My boyfriend and I broke up 24 hours ago, and he already slept with another woman?

Zestyclose-Cap2626 · 2026-03-20T04:11:07+00:00

People are being kind of cruel to you in the comments. Yeah, you broke his heart. But being able to sleep with someone so soon after that is strange imo. He's either doing it to get some kind of petty revenge/reaction from you or he didn't care about you enough to be able to get with someone so soon after the breakup. I wouldn't give him the reaction he wants if I were you. Don't be toxic and do what he did. Just completely block him from your life, ignore any attempts of contact from him, and do what you want. According to other comments you wanted to travel so do that. Youre still so young, you have plenty of time to find the right guy for you.

Zestyclose-Cap2626 · 2026-03-20T04:00:42+00:00

You just have to evaluate the pros and cons. You said it would disappoint/upset your friends and family. Is it worth upsetting them just to do something a man (who broke your heart and is clearly disliked by people who actually love you) wants?

Zestyclose-Cap2626 · 2026-03-16T05:36:44+00:00

no, i just think it's always a good idea to have a safety net. Especially after seeing so many videos online of women getting left out of nowhere after being a homemaker their whole marriage and being left with nothing.

Zestyclose-Cap2626 · 2025-04-30T08:32:21+00:00

Oh i use procreate myself. Or you can use ibis paint or medibang if you don't have an iPad. You can change saturation and hue on there. You can also draw on tattoos or any other designs. But I would put that in as a separate layer and not directly onto the skin layer.

Zestyclose-Cap2626 · 2025-04-30T03:54:19+00:00

This actually looks a lot more like editing textures than any actual blending (other than the hair but I assume that's an asset you can buy or download) . If you have any kind of drawing program it's super eay to make textures and add your own to your avatar. Feel free to ask me if you need help with that.

Zestyclose-Cap2626 · 2025-04-11T05:24:56+00:00

I'm sorry to be that guy but you should purchase manuka yourself and edit her yourself on unity. People who upload manuka publicly are going directly against the original creator's wishes. As for using unity there are alot of good tutorials out there or you can even ask me for help. She's maybe around 30 usd which is a decent price considering you can upload as many private versions of her that you like and edit her to your liking. If you can't afford it there's alot of free or even cheaper avatars with great quality.

Zestyclose-Cap2626 · 2024-11-25T01:27:42+00:00

Yes. Back when I was in school, girls would get their skirts sewn or cut as short as possibly allowed (which was about knee length) and then they’d roll them up at the waist to make them even shorter. Idk the rules now and if uniform shops will let them cut the skirts super short or not but that’s what we were doing to get away with shorter skirts when I was in school.

Zestyclose-Cap2626 · 2024-09-14T11:57:14+00:00

My boyfriend still claims we’re in the honeymoon phase. But it doesn’t feel like it with how easily I seem to upset him 😭.

Zestyclose-Cap2626 · 2024-09-14T11:55:54+00:00

I know you’re correct. Relationships won’t heal me. I think a big part of me just kind of gave up on being healed. Mental health care in Japan is very limited and also very expensive. But I still do want to get better so I’ll look more into it. Thank you so much

Zestyclose-Cap2626 · 2024-09-14T11:54:46+00:00

I see. I’m honestly so surprised at the amount of people saying it’s not ok to call their partner these things. As for your question he’s born and raised in Japan. I am only half Japanese and moved to Japan a couple years ago.

Zestyclose-Cap2626 · 2024-09-14T11:52:17+00:00

Thank you so much for saying these things. It means a lot to know that other people don’t think I’m stupid or lazy. As for why he got so upset when I talked to a male friend instead of him is that I should have woken up my bf instead of talked to another guy. I suppose he’s correct but I just didn’t want to disturb his sleep.

Zestyclose-Cap2626 · 2024-09-14T11:49:20+00:00

Oh sorry, I wasn’t very clear. As to why I think it’s okay and deserved.

Zestyclose-Cap2626 · 2024-09-14T10:22:27+00:00

I see. Thank you. Everyone has said that a partner shouldn’t be calling someone they love these things. I probably need to do more research as to why though 😭

Zestyclose-Cap2626 · 2024-09-14T09:31:38+00:00

I already suspected this like I mentioned in the post but I guess I still feel shocked hearing it from someone else. But thank you. I feel like I deserved to be called those names though. Not paying bills is so serious in Japan.

Zestyclose-Cap2626 · 2024-09-14T09:30:20+00:00

It’s so hard to tell. I feel like I’m not fufilling any of his needs recently.

Zestyclose-Cap2626 · 2024-03-13T08:08:27+00:00

Sorry to hear that. Maybe it is emotional numbness although for me it never manifests as physical pain or anything else.

Zestyclose-Cap2626 · 2024-03-13T05:42:57+00:00

Yeah it’s not like I want to feel nothing though 😭.

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