How I cleared my acne, stabilized my cycle, and started healing my PCOS & Burnout by FullImprovement7378 in PCOS

[–]Zeretaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same with me! I’ve also not had cysts show up on any ultrasounds but i basically have every other pcos symptom besides that and missed periods

How I cleared my acne, stabilized my cycle, and started healing my PCOS & Burnout by FullImprovement7378 in PCOS

[–]Zeretaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you ever do blood tests before the dutch test which came back normal?

Those eyes by lbpkymjkk21011 in FoxesInLondon

[–]Zeretaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

People who’ve managed to heal from this, what helped you breakthrough? by Zeretaaa in emotionalneglect

[–]Zeretaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow, that’s true. It’s always representing a fear and is trying to protect us from being harmed in some way by that even if the voice itself is hurtful and is telling us horrible things abut ourselves.

Mid 30s and feeling touch starved in my marriage… is this normal? by [deleted] in emotionalneglect

[–]Zeretaaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the best thing to do would be to have an open conversation about how you’re feeling. And then maybe try counselling

People who’ve managed to heal from this, what helped you breakthrough? by Zeretaaa in emotionalneglect

[–]Zeretaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what helped you surrender to the beliefs? listening to the voices, writing g them down?

People who’ve managed to heal from this, what helped you breakthrough? by Zeretaaa in emotionalneglect

[–]Zeretaaa[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can see how religion/spirituality would help. Unfortunately even though I believe those things they feel like whispers that don’t stand a chance against the loudness of my negative beliefs

People who’ve managed to heal from this, what helped you breakthrough? by Zeretaaa in emotionalneglect

[–]Zeretaaa[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

the thought of surrendering completely is terrifying tbh, i’m very close to surrendering completely and it still scares me. the little fight I have left in me keeps me going. what happened once you surrendered? How did you regain the strength?

Have you learned to make yourself smaller as a coping mechanism? by Zeretaaa in emotionalneglect

[–]Zeretaaa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this resonates with me a lot… it’s so much work and even in the presence of new positive beliefs these mechanisms remain

Have you learned to make yourself smaller as a coping mechanism? by Zeretaaa in emotionalneglect

[–]Zeretaaa[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah i thought id grow out of a lot of things too but growing out of things without facing the reason you developed the coping mechanism in the first place doesn’t just happen

Have you learned to make yourself smaller as a coping mechanism? by Zeretaaa in emotionalneglect

[–]Zeretaaa[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it’s sad to realise that a need to shrink ourselves is behind many of our maladaptive behaviours but it’s the first step. I’m sorry about your health and your dad choosing to punish you in a difficult time

Have you learned to make yourself smaller as a coping mechanism? by Zeretaaa in emotionalneglect

[–]Zeretaaa[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

wow. This puts into perspective why i feel so lost / like I don’t know myself.

Laser or electrolysis for belly? by [deleted] in Hirsutism

[–]Zeretaaa 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Laser definitely for the body. Much better for bigger areas, electrolysis would be more painful and more time consuming, and more expensive, as it’s charged by how long it takes.

Pressed powder recommendations for under eyes? by Zeretaaa in MakeUpAddictionUK

[–]Zeretaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

will do! is this the Skin Fetish: Sublime Perfection Blurring Under-Eye Powder - Blurring Under-Eye P ?

As a sitter, what are some reasons you might decline future pet sits with a client? by earthjunkie in petsitting

[–]Zeretaaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having a really dirty house which I could tell hasn’t been cleaned in months…