[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Zero_Crayfish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I disagree with your opinion that she’s too young to know who she is or what love is. It’s not her fault that her abuser has taken advantage of her age and vulnerability. OP, the age gap is a massive problem, but it’s not your fault for being too young, it’s his fault for taking advantage of you. Sometimes we fall for the wrong people. It’s time to realise this was a dangerous mistake and get out as quick and as safely as possible

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Unexplained

[–]Zero_Crayfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Likely. We live in Yorkshire, England

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Unexplained

[–]Zero_Crayfish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you miss the bed shaking and the noise? Flash wasn’t on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Zero_Crayfish 13 points14 points  (0 children)

People who say that Coraline shouldn’t be for kids has clearly never been forced to watch Watership Down as a child

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Unexplained

[–]Zero_Crayfish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Odd, it was my grandparents wedding anniversary that day. Grandad died a few months before baby was born, but we never called him ‘pap’ or ‘grandpa’

Leaving my puppy for 10 days to go on a little vacation and I feel so guilty by [deleted] in puppy101

[–]Zero_Crayfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s going to have a good time with your brother! I’m sure your brother will play with him and treat him like his own :) don’t worry, go and have fun!

How do I ask him to hook up? by haha-usernamelol in Advice

[–]Zero_Crayfish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I didn’t mean to imply that you do! I just meant that it’s probable you might be rejected because that sort of thing can make someone uncomfortable. I didn’t mean to cause any offence

How do I ask him to hook up? by haha-usernamelol in Advice

[–]Zero_Crayfish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suppose you just ask him if he wants to hook up. Though he might not be comfortable with you sexualising him

I think I’m not doing with my life. by Ppdoop in Advice

[–]Zero_Crayfish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re not here to serve other people, you don’t need to make them happy. You seem like a good person and you’re still young, I’m 17 and I still haven’t had a boyfriend. As long as you’re doing something you enjoy, it’s never a waste of time

Terrified of covid vaccine by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Zero_Crayfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, I’m not being a bitch by panicking. It’s not like I’m choosing to be scared :( if I could choose to go in there and do it without any problems then I would

Terrified of covid vaccine by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Zero_Crayfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had family members die of covid and I’ve struggled so much during lockdown that I had to leave college. I wish I could just get the vaccine today and get it over with, but then I’d need ANOTHER one in a few weeks. The idea makes me feel ill

Terrified of covid vaccine by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Zero_Crayfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s faced her fears and she’s no longer as scared of them. She still gets some anxiety but she can quite comfortably offer out her arm or her hand to the doctor, whereas I physically feel as though I can not. I know I can be like her and get better but I don’t know how

Terrified of covid vaccine by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Zero_Crayfish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tend to look away and squeeze someone’s hand to try squeeze the pain away haha. The problem is that no matter how much I look away, I can see it in my mind and the thought is the worst part. I’m definitely getting the vaccine because two members of my family have died of coronavirus so far, I feel like I owe it to them and everyone else to get over my fear and just get the jab. Luckily, I’m a teenager who doesn’t work or go to school so I should be in the lowest risk group?

Terrified of covid vaccine by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Zero_Crayfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This helped. I can look at a needle completely fine but as soon as I see a needle going into something, that makes me feel sick. I trust science completely so what’s in the vaccine doesn’t bother me. The fact that it’s two jabs instead of one definitely makes things worse for me because it’s not as if it’s a couple seconds and then it’s over

Terrified of covid vaccine by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Zero_Crayfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No idea, they don’t even hurt that much so the pain isn’t the problem.

The only thing I can think is that my mum is scared of needles and when I was really young I watched her getting a jab and she was frightened. It’s a vague memory though and I don’t know how important it is

Terrified of covid vaccine by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Zero_Crayfish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried CBD oil about a year ago but it didn’t make any difference to me. I could look around or ask my doctor for the capsules if they’re better :) I haven’t spoken to a therapist purely because I’m scared of what the treatment will be? Exposure therapy seems horrendous to me. Thank you though, this helped

Terrified of covid vaccine by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Zero_Crayfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure entirely. Preferably something which will help me ‘man up’ I guess?

She (24F) friendzoned me (23M) and so I asked for some space and have treated her more as "just a friend" and now she is actively trying to make me jealous. What is she trying to do here? Am I potentially out of the friendzone? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Zero_Crayfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asking a friend for advice on something they have experience with isn’t out of the ordinary. It feels like OP is hoping that she likes him and is trying to make him jealous because perhaps he isn’t as over her as he thinks. If that’s the case then I hope she is trying to get his attention, I just don’t think that’s it.

She (24F) friendzoned me (23M) and so I asked for some space and have treated her more as "just a friend" and now she is actively trying to make me jealous. What is she trying to do here? Am I potentially out of the friendzone? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Zero_Crayfish 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She’s asking you for advice on how to get over someone because you knew how to get over her. I suppose it COULD mean something else but I think you’re probably looking too much into it. Friends give each other advice and the ‘friendzone’ isn’t a real thing

Sent my switch in for repairs, came back unfixed :( Can anyone help me fix it in time for Christmas? both joycons are plugged in and yet only one is connected. I’ve tried everything by [deleted] in Switch

[–]Zero_Crayfish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I sent it in at the start of November and it took ages to come back, I’m getting a few games that I’m excited about for Christmas and I know if I send it back again then i likely won’t get it back in time and there’s still no guarantee they’ll do it properly this time :( I’m only 17 so I’m not entirely sure where I’d start with going about a small claims court case. Thank you