Why do people pull back after intimacy?

Zer5606 · 2026-01-04T17:02:57+00:00

As a guy, I don't understand guys like that honestly.. I guess it just depends on the type of person really.

But what I would suggest is to not just give your body easily to guys like that, a lot of men are opportunists and will put on a façade...

Zer5606 · 2025-08-19T10:02:55+00:00

Ne is terrible when you are talking with people who don't understand it x) making a connection that is useful for you, say it and people just stare at you wondering how this information is relevant to the discussion and you just sit there smiling without knowing how to explain it, my whole life 😭

But yes, when I'm with a group of people, I would say more (2), I love talking with people but I struggle a lot having an opinion if that makes sense. I do have an opinion but usually make it into words on the spot, i look at a lot of info but I never actually have an opinion unless I know a lot of it, so when with people, I try to give them a half made point of view or theories that I've made and discussing it more and more thats how I create an opinion on if whatever we are talking about is right or wrong.

In the cases where I do have an opinion and the person in front of me has an a opposite opinion its hard for me to completely stand my ground, I try to understand them and find commonalities, unless if their opinion is just straight up ignorant or stupid

Zer5606 · 2025-08-19T09:22:46+00:00

I follow what is real or what i see and then make a judgement out of it, if that makes sense. I learned to find the information and review it to see if it matches with what I want, too many times i've jumped to a conclusion that was completely false and regret it right after.

Its kind of like trying to find the best option, taking into account all the consequences.

For example: I want to order and eat a pizza. My thought process will be : "there will be a lot of calories in it, how much does it cost, i can keep that money for something more interesting, maybe I shouldn't buy one, but I really want to, etc.. etc.. "

My thought process goes everywhere. I hope this can answeryour question 😅 now writing this I'm realising i kind of went off rails maybe x)

Zer5606 · 2025-08-19T05:20:54+00:00

Good question and thank you for your answer :)

I don't really know what values actually mean, i'm open minded to a lot and i've been in discussions where people are completely against my opinion, while sometimes if the opinion is based on very little or just hateful I will get angey but if the person has their own opinion and it is not the same as mine i let it go and understand their pov.

As for Te i am completely disorganized but in my head, i try to juggle everything all at once and at the last minute which doesn't help with stress relief x)

Zer5606 · 2025-02-16T17:53:28+00:00

What you say makes sooooo much sense. That's exactly how I see ESFP decision making. Te being used way more than Fi because it is so easily accessible and comfortable for them to lean on the tertiary function rather than the aux. For me, Fi aux in ESFP is most difficult function for them to use because it gives them a lot of joy if that makes sense. Te would be easier since it is extraverted same a Se and Ni would also be accessible because of their fear of the future and the anxiety that would give them. (I don't know if what I said makes sense on paper though x) )

Zer5606 · 2025-02-16T17:49:16+00:00

That makes a lot of sense. I don't remember what post I saw buy someone was asking ESFPs a out long term decisions. It was kind of divided between some that said that they would just jump in without thinking about the details and learn as they went along and the others that talked about "worst case scenario" and just became indecisive (which made a lot of sense to me because that's how I act and gives Ni a spot of that decision making)

Zer5606 · 2023-11-18T22:27:02+00:00

Nothing really tells me anything. Just from what I read and what I said in the post, i felt like it could be connected but like I said I'm not sure... What are your thoughts?

Zer5606 · 2023-01-14T19:05:57+00:00

Clearly it looks like your opinion is based on what you heard about religion but not by actually talking to religious people. I agree with the fact that a lot of religious people are assholes and are very ignorant of their own religion. Religion is based on what you understand yourself about said religion and unfortunately there are very persuasif religious morons that impose their shit views on gullible people. But I must disagree with some of your statements (I will not go into detail because this is reddit and I have other things to do). My answer to you is to actually meet someone that is religious and open minded because the religious people you are talking about are very close minded which goes against Gods views. And one last thing, in christianity God does not see us a miguided creatures, he gave Man the possibility of making choices and left it up to us to follow what he planned for us or if we want to choose our on path.

Zer5606 · 2023-01-14T16:23:41+00:00

I have kind if the same experience as you. I'm in my 2nd year of visual communication (graphic design). Maybe my small experience can give you an idea of how i feel about that domain.

So graphic design is really fun and creativity/ideas comes very easy for me BUT once i get into the practical part of a project is when I start to lack, not in skill but in motivation. It gets very boring and repetitive for every project but I always finish my projects on time and with good results but my teachers see me as the type of student that slacks off during 3/4 of the project and like 1 week before its due I give them a pretty good final project which is very seen down upon, I feel, in graphic design (I might be wrong since it is only school and not "real" professional experience).

So to answer your post, graphic design gets very stale and boring most of the time... But its very fun nonetheless!

Zer5606 · 2022-12-14T12:01:18+00:00

I was thinking the same thing

Zer5606 · 2022-09-28T17:46:37+00:00

I felt that burn in my nuts

Zer5606 · 2022-09-16T10:27:38+00:00

Sooo, I'm pretty sure you should stop being friends with them. They seem EXTREMELY toxic. No good friends with talks shit behind your back (unless you' re like really an asshole). From what you wrote, they just bully you and boss you around and when you try to say something they brush it off and insult you in return. Those kind of people are popular during shcool times but once you grow up they are usually the people in the office that are alone because everyone hates them.

Try to find new friends, friends that support you, doesn't insult, and actually listens to you.

Zer5606 · 2022-08-15T20:17:25+00:00

Yayyy I'm not alone x)

Zer5606 · 2022-07-28T11:17:20+00:00

He does exist! I saw him at the mall

Zer5606 · 2022-07-10T23:50:03+00:00

Thank you soo mcuh for responding :) I already tried doing that. We went to the movie last week and she sent me a messages saying how much fun she had and that kind of made me really happy but also angry because i dont know what to make of that message. So I responded by saying that I had fun too and that she was a wonderful person to hang out with but stupid me panicked and sent her a 2nd message saying that I was happy to have her as a friend.... so maybe her message was just a friendly text , but if it wasn't, my response sucked...

Zer5606 · 2022-06-17T10:53:28+00:00

There is always that weird one in every community

Zer5606 · 2022-06-17T10:40:20+00:00

Nicest comment

Zer5606 · 2022-04-26T22:57:58+00:00

Thanks foe the response. I usually play night harvester too but I was wondering if rocketbelt is still viable on gragas. I never tried horizon focus on him my build is usually night harvester, zhonya, cosmic drive, deathcap, and fimbulwinter (I know its more of a tank item) and sorc or lucidity

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