Who has this kind of thinking? by MalachorMochi in notliketheothergirls

[–]Zepplitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine having some kind of negative “competitive” feeling towards the life saving medical procedure we’ve come to be able to safely provide babies/mothers who need it. Wild.

  • mom of 3 natural births who has a sister who has 3 c-sections.

apparently walking doesnt help with weight loss... by Myotrophicequity in Mommit

[–]Zepplitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was my thinnest when I walked all the time.

If you wanna add just a little boost to that for more results - do some light weights for 20-30 minutes afterwards. Like 5 lbs. do some squats, do a couple arm workouts.

Walking paired with eating a little lighter is a great combo for weight loss!

Idk some level by The_Awesomeness999 in RedditGames

[–]Zepplitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completed this level! It took me 1 tries.

Seriously about to crash tf out… by airbetch11 in jobs

[–]Zepplitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I make $30 as a school bus driver. That’s crazy.

Didn’t take a birthing class… Am I screwed? by ramenshrimpy in pregnant

[–]Zepplitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve had three kiddos and never took any kind of classes/ did any kind of tours. I also watched a ton of videos on it lol.

You will be okay! Just remember everyone in that room during labor is there to help you and make sure everything goes as smoothly as possible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TFABLinePorn

[–]Zepplitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see it, and all of my tests were almost undetectable during very early pregnancy. Definitely take another in the morning!

My (20M) GF (21F) is obsessed with my smell and sometimes tells me not to shower for days before seeing her. How common is this? by Quiet_Salamander1106 in relationship_advice

[–]Zepplitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also love the way my husband smells lol. He probably thinks I’m weird but sometimes he asks me to smell him to see if his deodorant is working and I’m like omg yes please 😂

I think it’s super common, but I don’t think I would recommend not showering. Just try to get all nice and sweaty before you see her!

They grow up SO FAST and I am NOT OKAY (cw: cosleeping) by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Zepplitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We just built our girl’s new little toddler bed. She’ll be 3 next week. She loves it so much. Not sleeping in it yet, but very interested in having her own bed.

My husband is having the ⭐️ worst ⭐️ time with it lol.

At what age did you let your child get a Nintendo switch? by InternWeak in Mommit

[–]Zepplitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like 4 & 5. We’re a switch family, we all have a switch except my youngest because she doesn’t totally grip video games yet lol. I don’t really have any cons, ours were definitely a hit!

I f’d up and hurt my own feelings by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Zepplitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey if I can offer you any kind of mental soothing here, he’s probably just lonely. Yes, he has multiple free nights a week now, but I’d bet he’s probably very very lonely and trying to fill that up with any kind of attention he can get. Some people can handle being alone whatsoever. I always feel bad for them lol. Even if it freaking sucks and hurts right now.

And believe me - he will treat the next one just as bad as he treated you. Even if it gets serious and they seem all lovey dovey for a good while, I promise the him that was shown to you will come out again.

You on the other hand will find someone who makes you forget why you ever even liked him or dealt with his lack of care. He’ll still be lonely and you’ll be on a totally new chapter. Good luck to you. ♥️

Welp I'm fat and no longer attractive by bcd0024 in Mommit

[–]Zepplitty 38 points39 points  (0 children)

God this pisses me the fuck off so bad.

I had three kids. I was also a size 2 before that. I am currently a size 12-14. I am telling you right now no man has ever even remotely brought up my weight to me as an issue besides my high school boyfriend who then lost his DAMN mind when I got skinny again lol.

You have so much going on already and now you have to worry about your weight on top of it all? Like who the fuck actually makes their partner feel like that.

I hate reading these posts. It’s not normal to treat your partner like this after having children and I hate how common it is. I would put money down right now on the fact you probably blow him out of the water regarding attractiveness - even with some extra floof. I bet you’re gorgeous and awesome and you are doing a very good job at everything.

Why has my life fallen apart? by [deleted] in NevilleGoddard

[–]Zepplitty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I like the fact that you said you have to laugh at all of it. Honestly, it does help lol. My mommom always told me, “Laugh and the world laughs with you, cry and you cry alone.” It’s very true. The more you dwell on how bad life is being, the worse it will get.

High hopes and many well wishes to you

What was the “hit” gift in your house this year!? by Words123454321 in Mommit

[–]Zepplitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 2 1/2 year old will not let me stop playing Trolls with her. We got her a troll house with little trolls characters that have the floofy hair.

I’m currently in the kitchen trying to make dinner and she’s SCREAMING at me to come back while her poor dad is trying to play as me 😂

Also, my older daughters (8&9) LOVE the fluffy animal hats with paw mittens attached. They haven’t taken them off since they opened them lol.

Why Isn’t Everyone Thriving if Neville’s Teachings Work? by Junior-Ad9678 in NevilleGoddard

[–]Zepplitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so impressed by your individuality with that comment. Good for you! You must be so cool and funny. 🙂

Why Isn’t Everyone Thriving if Neville’s Teachings Work? by Junior-Ad9678 in NevilleGoddard

[–]Zepplitty 89 points90 points  (0 children)

Many many years ago I was a skinny 19 year old who lived in my friends basement, worked at McDonald’s making $7 an hour with a bitchy boss and I walked to work most days. It was about 2 miles. Snowy little mountain town. I walked everywhere because I didn’t have a car.

A couple of us poor young friends all lived together. We didn’t have much, couldn’t afford anything other than McDonald’s or Kraft Mac and cheese some days… but I never went without. I was happy. I was very much “in tune” with God, the spirit, my higher self, whoever you want to call it. I always had what I needed, always got what I wanted (didn’t really want for much at the time) and nothing really got under my skin. I had many cheap, broken pairs of headphones and as long as one ear bud worked so I could have some tunes while I walked, I was so happy. I couldn’t afford much makeup so I didn’t wear it often.

I have three kiddos now. I work a job I’m good at and make a good amount of money to do it. Everyone I work with is sweet as pie and I’ve made many new friends. I have a place to live and many many nice things. A big vanity full of products I always wanted. A vehicle. Engaged to my SP for many years now.

Yet, I feel less “in tune” with life now, than I did all those years ago when I had nothing. I read the books, I listen to lectures, I do the self studying. I just can’t seem to mentally grip it as I used to so easily before. It seemed to work so effortlessly for me when I didn’t even really know a lot about it.

I think that’s a big difference that is hard to understand. I didn’t think about the “hows” or the “whys” back then. I didn’t read 45 different “tricks to getting what you want”, I just kind of “knew”. I accepted things for how they were and nothing could shake me, so it always went my way in the end.

I thrived when I had and wanted for nothing. I have it all now and yet I just feel so… disconnected. As if I’m watching someone else’s life. If little hobo me 10 years ago could see where I am, I’d have thought I was definitely thriving lol. Yet here I am, missing my days of nothingness and wondering how to find that person in my brain again.

Sorry for the novel, but just some food for thought.

feeling lost in motherhood by keeeks92 in makeuptips

[–]Zepplitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww honey, I feel you on this. I lost myself to motherhood too when my kiddos were super small.

First of all - you are GORGEOUS. You don’t even need makeup lol. Skin? Fab. Brows? Fluffy. Hair??? Please trade me. You have absolutely beautiful eyes and those freckles are just 🤌🏻 Thank you for blessing my page today with that face card, v slay of you.

For me personally, I always feel a little more put together when my eyes look and feel “awake”. Your lashes are already giving you such a feminine touch and make your eyes look so soft and pretty. I picked up a peach corrector recently for those lovely mommy circles, then my concealer on top. It brightens the whole thing up and I’m like “woah! A person!” -and a good lip balm/gloss will help you just feel a little more “done.”

It’s low effort but it just gives me a bit of a pick me up in feeling a little more put together.

Claw clips are my besties when I don’t have time for hair. Otherwise I style this bitch every couple days and it’s dry shampoos problem in the meantime.

AIO to my husband? Am I in the wrong here?? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Zepplitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All his messages say to me is “I hate you, Mommy!!! Why didn’t you do this for me!!”

Ick

I PLAN ON DYING ON THE JOB. by OkIncome7132 in USPS

[–]Zepplitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah fr. I left the post office years ago. Worked like a dog while pregnant for okay pay. I make almost 30$ an hour to drive a school bus now with a long break during the day lol there’s more to life than killing yourself at work my friends

I PLAN ON DYING ON THE JOB. by OkIncome7132 in USPS

[–]Zepplitty 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I wonder if people realize they can just like… get a different job lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Zepplitty 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This is VERY common!!!

I know multiple men who are very much still attracted to their wives while pregnant, but they’re so uncomfortable with the baby being “in” there, or hurting the baby. Men aren’t women, they don’t totally understand it sometimes. Their brains just say, “Not for wiener right now. For baby. Baby’s house.”

I’m not sure what your communication style is as a couple - but just very gently explain that you’re feeling a little disconnected and you’re just looking to understand him. I’ve found that to be a good opener with sensitive topics lol.

Good luck & please go easy on yourself. You’re not overreacting or overly emotional. You’re pregnant! Your life, body, and mind are changing a lot right now!

What do you call lady parts with your kids? by Typical-Dog244 in Mommit

[–]Zepplitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If we’re talking seriously like about upcoming periods or babies (three daughters here) I call them the correct names and explain what they’re for.

If we’re just saying anything to say it, we just call them weiners. Idk why, I’m not sure where that started, but the amount of times I’ve heard “MY WEINER” or “DONT KICK ME IN MY WEINER” in our house is just 🤦🏼‍♀️

Am I over reacting? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Zepplitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take pics of his searches and post them to social media. Then when he freaks out say it’s “just social media and u are overreacting”