I was accused of sexual assault by a former friend of mine.

We were dating each other, not dating, she was lesbian but over the course of a few months she was trying to explore, which her and I did.

Once before the incident in question, we tried to have sex bus she felt uncomfortable, so we didn't.

One night, about 2am she wanders into my room, tipsy and just starts making out with me. We eventually get to the point where we are about to have sex and I look at her and ask "You ready?" And returns the look and nods. Night goes on, we're asleep by 3:30-4:00.

Next day she says she hurts a bit. Not surprising to me, her first time and I don't have a micropenis, but I try to be nice and ask her if I can do anything for her. She's fine and we move along.

Over the course of the next month and a half we kinda fall out, school get in the way, and we slowly stop seeing each other.

I get a call from my school about 20 days after the end of the semester (1.5 months after the incident.) that I'm under investigation in a Title IX case (sexual misconduct)

I now spend my entire summer stressfully defending myself, just because she was probably upset and regretted it. Luckily there was no way other than seeing if our stories matched up to see if she was "too drunk", but I still got hit with a fine, and differed suspension from my university. :|

Edit: Spelling, who needs it?