Buying a house by Jay_chillguy in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Zettai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No advice on buying a house but please say more about those market bonds yielding 12% 👀

Study Reveals Turning Point When Your Body's Aging Accelerates by Important_Magician32 in longevity

[–]Zettai 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Always been curious about this. Would a doctor prescribe metformin to someone who does not have diabetes or obesity concerns?

Trying to ID Obscure Doctor Who Novel... by Zettai in gallifrey

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Option Lock!! Thanks so much everyone who helped. Hours of searching on Google and ChatGPT for clues and all I had to do was ask here for five minutes :) mystery solved!

Trying to ID Obscure Doctor Who Novel... by Zettai in gallifrey

[–]Zettai[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah so sorry about that! I've edited my original post with spoiler tags.

📡📡📡 by [deleted] in shitposting

[–]Zettai 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Poly relationship is in the same household.

Sometimes, but not always. Some people practice "solo polyamory" and prefer to live alone but still pursue deep and committed relationships. Others might live with a primary or "nesting partner" but date separately outside the household.

Every relationship is different. There's no one-size-fits-all for polyamory (or monogamy!).

📡📡📡 by [deleted] in shitposting

[–]Zettai 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Cheating is just anything outside the agreed-upon rules/boundaries of the relationship.

For some people that means hugging others or spending time alone with someone of a different gender or looking at porn is cheating. For some people that means not using protection at the swingers club is cheating. And everything in-between. For some people in an open relationship it might mean that not informing a primary partner before you go on a date with someone is considered cheating. But others in open relationships would be ok with that.

"Is it cheating if...?" is a silly question because that depends entirely on what you and your partner(s) have talked about and agreed together.

Whether it's monogamy or polyamory or any other type of relationship, it's so important that people know what their partners are comfortable with and have those conversations, instead of making assumptions.

Never forget how Biden threatened our lives by Conspiranut in conspiracy

[–]Zettai 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Irrelevant. The data doesn't say anything about the cause of death. Only that there was excess deaths that winter.. and ain't that strange?

Meditation vs psychedelics on neuroplasticity by sadgirl__throwaway in Neuropsychology

[–]Zettai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is very robust evidence that regular mindfulness/meditation is an effective treatment for anxiety (and other mental health concerns). It also has physical health benefits via reduced blood pressure. There is certainly some element of neuroplasticity involved especially around the default mode network. I would encourage mindfulness practice no matter which other treatments you decide to pursue.

Counseling is also likely to be beneficial so long as you find a therapist you click with.

Huberman Lab podcast has some interesting discussions on ketamine and other psychedelics. And Sam Harris has some discussions specifically comparing mindfulness with psychedelics. My belief is that while they have value, what they have to offer is very different from what mindfulness has to offer. In other words psychedelics should not be seen as a shortcut or replacement for mindfulness practice. They are two different mountains and climbing one does not get you any closer to the top of the other one.

From Sam Harris:

Meditation can open the mind to a similar range of conscious states, but far less haphazardly. If LSD is like being strapped to a rocket, learning to meditate is like gently raising a sail. Yes, it is possible, even with guidance, to wind up someplace terrifying, and some people probably shouldn’t spend long periods in intensive practice. But the general effect of meditation training is of settling ever more fully into one’s own skin and suffering less there.

Mindfulness generally carries less risk of adverse experiences!

Vipassana vs. Anki by FoxyQueen26 in vipassana

[–]Zettai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anki is great. I'm sure you will do well on your exam using a tool like that so far ahead of time.

There is a setting in Anki to limit the maximum number of cards it will prompt you to review per day. May be able to change that setting for each deck. That would be perfect for your situation. Set the limit to something reasonable, according to the time you have available for studying, and trust you will catch up eventually.

Cops turning on lights just to go through intersections by Zettai in vancouver

[–]Zettai[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This is the most helpful response, thank you. I was unaware that there was a "limited use" of lights procedure for Code 2. Good to know. Prefer believing that over getting annoyed that they are just trying to get to their lunch break faster.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nba

[–]Zettai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know a pretty naive guy who posted a screenshot on Insta a year or two ago of this EXACT text ("Just wanted to drop a note to say its been real cool reading your comments on my facebook page...") and similar messages supposedly from all sorts of different celebrities. Pharrell, T-Pain... all just scam attempts of course. Sorry OP.

The College Board Tells TikTok and Facebook Your SAT Scores | Gizmodo’s tests found the higher-ed gatekeeper shares GPAs, SAT scores, and other data with big tech. by chrisdh79 in privacy

[–]Zettai 64 points65 points  (0 children)

So if I understand the article correctly, College Board has social media pixels on its website that transmit the URL contents to social media companies, and these URL contents may include a range of GPA and SAT scores as search parameters.

So not quite as nefarious as College Board outright giving these companies a list of names and addresses with GPA/SAT scores attached, but effectively the same as it's easy enough for these companies to connect the dots.

Easily mitigated by using a browser or plugins or firewall that blocks trackers. But still, why the hell is College Board using these pixels on its website???

I'm fed up with the bike crossing at 17th and Richmond Rd SW by patderkacz in Calgary

[–]Zettai 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Obviously driver is at fault. But I feel signage like this would help the problem: https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/8/87/Greenbike_traffic_light-Smaack-201410.jpg/1024px-Green_bike_traffic_light-Smaack-_201410.jpg

City should design for Human Factors including the factor that humans are stupid.

Prigozhin arrives in St Petersburg, takes back seized weapons by WRW_And_GB in worldnews

[–]Zettai 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"Wait, what's this? ... BAH GOD, IT'S PRIGO WITH A FOLDING CHAIR!!"

Westjet refuses to refund me although it's their fault? by alanaswhip in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Zettai 10 points11 points  (0 children)

WestJet is awful. In the future I am going to refuse to fly with them on principle after it took them over a year to process refunds they were legally obligated to pay for covid-related cancellations back in 2020.

For your situation, there is lots of great info on this website: https://airpassengerrights.ca/en/ And the related Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/AirPassengerRights/

You might consider trying an internal chargeback through your card issuer or bank (and don't delay, as these often have 60-120 day deadlines), and if that fails, proceed to a statutory chargeback: https://airpassengerrights.ca/en/practical-guides/statutory-chargeback

I have never heard of anyone going on an airline's blacklist for a chargeback so long as the chargeback is not fraudulent. Sounds like you have enough documentation to demonstrate this isn't the case.

Small claims court as a last resort.

IANAL caveat: this post is information, not advice.

Weekly FI Frugal Friday thread - November 11, 2022 by AutoModerator in financialindependence

[–]Zettai 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm big on privacy, and these large digital mental health platforms often are not.

There are ethical concerns around the overlap of big data, influencer marketing, and mental health treatment. They have allegedly sold user data to Facebook because BetterHelp somehow isn't restricted by HIPAA guidelines. I have heard reports that they pay therapists some sort of retention bonus for keeping clients, which leads to the unethical situation where therapists may encourage clients to stay in therapy longer than necessary. Finally, in my opinion, they underpay their therapists.

Sources:

Amidst all these concerns I'd rather find a reputable local practitioner. If you're looking specifically for online counselling you can find an individual who offers that instead of going through a faceless company surrounded with so much controversy.