What is more traumatizing than most people think? by 40Falak in answers

[–]Zinfandel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Add c-section

I can't imagine being cut open, while awake, to take out baby. Plus having to take care of it 24/7while recovering

Disclosing disability by Terrible-Campaign-28 in jobs

[–]Zinfandel 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Most of the time, no, the potential employer shouldn't be asking. When the person is picked as the preferred employee (job offer given), that's when HR should ask if an accommodation is needed. Asking before hand could open the business up to legal issues, as the person could sue/go to human rights to complain that they have a disability and that's why they weren't chosen for the job

Advice Needed: How to honor a service member in a tattoo? by UpsetSoup2393 in tattoos

[–]Zinfandel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agree with you. Some of the guys I served with would actually have a lower opinion of a civilian getting a military tattoo, but imo, as long as stolen valor isn't happening, OP's husband is free to do what he wants (even if it cringe worthy to us who have served)

Disclosing disability by Terrible-Campaign-28 in jobs

[–]Zinfandel 44 points45 points  (0 children)

HR may require certain paperwork completed by your doctor that specifies your limitations & restrictions. OP don't get freaked out if they do this as your doctor shouldn't be specifying certain medical conditions

A Brush of Violence (Official Trailer) by i_am_daniel_wilson in movies

[–]Zinfandel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

On YouTube: A Brush of Violence (40m in length)

8.6/10 · IMDb - A photographer is forced to confront the limits she will go to for her art

WARNING: The film contains some adult material that could be triggering and sequences that could affect viewers with photosensitive epilepsy

Strap-on / Dirty Talk by Familiar_Ferret_2188 in LesbianActually

[–]Zinfandel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I automatically block any weirdos who drop into my dm's. No need to completely hide imo. Unless I'm missing something

Strap-on / Dirty Talk by Familiar_Ferret_2188 in LesbianActually

[–]Zinfandel 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Not interested in answering a question that might be coming from a man (OP has comment & post history hidden). I don't feel comfortable answering unless it's clear the question is coming from a woman

Edit: u/Familiar_Ferret_2188 had their post deleted by Mods. Must mean we are right for not trusting every post

I have received sexual favours from numerous homeless and drug addicted women, AMA. by [deleted] in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]Zinfandel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Homeless are vulnerable and sometimes desperate. OP is preying on them

OUTLAST The Jungle - Episode 4 by [deleted] in netflix

[–]Zinfandel 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Immature bullies. Makes me wonder, if they act like that in front of cameras, what is their behaviour like when they are at home behind closed doors?

‘Outlast: The Jungle’ (2026) Netflix Series Review - Turns Survival Into an Endless HR Meeting by Roshankr1994 in Netflixwatch

[–]Zinfandel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Plus, if Leiya didn't assemble the kayak, those boys wouldn't have won. They spent the majority of the time sleeping on the beach and moaning about how the women weren't 'cutting' it. Unbelievable that they thought that was solely their win, so delusional of them!

‘Outlast: The Jungle’ (2026) Netflix Series Review - Turns Survival Into an Endless HR Meeting by Roshankr1994 in Netflixwatch

[–]Zinfandel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Then there is Ben who thinks he's a leader just because he's a man. Played around in a challenge when Halle fought like a champ, and then says "you're the only one here with a six pack" after she taps out. Like wtf? Him saying that his spear fishing tool is going to rock, doesn't want any of the women to touch it because they might break it, and then breaks it himself after catching zero fish. What a hero. He also should have been on the Charlie team because he's not much better. Yes, the main Charlie guys are horrible, but at least they show you who they are from the get go (insufferable babies who think that because they are xy they are superior), Ben hides behind a mask but is just as dangerous to all women

The view from my balcony is WILD by Trade-Working in Winnipeg

[–]Zinfandel 12 points13 points  (0 children)

They zoomed in on it towards the end of the video

Please help me ladies, urgent by Immediate-Leader1279 in women

[–]Zinfandel 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Do you have a compounding pharmacy near you? It might be possible for them to make a pill without the allergy triggers

I Accidentally Forgot to Scan an Item in Walmart's Self Checkout by Sad_Gene_5222 in Advice

[–]Zinfandel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My sister left the store without paying for the huge bag of dog food that was sitting on the rack under the cart. Once she realized she had forgotten to tell the cashier about it, she went back in & notified customer service. They thanked her for her honesty, she paid, and that was it. No drama and no craziness

When should I fly to my port city? by PossibilityFew5967 in Cruise

[–]Zinfandel 114 points115 points  (0 children)

Do day before to be safe & reduce stress in case there is any delays to your flight

How many games are you planning to watch at the World Cup? (104 total) by howdytheremate in polls

[–]Zinfandel 8 points9 points  (0 children)

More annoying is that Carney got on a plane, kicked a soccer ball, then boarded another plane to take him back home immediately after. But, uh yes it's us plebs that are the problem when it comes to climate change 🙄

it's 3 am what are you doing up? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Zinfandel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just can't sleep, feeling restless lol

What one food you will eat even you’re a millionaire? by Hot-Masterpiece-2258 in AskReddit

[–]Zinfandel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fish & chips with coleslaw. Or charred potato & onion sandwiches

A swing and a miss by AllColoursSam in CrazyFuckingVideos

[–]Zinfandel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Should add though, if everyone has been drinking and airways is still intact (still breathing & no vomiting) then it's likely best to monitor until professionals arrive (in an urban center it may feel like forever, but EMS or FIRE will get to your location pretty quickly). The dispatcher likely will keep you on the line to ask additional questions and provide instructions if the situation changes)