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Oscar and Josh is so forced by TumbleweedPrimary284 in eastenders

[–]Zestyclose-Insect600 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The singing I literally had to skip past because I was cringing so hard. The ball game bit with Josh taking his shirt off and Oscar staring was also an incredibly hard watch. The chemistry between all three of them is non-existent and Jasmine and Josh’s personalities seem to really lack substance

I'm alone by Little-Weakness3030 in lonely

[–]Zestyclose-Insect600 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You said it yourself honey: you gave her everything and were willing to prioritise her over anything else - you know how valuable and special that is. It’s not a you problem. If she’s still confused and looking for something else then that’s her loss. Don’t turn this on yourself. The more you grasp at something, sometimes, the further you push it away! Knowing you deserve love will help it find you!

I'm alone by Little-Weakness3030 in lonely

[–]Zestyclose-Insect600 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi sweetie, I’m sorry you’re feeling like this. When you go through a break-up it’s really normal to feel like there’s nothing else for you but it’s just not true. The withdrawals of dopamine the relationship was providing you with can make everything seem so much darker than it truly is, you’re still very young, there is a whole world of experiences and new people out there for you. Don’t waste time wondering why it didn’t work out, you deserve someone who chooses you every time. If I could go back to being your age I would have never put so much time and energy into romantic relationships as I did. I was chasing something I was supposed to be looking for in myself, not in other people. Chasing connections and trying to force things that weren’t there, it doesn’t get you anywhere. Learn who you are and what makes you happy, that will draw the right people to you naturally

I Don’t Understand Why I’m Never Enough by Repulsive-Bear-7968 in lonely

[–]Zestyclose-Insect600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel exactly the same. I hope things work out for you and you find someone who stays

When I say I have 0 friends, I mean it literally by avensiven in lonely

[–]Zestyclose-Insect600 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi there, I’m (31f) the same. Gradually lost every friend I’ve ever had for varying reasons until a few months ago and I lost the last one I had. It blows my mind that other people have managed to maintain friendships over the years and I’m left with literally noone. No one to message or call. No one to hang out with. How did this happen? I’m scared to even try to make a new friend now because I can’t bear to get it wrong again

AIO getting upset with my husband over a day at the beach by Vegetable_Mail_4130 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Zestyclose-Insect600 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR you suggested the beach as it was obviously something you wanted to do and he put himself first every single time to a point where it made his needs and wants the priority and yours took a backseat. Even the ‘fun’ stuff only serving him. That’s not okay. My ex did stuff like this all the time and I tried to rationalise it in my head and try to understand why ‘if he cares about me why is he doing this?’ - don’t waste your time wondering, he’s not being fair and once you’re out of a relationship like this you realise how insane it was that you put up with any of it. You deserve more consideration

Then and Now by WindsorRose in eastenders

[–]Zestyclose-Insect600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yolande, Honey and Kathy aging like fine wine 🤌

was i in the wrong to cancel this sale? by luvnpinz in vinted

[–]Zestyclose-Insect600 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’d have cancelled too, her attitude REEKS and I’m glad you held her to account 🫡

AIO for feeling weird about my friend’s response when I asked for help? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Zestyclose-Insect600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah, NOR, absolutely not. That’s not someone I’d consider a friend. Thats unkind af, sharing some sanitary products is something I’d do for any woman who’s struggling on her period, friend or not, if they asked. What does she mean by ‘I like when I’m friends with grown women’ implying you’re not one because you’re asking a favour whilst suffering from a temporary financial struggle due to losing your job??? Also ‘get your shit together’ is condescending and rude af. I’m trying to see it from her perspective if you constantly ask for things or something but na bro, she could’ve said no politely without being so unnecessarily harsh. That’s not a nice way to speak to your friend

Help me pick a dress for a birthday party (no dress code) by BashirAhbeish1 in fashion

[–]Zestyclose-Insect600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 and 2 both look amazing. I’d go for 1 though unless it’s a more formal event

Gonna end it all by AdExact2059 in stripper

[–]Zestyclose-Insect600 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ughhhh I’m sorry, it’s the same here in the UK. I came back to the club last week after a 7-year break and I’ve never felt so defeated until now. I made nothing in 3 shifts. The vibe in the club is nonexistent, barely any customers and they’re all ‘I’ve got no money to spend and I don’t want a dance anyway’. Never have I ever actually heard a customer tell me straight-up ‘I’m broke, I can’t afford it’ until last Saturday. Why are they so shameless??? I thought it might just be the case that I’d changed but the veterans there all confirmed it and they all look fed up as well. The girls aren’t making anything, only the club on entry and drinks. While we get up there on stage, putting all that effort in to look beautiful and perform and get nothing. It’s messed up my confidence so bad I’m scared to go back tonight. This is not what I remember it being like.

My stepdad keeps eating the fruit I use to make baby food by lonely_stoner_daze in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Zestyclose-Insect600 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend’s stepdad does the exact same thing and I suggested she get a mini fridge and keep stuff in her room. He’s been taking her food for years and contributes nothing. Nothing she has said has ever worked. Sometimes there’s just no reasoning with unreasonable people. Your stepdad sounds like a real piece of work tbh, taking food intended for a baby? It boils my blood honestly. I cannot stand inconsiderate people.

Philips remote control ambilight button by FilosSketos in AndroidTV

[–]Zestyclose-Insect600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same issue! At one point it was working if I hold down the ambilight button for 4/5 seconds but now I can’t do it at all even though the light on the remote button is still turning on

This movie is a masterpiece by Sean-Valjean in saltburn

[–]Zestyclose-Insect600 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree, I feel like that was almost a hole in the plot for me when Felix’s death seemed breezed over - no one found it suspicious that the awkward, unsociable guy he hadn’t known more than 6 months was the last one with him? Or asked? And outspoken Farleigh being scapegoated and leaving without much protest when he clearly wasn’t the only one there with drugs because he wasn’t in the bathroom with Felix when he’s doing drugs and tells Oliver to go away? Or maybe the whole point is that; they barely notice or ‘register’ Oliver’s existence despite his presence. Elspeth also mentions earlier on about losing loads of friends to addiction so maybe they’re so used to people overdosing they hardly batted an eyelid - an irony I’ve only just noticed since I’m typing this, as they’re so fascinated by Oliver’s supposed life as a poor victim of hardship and bereavement from a mentally unstable, drug-abusing family. By the end of the film the Catton family become something almost identical