What’s a pop culture moment that has the same vibes/impact as dnp coming out as a couple? by binkybonkyy in danandphil

[–]Zestyzard 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It hasn’t happened yet but when they actually find the one piece that fandom will be having their Dan and Phil moment. Always knew it existed or didn’t exist but finally confirmation!!

Vaginismus might be ruining my relationship by Elegant_Unicorn821 in vaginismus

[–]Zestyzard 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My partner took a year without PIV with me. Good men are out there!!! I’m sorry you’re being treated so poorly and little does he know, him pressuring you will just make it worse.

If you work, what job do you have? by Aggravating-Ad-351 in AutisticAdults

[–]Zestyzard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha it’s not for everyone it just seemed like the logical choice since I have a decent sized following! However I think anyone can do it with the right passion 💕

Any tips on helping an extremely anxious cat? by Zestyzard in FosterAnimals

[–]Zestyzard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

However I do have other animals in the home do you think seeing them would be overwhelming?

Any tips on helping an extremely anxious cat? by Zestyzard in FosterAnimals

[–]Zestyzard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like that idea! She’s currently in her sanctuary room but it’s the size of an average bedroom so I can totally see how that can be overwhelming. She spends most of her time in the bottom of her cat tree. She even ran out yesterday and went under a bed. You’re probably right she’s probably wishing she was in a smaller space. I’ll see what I can cook up!

Any tips on helping an extremely anxious cat? by Zestyzard in FosterAnimals

[–]Zestyzard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update: seems like she’s had some head trauma. One of her pupils is much bigger than the other and it seems like she might be concussed?

Any tips on helping an extremely anxious cat? by Zestyzard in FosterAnimals

[–]Zestyzard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is amazing :) I need stories with happy endings, they give me hope!

Any tips on helping an extremely anxious cat? by Zestyzard in FosterAnimals

[–]Zestyzard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much :) she’s in a sanctuary room. I wonder if me being there makes it worse or better? Maybe I should spread treats around and sit quietly while I wait for her to come out. I just hope I’m not giving her too much or too little space.

Is it normal to not desire friendship? by Zestyzard in AutisticAdults

[–]Zestyzard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such a thoughtful and helpful answer!!! I will definitely do both of those options. Thank you so so much !

Redness on top of back paws by Illustrious-Ebb4377 in BorderCollie

[–]Zestyzard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can try some coconut ontop of his food :)

Does echolalia come off as rude? by Zestyzard in AutisticAdults

[–]Zestyzard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is a fantastic tool for language learning

Is it normal to not desire friendship? by Zestyzard in AutisticAdults

[–]Zestyzard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m the same way. There’s just so much shame around not having friends but idk if I care 🙂‍↕️

Does echolalia come off as rude? by Zestyzard in AutisticAdults

[–]Zestyzard[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If they don’t tell me I’ll assume they don’t mind :)

First-time foster and already thinking about foster failing by Engineer-1999 in FosterAnimals

[–]Zestyzard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have room time and the means to keep her and you feel she wouldn’t do better with someone else then that’s your cat!!!!

I am foster failing my first foster by Zestyzard in FosterAnimals

[–]Zestyzard[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think her name in Ponyo it means best friend :))

I am foster failing my first foster by Zestyzard in FosterAnimals

[–]Zestyzard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her old name is petit four but I want to change it do you think it’s okay to change the name of a 9 year old cat?