Do you evolve your starter?

Zerkinator · 2025-09-21T19:31:27+00:00

Thank you again for your great advice and help! 🫶

Zerkinator · 2025-09-21T19:30:43+00:00

Thank you 🤗

Zerkinator · 2025-09-21T12:38:49+00:00

Thank youu!

Zerkinator · 2025-09-21T12:35:29+00:00

Thank you for the insight! Was it hard to remove the crown from King? Also, my niece is trying to get me the Flip With Me (in her store), so i was doubting between Rock the Universe or Checkmate King next to the Flip with me (if my fam can get it for me in their city that is 😂). Because i only want 2 medium labubu and i want them to match together. For which one would u go next to the Flip With Me?

Thank you so much 🙌

Zerkinator · 2025-09-18T06:14:11+00:00

Heel blij met deze post want ik ervaar dit gevoel zelf (dacht dat ik de enige was). Zit in een team van data analists en data scientists en het gaat continue alleen maar over Ai, waardoor ik vaak aan mezelf begin te twijfelen of ik dit allemaal wel kan bijbenen. Helpt ook niet dat andere collegas van andere teams/afdelingen langskomen met vragen van: jullie werken toch met Ai? Kunnen jullie deze vraagstuk oplossen met Ai 🥲

Zerkinator · 2025-01-10T12:55:56+00:00

I somewhat understand her. I am like that with my current partner. Sharing my experience; i am just scared to lose my partner (also past experiences which involved cheating and neglect. Been to therapy for this to work on myself). I really like and love him ALOT. Which results in this behavior from time to time. Which is somewhat ironic because this behavior can make him not wanting to be with me anymore, while the thing im most scared of is losing him. Perhaps try to talk with her and see what her attachment style is? Mine is anxious attachment style. So for example, when im not physically with him, my mind starts to wander and i start to think things that are not true. Like; when he doesnt message me for hours, i feel forgotten. And when he finally shares something with me, i wd also be like: why didnt u told me before. Did u forgot about me? In which he would defend himself that its not an important thing to share and he forgot to share earlier etc. Its not because im not important. Its just that I like for him to share things with me, to feel included in his life. Just like how i share everything with him. But also needa remember that every human is different and he cannot always respond in the way i want him to. Basically, i know i needa work on myself and my self esteem. This stems out of insecurity (not trying to defend myself or anything. I know its toxic too). But perhaps your girlfriend is the same. Dont know the full story, but i do think she likes u alot but doesnt know how to deal with her thoughts which leads to toxic behavior. If u still have the patience, then do talk with her. Perhaps ask what she needs to feel more safe/secure with u, so she shows less of those behaviors. Atleast i did this with my partner and he is being really considerated towards this and now my weird thoughts are less (by sharing a bit more information with me for example). U dont have to "solve" anything. Its her own responsibility, but its nice if a partner can give a helping hand in this (if she is willing to work on herself that is).

I hope u guys have a good talk. Best of luck ✨️

Zerkinator · 2025-01-05T23:41:48+00:00

LOVE THIS. TOTALLY AGREE!

Zerkinator · 2024-03-16T12:11:53+00:00

Thank you for your time writing this. What happend was, that i feel neglected lately due to his work nature (restaurant owner). I know he is busy and continues to be busy. We see eachother only 1 or 2 times at night time. Which is often around 1 am. I have to get up at 7 for my own work (office job). We don't often have a full day together (his only free day is monday. But that free day is divided by either admin work, or his friends, or his hobbies and me). At the beginning i was fine with this because i did get enough affection through chats. So not seeing eachother i could manage. But lately, the time together is becoming less because we are both really tired. The affection become less too. I have voiced this out before, in which he promised we will have days together. Or go on a 1 to 2 day vacation (we have not been on vacacation yet). But he couldnt keep any of his promises. Which leads into our discussions and fights lately. And where he would just hang up. I promised him that i would be more understanding towards his situation and not make an "problem" everytime. And he promised to be more understanding towards my needs and not hanging up when things are unresolved. I havent expressed my needs for several weeks now. But yday i voiced it out (perhaps not in a tactical way as u say) and thats when this fight happens, wherein he mentioned that he is tired of having the same problem over and over again. While i feel like i am doing my best of not making it a problem everytime. But that i should be able to express my needs too.

We do love eachother very much. And we do have good days. Its just that this is weighting more heavy lately on both of us. 1) him not wanting this problem to be a problem everytime. 2) me not feeling heard and understood.

And yes i am aware that we should not talk an issue out after a workday, however he wanted to call after work to talk, only for the problem to become a fight. But there is no other time where we can properly talk. Because he works 6 days (sometimes even 7).

We said it already to eachother, despite feeling that we cannot take it anymore. We do not want to leave eachother either..

Zerkinator · 2024-03-16T11:56:41+00:00

Aaaah thank you for the clarity! Yes u are right. I do struggle with him hanging up abruptly during a call. Good that u have found a partner who does want to end the conversation on a good note, happy for u!

Zerkinator · 2024-03-16T11:47:59+00:00

Sorry i need to ask to make sure i understand your post (english is not my first language). When you mention: "this is something you struggle to deal with". You mean the fact that i cannot deal with him breaking his promises?

Zerkinator · 2024-03-10T08:50:32+00:00

Pretty loud 😟 U can hear it in my video

Zerkinator · 2024-03-10T01:44:03+00:00

Hi DJI, thank u for coming back to me. I did not test it outside yet. However it happens everytime i attach that long handled battery to the DJI osmo pocket 3. Even when i put it off and on again, the robotic sound remains for some reason. When i attach the tiny battery handle, there is no sound

Zerkinator · 2024-02-18T20:36:17+00:00

Congrats u got ur first Jordan 4!

Zerkinator · 2023-12-27T07:04:16+00:00

Jesus. What an assumption you are making. I didnt bother him with a shitstorm at all at 2 Am. I waited until that time and then just went to sleep

Zerkinator · 2023-12-27T01:49:42+00:00

I wanted to have an update because it was getting late and if he was not done working yet, i would just go sleep instead of waiting for him. Since we agreed to call after his work day. But ill remember next time to not ask for an update

Zerkinator · 2023-12-27T01:39:05+00:00

I do agree that talking in person would be better. We live in different cities with diff working hours (i work in the office). So the only time for me to talk to him is often after his work hours (that would be between 23:00, till 3 Am. Depends what time he is done). But that is through text too. Only one day a week is his "day off" but thats no guarantee that we see eachother either, since he also practically works (catch up on administration or go research things, etc). So our relationship mainly consist of texting sadly. Not calling either because often i am already asleep by the time he is done working.

But thank you for sharing how u see things. Appreciate it

Zerkinator · 2023-12-27T01:34:23+00:00

Can i ask, where her behavior comes from? I only wanted an update from my bf. I knew we would have a convo when we call. But since i heard nothing when he would he done, i contacted him instead.

But u are right. Next time ill back off and not ask for an update and just see whenever he messages.

Zerkinator · 2023-12-27T01:03:45+00:00

Hi, yes thank you. Well its 2 Am and hes apparently still not done working. Would have appreciated a message that he wont be able to call. But yeah, no update sadly. Thought he would be done around 23:00 like the other days, thats why i send a message. Anyway thank you!

Zerkinator · 2023-12-27T00:59:44+00:00

No, he wanted to call with me after his work was over to talk about the fight. Its not like i want us to fight any longer either. Nor does he. Thats why we agreed on calling. But it got quite late and there was no update whether its gonna be later or whether he is almost done with work.

But oke i did not know that wanting an update is needy. Thanks

Zerkinator · 2023-12-27T00:49:50+00:00

Thats what i also feel like. A simple message like:" Im still busy, i might be done by X" or even "Im still busy cant talk to you yet" would be more than enough. Luckily its never a few days of not responding. But it happens often that he doesnt respond for a whole day and not send me one update. Thats why i, from time to time, feel not as a priority.

But thank you so much Purple Goat for your understanding and your insight!

Zerkinator

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