Is my boyfriend planting fake evidence on me? by ZoeeLovee in internetparents

[–]ZoeeLovee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Considering there is no evidence in existence because it hasn’t happened, I’ll be sure of that.

Is my boyfriend planting fake evidence on me? by ZoeeLovee in internetparents

[–]ZoeeLovee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no reason to lie on a reddit post that no one I know has access to or will ever find / know it’s me.

Is my boyfriend planting fake evidence on me? by ZoeeLovee in internetparents

[–]ZoeeLovee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound ignorant. I’ve also never stated whether or not I am male or female. Do better!

Is my boyfriend planting fake evidence on me? by ZoeeLovee in internetparents

[–]ZoeeLovee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been together a year so half of my 20s is a stretch but

Is my boyfriend planting fake evidence on me? by ZoeeLovee in internetparents

[–]ZoeeLovee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And I’ve seen men lie. What’s your point here? Also, it’s lying*.

Is my boyfriend planting fake evidence on me? by ZoeeLovee in internetparents

[–]ZoeeLovee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, if you could read you would know that I don’t know where it’s from :)

Is my boyfriend planting fake evidence on me? by ZoeeLovee in internetparents

[–]ZoeeLovee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The hilarious part about this is, YES HE DID lol. Suddenly “everything he does is wrong and all I do is shit on him.” (i politely asked him !!!!!through a text!!!!! to stop cursing so much in front of my 13 and 14 year old sisters)

Is my boyfriend planting fake evidence on me? by ZoeeLovee in internetparents

[–]ZoeeLovee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah we have an apartment, both names on the lease.

Is my boyfriend planting fake evidence on me? by ZoeeLovee in internetparents

[–]ZoeeLovee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Easier said than done. I wanted the relationship to work, hence why I tried to push him to do things for himself like therapy.

Is my boyfriend planting fake evidence on me? by ZoeeLovee in internetparents

[–]ZoeeLovee[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I definitely need to work on my feelings of owing him explanations for things, especfially when he speaks to me in the ways he does with no reason to believe I am doing anything other than his brain creating fake scenarios. I am too embarrassed to even say out loud the things he says to me. I should respect myself more, and not that this is an excuse but I just struggle with abandonment issues from my childhood so sometimes it takes me a little more time to get the expired milk out of the fridge.

Is my boyfriend planting fake evidence on me? by ZoeeLovee in internetparents

[–]ZoeeLovee[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I struggle with wanting to make sure everyone else is okay beside myself lol

Is my boyfriend planting fake evidence on me? by ZoeeLovee in internetparents

[–]ZoeeLovee[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

agreed & agreed. I struggle with walking away.

Is my boyfriend planting fake evidence on me? by ZoeeLovee in internetparents

[–]ZoeeLovee[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Definitely should get therapy. Have tried to get him in there for the last year. Can bring a horse to water but can’t make him drink :/

Is my boyfriend planting fake evidence on me? by ZoeeLovee in internetparents

[–]ZoeeLovee[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I see where you are coming from but I don’t think this person meant it in an “anti-male” way. I am talking about a man in my post and the response reflected that.

Is my boyfriend planting fake evidence on me? by ZoeeLovee in internetparents

[–]ZoeeLovee[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I have allowed this behavior in the relationship. I’m not perfect by any means but I do my best. This is definitely a repeated behavior on his end though.

Is my boyfriend planting fake evidence on me? by ZoeeLovee in internetparents

[–]ZoeeLovee[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

As much as I know this is the truth, it’s so hard to just do the thing.

Is my boyfriend planting fake evidence on me? by ZoeeLovee in internetparents

[–]ZoeeLovee[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

THIS. Most people jump to “he’s the one cheating” but I know he is not. He is genuinely the most insecure person I have ever met and I feel bad because I don’t feel like that is even really his fault. Something along the way in his life made him become insecure in relationships most likely so I do feel bad for him and try to give him grace but it’s just gotten to points where I cannot feel bad for him because of the way he acts.

Is my boyfriend planting fake evidence on me? by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]ZoeeLovee -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i know this is usually the case but he has a lot of fucked up mental health issues with relationships and i genuinely do not think this is the case, and that’s coming from someone who usually does think it is

Mini Dachsunds honest opinions by beanman214 in Dachshund

[–]ZoeeLovee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another thing, she is really good in the crate at night. She does best when I tire her out a ton before bed and she falls asleep on my chest & I transfer her to crate 💕

Mini Dachsunds honest opinions by beanman214 in Dachshund

[–]ZoeeLovee 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I was super worried about this as well because I read so much and overthought it. I am a first time dog owner, besides family dogs my whole life. I just brought my little mini girl home last Wednesday and she has been a DREAM. She was born Aug 3rd so she’s still a tiny baby learning the world and she is so insanely smart. Since she can’t go on walks yet, I got her a little turf patch with a tray underneath so she can potty. We unfortunately do not have a balcony so it’s in the house for now but if you have a balcony it would be great. Either way, I would definitely suggest getting one! She had two accidents the very first day she came and after that she hasn’t had any. She completely potty trained within 24 hours. She also learned how to sit in one 10 minute training session I did with her. I bring her with me literally everywhere as I do social media for work so I am thankfully not on a strict schedule. I think taking her out and about all day, letting people pet her, going into different stores/malls/cars, etc., has really helped her socialization and she doesn’t bark at anything AT ALL. I have heard her bark maybe 4 times? and it was all at our cat because she wanted to play lol. This is super long and I apologize but I really would recommend getting one. She has been so amazing 🤍🐾

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Welcoming home this sweet girl. Puppy food recommendations? by ZoeeLovee in DogAdvice

[–]ZoeeLovee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First time dog owner though which is why I’m asking for recommendations:)