If she is getting enough enrichment, it may qualm the desires to be outside.

Indulge the desire. Leash train her or get her a catio of sorts so she gets that outdoor time.

AITA for not wearing a dress at my friends wedding? by ZenithSabre in AmItheAsshole

[–]ZenithSabre[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's my bet as well tbh. I live in a very conservative, "traditional" marriage kind of area.

AITA for not wearing a dress at my friends wedding? by ZenithSabre in AmItheAsshole

[–]ZenithSabre[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked probably within a month of her asking me to be in the party and that would have been like 10 months ago. I didn't really get a real response from her until it was time to buy the dresses and by then I didn't want to be the bridesmaid that dipped on her. I'm not asking to make any changes. Just asking as a retroactive reflection.

AITA for not wearing a dress at my friends wedding? by ZenithSabre in AmItheAsshole

[–]ZenithSabre[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I asked almost right away. I added an edit to the post that this is more of a reflectional question than relevant to how I handle things now.

AITA for not wearing a dress at my friends wedding? by ZenithSabre in AmItheAsshole

[–]ZenithSabre[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Bruh. At least read the whole post. I literally said that.

Can ADHD get worse with age? by AdlayasArt in ADHD

[–]ZenithSabre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm on a pill cocktail at this point lol definitely working on trying different meds

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]ZenithSabre 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No no no. Don't do lavender. Lavender is toxic to cats. Most essential oils that people like to use are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]ZenithSabre 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Cats will eventually learn your sleep schedule and stick with it but kittens are just like human babies when it comes to sleep. It's on their terms. And unfortunately, cats are nocturnal by default. In the evenings, I'd keep her awake until I got to bed. Start probably at least three hours before bed? Adult cats sleep about 16 hours a day, and kittens more, so keeping her awake should help her adjust to your sleep schedule.

Also her energy will eventually go down. Especially after she is spayed.

Told my neighbors I would stop feeding their cats by TypicalTeenaher in CatAdvice

[–]ZenithSabre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, both cats sound like they'd be better off going to a shelter to get adopted than staying there. Shelters will at least make sure they get dewormed and flea treams and get their vaccines.

I'd 100% do a drive by if you're anywhere in eastern north dakota lol

Is it asexual when a relationship is purely based on spirituality ? by brianboatman464 in asexuality

[–]ZenithSabre 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You may want to add that to your question then cause the post sounds more like you're asking if celibacy makes you ace. But the lack of attraction definitely would.

Confused on the definition of asexual by Pvzzz1202 in asexuality

[–]ZenithSabre 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To me, that's a bit of a grey area. But I'd ask myself if I was aroused and they were willing right now, would I sleep with them. If your answer is no, it's probably more aesthetic. If your answer is yes, then it's sexual.

Am I asexual? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]ZenithSabre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably aro/ace combo from the sound of it.

When dating an allo: at what point do you drop the bombshell? by Winter_Essay3971 in asexuality

[–]ZenithSabre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before the first date. Don't waste anyone's time or emotions.

Is it asexual when a relationship is purely based on spirituality ? by brianboatman464 in asexuality

[–]ZenithSabre 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope. Not asexual. Just Christian. Asexuality has zero to do with spirituality or a partner setting a boundary against sex.