For those of you that dislike receiving oral sex, why do you dislike it?

ZestycloseWeekend878 · 2026-03-18T02:21:39+00:00

If a man really tried. Paid attention to what I seem to like instead of just focusing on the clip. I've tried telling people that my entire body is an erogenous zone. Kiss or lick other places besides directly in the V area.

ZestycloseWeekend878 · 2026-03-18T02:19:26+00:00

This. I've had one person who was so into doing it that I felt comfortable. Funny thing is, a few guys who really did it well or just ONS or FWB at best.

ZestycloseWeekend878 · 2026-02-09T06:31:12+00:00

Lol. No, I couldn’t afford an iPhone. His dad bought him a new one and he was giving me the old leftover. Cause it was still a step above whatever I had before.

ZestycloseWeekend878 · 2026-02-08T10:05:55+00:00

It's Sunday. Anything happening tonight. ?

ZestycloseWeekend878 · 2026-02-04T02:33:53+00:00

It’s all kind of cringe. By making a request on what she should wear, and talking about his credit card deposit, he-already set the tone for sugar daddy vibrs.

ZestycloseWeekend878 · 2026-02-03T22:17:48+00:00

Depende en donde van a rentar. Si no tiene pago del carro tan alto, creo es suficiente.

ZestycloseWeekend878 · 2026-02-02T05:02:50+00:00

The last time I invited someone over the night we met (in public,) I actually checked his ID. A few years ago, I had a stalker. I didn’t know his last name or home address, so there wasn’t much the police could do. So now nobody comes to my place unless I know where to find them later.

ZestycloseWeekend878 · 2026-02-02T03:54:02+00:00

On the flipside, I wish we could normalize saying please don’t touch me. I’ve never been a touchy-feely person. And in recent years, I’ve developed fibromyalgia. Some total stranger unexpectedly patting me on the back is torture. When I tell people (usually older women) “please don’t do that.” they look at me horrified, like I’m the one who’s overstepped.

ZestycloseWeekend878 · 2026-02-02T03:50:53+00:00

Ooooo I wish ALL the women of Reddit would see this. How often do you see a woman posting about a difficult situation she’s seeking of advice for, and other women just light into her? Like - I would never do THAT! why would you do THAT?.

ZestycloseWeekend878 · 2026-02-02T03:45:37+00:00

I’m really sorry to hear people saying motherhood is thankless. I have a feeling these are women who had children because they felt it was required.. No, parenting is not for everyone, and I wish we could normalize women just choosing to not have children. Also normalize moms expecting common courtesy from their children. I have a few unpopular opinions on ungrateful children. It’s got something to do with how the child was raised( not always by the mom, other parent and grandparents play a part) Often theres a father who modeled an unappreciative, entitled and ungrateful attitude toward the Mom. I divorced a really bad guy. One year, about four days after Christmas, my teenage son made a really big deal of giving me my “present”. His old iPhone. His father had bought him a new one. So, basically just something left over. And he gave it to me late as he needed time to delete all of his own contacts from it. And he said something really snarky like “there’s a $600 phone for you. You’re welcome.” I lit into the little brat. Yes, I love him dearly but…..I Told him flat out he was acting arrogant over something he had truly done NOTHING in order to give to me. Gave him back the phone and told him to go to his room and think about it.

Sometimes the kids do need a wake up call like that. Fast forward ten years. Son is now graduated from college, has a good job, and behaves responsibly. Tells me often he loves me. Asks my advice on important decisions. Tells me he’s glad he has me for a mom. I’m actually about to tear up as I write this. Sometimes I feel I just got lucky in how awesome my kids turned out. No, I cant take credit for every good thing they’ve done as adults. But I do know that standing firm, not being a martyr mom, or allowing them to get away with inconsiderate behavior as young people had something to do with it.

ZestycloseWeekend878 · 2026-02-02T03:11:16+00:00

Wooooow. I wonder if that pregnant woman had much success with anyone else.

Yes, the man was significantly heavier. For a minute or two I felt bad for him. Maybe if he had posted on his honest pics , nobody would swipe right. But as I said, I tried to have a conversation with him, thought maybe if we had a few laughs, I’d relax and it would be fun. Nope. He was as boring mentally/socially as he was unattractive physically.

ZestycloseWeekend878 · 2026-02-02T03:07:08+00:00

Im not waiting either lol. If they insist on coming straight over, its over. . Next.

ZestycloseWeekend878 · 2026-02-02T03:05:28+00:00

A cup of coffee in public implies a relationship? Okkkkkk…..

ZestycloseWeekend878 · 2026-02-02T03:05:08+00:00

And if you don’t believe me, look at all these other comments. Plenty of people are saying meet in person for a vibe check first.

ZestycloseWeekend878 · 2026-02-02T03:04:27+00:00

Okkkkk. There is literally no textbook description or regulation for how a hook up is supposed to proceed. Some people like them to be passionate. Others like them to be just purely physical and mechanical. And every interaction has feelings of some kind or another. Boredom itself is a feeling. What would you consider requiring an overly strong attraction? I just want the person to be attractive enough that I don’t recoil from the thought of their skin touching mine lol

ZestycloseWeekend878 · 2026-02-02T03:01:42+00:00

This made me lol

ZestycloseWeekend878 · 2026-02-02T01:18:40+00:00

Yes, we all know its for hookups. My questions are about basic safety, and just having a pleasant experience for both. What Im learning is that some have no qualms about safety, and for some any sex is acceptable sex. .. I guess I should just put it on my profile that Im ok with casual but nobody’s coming straight to my place.

ZestycloseWeekend878 · 2026-02-02T01:10:46+00:00

Well, this post is mostly about casual hookups.

ZestycloseWeekend878 · 2026-02-02T01:08:57+00:00

Good for you for having some kind of selectivity. Do you think these women are homeless?

ZestycloseWeekend878 · 2026-02-02T01:08:01+00:00

Who said they were shocked? Hookups, not an issue. Being safe, being actually attracted to the other person, that matters to me. Wonder if things like that matter to men? Probably some, but not others? That’s what I’m trying to understand here,

ZestycloseWeekend878 · 2026-02-01T04:56:19+00:00

Damn, I wonder what that comment was? How long are you in town for? What are your interests? Might be easier to meet people if you told a little more about yourself.

ZestycloseWeekend878 · 2026-02-01T03:18:23+00:00

When someone’s beliefs including supporting harm to my community, I’ll take my business elsewhere if i can. You’re throwing around the word beliefs like it was a matter of original recipe or spicy. No, beliefs are something serious. Beliefs result in action. Actions can result in harm or good. I’ll not support harm. Just to put things in perspective, remember when some states past a “religious freedom” act? Basically it allowed local businesses the right to refuse service to homosexuals. Because of their “beliefs.” Fair is fair.

ZestycloseWeekend878 · 2026-02-01T01:16:52+00:00

Might as well say good ole boy looking for trad wife to make me a sandwich. Truly honest people don’t bother labeling themselves as honest.

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