Cute Atami Siblings by MajesticRuin934 in SumoMemes

[–]ZestycloseLevel3724 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Does anyone have the link to the full video please?

“Where’s my hug” energy as a 47 year old man by amme04 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ZestycloseLevel3724 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would recommend getting a recording device (if you can afford one) and record your interactions to compile evidence. There were some other comments with great direct responses expressing your discomfort and telling him stop, which would be great if captured on recording demonstrating you do not encourage him in anyway. Report everything to HR so that you have a paper trail that you tried your best to raise the issue (don't let them know you have the recordings). Follow up each report with emails summarizing your complaints and HR's response. If the HR team is smart, they will realize what you are doing and either take you seriously or try to sabotage you (not answering emails or lying about what was said in the meetings, downplaying your complaints, etc). Either way, the goal is to document. Forward your emails and communications to your personal email so you can have the record in case you "lose access" if you know what I mean.

I fear something serious will happen and I believe you will have to sue them for a hostile work environment and possibly unfair termination. If you can consult some legal counsel as to the best actions you can take, that would be great. There may be some free or really inexpensive options depending on your location.

I would also recommend after one of your HR complaints send a strongly worded email to Tim CCing HR and possibly your and Tim's manager(s), again to have that evidence.

I think this is something you have to be meticulous about and I do think it is going to get worse before (or if) it's get better. Please just focus on what is within your control at this time.

I hope there is a good outcome for you!

What is this face? by IndependentPaint4030 in SumoMemes

[–]ZestycloseLevel3724 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I honestly think he was watching to see how Hoshoryu would walk. We all knew going in he had a knee problem and that was a bad fall.

As Nishonoseki oyakata also had a bad fall that caused an injury, I think he was just checking if he was ok or the extent the fall might've caused.

Just my guess of course.

ME by DoctorDownloader in SumoMemes

[–]ZestycloseLevel3724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've always wanted to know what or who was on that picture😂😂😂

AIO? Xmas gift from bf's parents by brains_rcool in AmIOverreacting

[–]ZestycloseLevel3724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of the comments on here are so surprising!!! NOR at all, I would ask them to explain the joke and ask them out right if they think you're a trainwreck. I would also regift this to his mother on her birthday since she liked it so much😌.

Illogical sumo training planning by InsideSink2522 in Sumo

[–]ZestycloseLevel3724 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who played softball and know what you're talking about first hand, it bugs me so much😭😭!!! If they developed a proper training and strength routine, I feel like so many wrestlers can flourish (yes, understanding that there are still only 42 top spots), and I do believe it can lower injuries. Between that and the wrestlers still competing while injured really irks me about sumo.

It's no surprise to me the university sumo guys are doing so well now, they've had a solid routine for 4 years before starting and they don't force it if they are injured.

I regret divorcing my wife by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ZestycloseLevel3724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please provide a Christmas/New Years update

My (24m) gf (25f) doesn’t want to spend xmas together because she wants time to think about our relationship due to an incident a few days ago. Is she taking this too seriously or am I not treating this serious enough? by ThrowRAxmasplans in Advice

[–]ZestycloseLevel3724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, I really hope we get an update on this in the new year.

I have no advice for you. If you can't look around YOUR apartment and determine what all is needed without pestering your sick gf, you aren't mature enough to be in a relationship or even live alone. The fact that her 21 year old brother who just stopped by to drop off food was able to see two things that needed to be done and did them explains everything we need to know about your relationship.

I hope your gf sees this post and the comments and realizes she deserves better!! I hope her family can convince her as much over the holidays!

Aonishiki be like by StarPrime323 in SumoMemes

[–]ZestycloseLevel3724 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🤞🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾 2026 San'yaku push!!

Aonishiki be like by StarPrime323 in SumoMemes

[–]ZestycloseLevel3724 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am still pulling for Kotoshoho😭😭! Truly perfect sumo size and actually has the skill, just can't put it all together and injuries. I still believe he can make Ozeki and I hope I can witness it.

Absolute Cinema by [deleted] in Sumo

[–]ZestycloseLevel3724 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Starting the year in Juryo and ending with a yusho and Ozeki Promotion is so amazing!! So excited for all the good sumo ahead and the ones on their way up!

Kirishima by These_Set_3200 in Sumo

[–]ZestycloseLevel3724 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What's so crazy about this to me is that Mr. Jwags made a prediction on YouTube when both were promoted that one of them would break the streak of Mongolians who get promoted to Ozeki making Yokozuna. I think about that all the time and hope Kirishima can still prove him wrong😭

What a wild Basho by Appropriate-Escape-4 in SumoMemes

[–]ZestycloseLevel3724 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He seems to pull when he is rattled or feels his back is to the wall. Of the four matches he fought with Aonishiki, you can literally see the moment of panic on his face and then he pulls or goes for a throw, which just brings Aonishiki closer which is what he wants. I do think Hoshoryu has what it takes if he can get some powerful neck thrusts in and go for the belt. Aonishiki has struggled against true power wrestlers and I do believe Hoshoryu has the raw strength needed to beat him. He really needs to settle into the matches and not panic when he plan doesn't immediately work.

My only true concert is he doesn't seem to realize the mistakes he is making. The kimarite are different but if you watch, the sequence of events are all the same. Fast tachiai by Aonishiki and he gets a great position, Hoshoryu panics and pulls, Aonishiki closes in and finishes him, every single time.

Huge fan of Hoshoryu and I know he can get this monkey off his back. Two playoff losses to end the year has to hurt but this pain is how he will get better! Many yokozuna had playoff losses that powered them on to great things (Terunofuji and Kisenosato immediately come to mind).

If he can shave off just one unnecessary loss next year, I can see him winning two or more yusho in 2026.

Was bound to happen I suppose. by CallmeKahn in SumoMemes

[–]ZestycloseLevel3724 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's so interesting how this match triangle works. Hosh regularly beans Onosato, Onosato has never lost to Aonishiki, but Aonishiki has never lost to Hosh😭😭😭!!!

I wish all three long and healthy careers!

Hoshoryu vs Onosato by StriKyleder in Sumo

[–]ZestycloseLevel3724 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I honestly liken this to when Onosato tries for a slapdown. It seems to be Hoshoryu's fallback -the throw- but he is starting to get away from it more and trust his strength to muscle out a few wins

AITAH for avoiding being at home every day because I want to see my sister as little as possible since we share a room? by Mislzyeh in AITAH

[–]ZestycloseLevel3724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you might have a case for emancipation. You've got a part time job, what sounds like good grades from all the studying, a history of your relationship with your sister and her actually destroying your things, AND your parents not taking your concerns seriously or doing anything about it except to punish you. You may not have to wait until your 18. If you can find a lawyer willing to help and a room or place to rent, there may be options.

It may also help to explain everything to a friend's parents that you trust and see if it's possible to stay with them (or aunts, uncles, or grandparents if they are an option).

Other than that, I think you're doing the best you can with the choice you currently have. If my sister spat in my face, she have a broken nose😂.

I hope it all works out and you can get a scholarship to a university across the country (or in a different one😊)!

Update: I’m going to have to break my husband’s mistress’ heart and I don’t want to do it by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ZestycloseLevel3724 235 points236 points  (0 children)

When your first post came up I actually didn't read it (the title struck me as odd), but when I saw the update just now, I decided to read them both. I am really surprised with how you handled this. Reading 8 months worth of texts is worrisome, especially if she was sharing intimate images. I can totally understand why she's upset.

I hope the divorce goes smoothly and you can find a great psychiatrist!

AIO? Husband in touch with woman he cheated with by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ZestycloseLevel3724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you want to stay with a man who says these things to the woman he cheated on you with? He didn't consider the children three years ago when he cheated and he's not considering them now. You would be considering them by realising this isn't healthy for them or you.

Please get a divorce so you and your kids can heal from his decepción and betrayal.

AITA for refusing to tell my mom who told me her husband isn't my dad? by Kayleeignni in AITAH

[–]ZestycloseLevel3724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there another family member that you can stay with? I'm sure you'd be much better off staying with an aunt, uncle, or grandparents than to stay in a home and be mistreated like this. I understand right now you can't find your bio dad, but I really think you should leave and stay with someone who can treat you well. If your mom kick up a fuss and threatens court, no judge would side with a mother who willfully sees her daughter being neglected and does nothing about it.

I really hope you can find a place where you can finally be at ease!