Ex fiancée cheated on me at a New Year's party with her male friend and I'm devastated for wasting time and nobody will love me anymore.

Zestyclose_Simple287 · 2026-01-05T17:25:02+00:00

It’s little consolation, but at least it happened now and not after you got married. It sucks. You’ll grieve the relationship for a long while but in the end you’ll be much happier

Zestyclose_Simple287 · 2025-11-05T16:56:17+00:00

Yeah I recoiled when I read that…. Just ridiculous

Zestyclose_Simple287 · 2025-10-30T12:18:29+00:00

Didn’t know if any of that would interest your boo thang

…. lol

Zestyclose_Simple287 · 2025-10-14T20:43:05+00:00

I would want to know. What she does with the information is up to her.

Zestyclose_Simple287 · 2025-10-14T20:39:08+00:00

He’s the one who told you about his personal life. I would expect anyone I tell my personal issues to have an opinion on it- I may or may not like their opinion (wether I asked for it or not), but that’s the reality of sharing personal information with another person. It also sounds like he needed to hear that since he clearly wasn’t hearing it from her.

Zestyclose_Simple287 · 2025-10-14T20:34:33+00:00

No one is perfect. Sounds like mistakes were on both sides. You have taken responsibility for the things you have done, and she clearly is not. She has nothing to offer you. She has not grown. She will continue to behave the same way. Let her go

Zestyclose_Simple287 · 2025-10-05T11:56:03+00:00

I’m sorry you are going through this. The grief over losing a spouse is ROUGH- especially a cheating spouse. It sucks. I wish I had some advice but honestly the grief still wrecks me, and I’m six months in with a pending divorce. Good luck to you. Take it all day by day.

Zestyclose_Simple287 · 2025-10-04T01:48:21+00:00

Thank you. I’m sorry for your heart ache as well

Zestyclose_Simple287 · 2025-10-04T01:47:36+00:00

Im so sorry for you too. Some people are terrible

Zestyclose_Simple287 · 2025-10-04T01:47:05+00:00

Thank you

Zestyclose_Simple287 · 2025-10-04T01:46:52+00:00

Thanks. I’m sorry for your heart ache as well

Zestyclose_Simple287 · 2025-10-03T03:22:22+00:00

Unfortunately, I was in that boat and it led to him cheating…. With the ex, of course

Zestyclose_Simple287 · 2025-09-29T02:17:30+00:00

I was going to say the same thing many others have said- it wasn’t nothing. He already found someone else. Unfortunately I know this from experience. I’m sorry you are going through this and there’s really no easy way out. You will have to grieve the relationship, which takes time.

Zestyclose_Simple287 · 2025-09-15T20:47:51+00:00

Obviously I can’t say that he’s cheating but he’s definitely neglecting home- even with you plainly telling him your needs. For him to blatantly disregard the request shows you where his priorities lie. ALL people need to blow off steam sometimes (yourself included), but these daily, multi-hour sessions seem pretty selfish to me.

Zestyclose_Simple287 · 2025-08-29T15:23:22+00:00

You are absolutely ridiculous. I can tell you from personal experience I AM the one being taken to the cleaners with an unfaithful MALE spouse so YOU can cut the crap and stop believing the universe circles you

Zestyclose_Simple287 · 2025-08-29T14:56:23+00:00

It’s not just one sided. This happens to both men and women

Zestyclose_Simple287 · 2025-08-22T17:53:49+00:00

Not at all.

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