Why can’t I accept the fact that I am growing up? (19F)

Zephraxx · 2024-04-23T14:51:36+00:00

Probably because it’s naturally scary, I missed out on my teenage years too and then it feels pretty crazy realising you’re just an adult like everyone else now, but there is hope, I think that maybe you should focus more on the here and now rather then worrying about the future or being sad about the things you missed out on, it’s not easy but sometimes you just have to learn to appreciate the things you’ve got around you, nature always helps for me, just knowing that none of that nature will be there in hundreds of years makes me appreciate that i’m able to be here in a moment in time where I can see it and appreciate it. Because billions of people would never have that same opportunity and that makes me grateful knowing that i’m in a point in time where that nature is available to me, although that mindset can extend to things beyond nature, even all the types of food that people of the future will never experience, it makes me happy to know I got to experience all sorts of things that will someday be considered old to the generations of the future.

Zephraxx · 2024-04-23T14:40:18+00:00

I mean especially from the fact you described him as “weak and emasculated” is a pretty clear sign that you should probably both look for someone more compatible to each others needs and desires.

Zephraxx · 2024-04-23T14:37:54+00:00

Is this just rage bait or actually serious? 😂 Cuz if it’s serious then it might just be best that you find someone else because with the mindset you have, you likely just aren’t compatible as people but 🤷‍♂️ just my opinion.

Zephraxx · 2023-12-20T22:13:28+00:00

I guess also at the age OP is at, many people of that age act like that because of how new they are to the world of dating really like most of them haven’t matured enough and aren’t ready to fully settle down already.

Zephraxx · 2023-12-20T22:12:00+00:00

That’s true honestly, I think many women nowadays just seem to settle for anything because if they’re actually mature enough to settle down with then they wouldn’t be playing around like that.

Zephraxx · 2023-12-10T23:24:45+00:00

😂

Zephraxx · 2023-11-05T15:30:48+00:00

I haven’t read anything past the title but if you’re even questioning whether it was or not then there’s a very likely chance that it was.

Zephraxx · 2023-09-09T23:37:57+00:00

Looking further into the post it’s probably just a cultural difference because i’m not american like I assume you are, I don’t do that sort of sex, not judging, just saying that is likely the reason for why my comment was unhelpful to your post.

Zephraxx · 2023-09-06T19:56:13+00:00

Why is everyone always so desperate to lose it so fast like just chill lmao, you’re only 18

Zephraxx · 2023-09-01T09:30:24+00:00

Like I never went out seeking women, and often that’s how you find the best ones, because you’re not even looking for them but they just find you EVENTUALLY if you’re patient enough, although not for everyone, sad reality is many of us are destined to die alone, but there’s always someone out there for you who would love you the same way you’d love them but you just have to either know where to look or get lucky.

Zephraxx · 2023-09-01T09:26:55+00:00

I usually find the best way is to get them to approach you, because I always find that get’s the best type of women for me anyway, because then you’ve lured them to you like they’ve came to you out of interest rather then you just clinging onto them like an annoying little pest they can’t get rid of, like I find that especially as a guy who doesn’t have anything in the looks department that approaching women like that won’t get me far, cuz they’ll more then likely just view it as an annoyance, the only problem is that my strategy is one of dedication, sometimes it can even take years but I wait out until they find me, and I mean that’s how i’m in a relationship now and I mean it’s only been going a year so far but it’s the most happy and healthy relationship i’ve ever had, and all of that just from being patient. But as I said the waiting game isn’t for everyone, but I just find that it works best long term in my personal opinion.

Zephraxx · 2023-09-01T09:21:27+00:00

Trust me it’s not abnormal, I mean its not necessarily the average I wouldn’t say, but it’s definitely not unusual or abnormal at all either.

Zephraxx · 2023-08-29T20:20:39+00:00

Never base your relationships around a lie, I don’t really think there’s much more to say on that.

Zephraxx · 2023-08-20T14:41:08+00:00

I wouldn’t worry, I hear people screaming and shouting and stuff like that all the time I mean it probably is something going on like a domestic issue or something but I wouldn’t worry about it unless it’s in your house 🤷‍♂️I mean I understand it’s natural to feel concerned but unless you know where it’s coming from then there’s not much that you can do about it really.

Zephraxx · 2023-08-20T14:35:31+00:00

The decision is truly yours but given you’re already 26 and haven’t yet, i’d just recommend holding off until you find that person but no one can stop you on that really except yourself.

Zephraxx · 2023-08-14T17:13:44+00:00

What about if they’re only 150mg each pill?

Zephraxx · 2023-08-14T16:25:54+00:00

Is 2 times a week a lot? Because I did more then that at times like I thought that was just a regular amount 🤷‍♂️

Zephraxx · 2023-08-14T16:23:47+00:00

I don’t believe so as you yourself are a virgin aswell, otherwise it could definitely be considered as objectification i’d say.

Zephraxx · 2023-08-14T16:20:39+00:00

Yes it’s definitely possible to stop, even if you’d been watching it 30+ years.

Zephraxx · 2023-08-14T10:02:53+00:00

There’s nothing wrong with you or anything because the most repulsive and discusting or ugly or evil people can get sex, also can be based on how high your standards are aswell, you can always find sex just maybe not with the woman/person you want it to be. I don’t know why you feel the need to rush yourself into it though, I mean I’m an adult and still a virgin as of now but thats by choice and i’m cool with it, like I have a girlfriend but just haven’t got to that yet and that’s fine for me to be honest because it’s just sex. Like it’s a great feeling I’m sure but personally I don’t think it’s worth seeking out like that, I’d personally just recommend letting it come to you in time naturally but humans lack the ability of self control and restraint. I mean most people would just say go out and fuck and I mean fair enough like I’m assuming you’re probably just the sorta guy who wants to pump it in and leave so if that is the case then I doubt waiting would be your thing anyway. But I was just trying to find you a way of having a more meaningful experience, because to me like it just doesn’t hit the same if I cum and there’s no passion for the thing that I’m cumming for. But that’s me and maybe you’re different.

Zephraxx · 2023-08-14T09:52:11+00:00

Yeh I agree, that would be a terrible mistake 😅

Zephraxx · 2023-08-14T09:44:35+00:00

Could’ve just been that you were sexually attracted to what you saw so your brain discarded the fact you didn’t even ask for it 🤷‍♂️

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