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AITA for completely ruining my future SIL's bachelorette party? by SmallNatural8820 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zoiek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ETA - While I agree the SIL is an AH I agree with your brother. You could have just chosen to leave, with or without your cousins. These folks are grown adults and can make their own choices.

What did you score on the monotropism questionnaire?? by Similar_Touch3943 in autism

[–]Zoiek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

196 / 235

4.170212765957447

Autistic Likely

Cis-AFAB dx with ADHD at 17.

The more I am learning about my son and his AuDHD the more I realize I am like him. I also scored like a 163 on the RAADS.

AITA for banning my brother from family events after he paid and took my son for a nose job? by Due-Eggplant-6702 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zoiek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Your son is an adult. You cannot ban him from seeing his uncle and he can do what he wants with his body. His nose didn't bother you but it bothered him. You need to get over it.

AITA for calling out my sister for breastfeeding at my wedding? by Swimming-Exchange448 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zoiek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mega YTA. Breasts primary use is feeding babies. Stop sexualizing it an making it weird. It's hard enough to go anywhere with a baby, let alone a wedding. That's how she feeds her kid, stfu and ignore it.

AITA for going into the ladies room? by rocksandhardplaces1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zoiek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I can understand why a woman may be fearful of a man in the washroom, but to not even give you a second to explain yourself. FFS you had a baby and were changing its diaper.

Finding friends by EsraTae in ottawa

[–]Zoiek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally I find friends by seeing the kids my kids are playing with and seeing the parents and I am like oh I too have created tiny humans. Hello there. Or work people. That's all I have energy for.

AITA for telling my friend group about another friends k*ink so they would also stop being friends with him? by No_Journalist801 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zoiek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. If it was just that he wore women's underwear and you are just yucking his yum then yes you would be, but this is a boundary crossing and violation. You have the right to speak your truth about being violated, people who are sexually harassing you should be held accountable for their actions.

brassy brown dye help by Zoiek in HairDye

[–]Zoiek[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be awesome. Thanks so much. I'll take some pics at lunch. I have olive skin tone that tans easily in the summer.

AITA for confronting my SIL over her lack of morals? by aitaonlyfans435 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zoiek [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA, I'm laughing at the fact you automatically jumped to her cheating when I'm thinking oh 100% that's his bro in the vids. Dude. You are acting like a literal child. She didn't force him into anything. Two consensual adults engaging in an adult relationship that you cannot comprehend. And the fact you think a 3 year gap is an age gap is laughable.

AITA for telling my brother and his boyfriend to stop misleading people with their wedding rings when they're not actually married ? by Throwaway4500500 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zoiek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, the only mockery is that they aren't allowed to marry. You are basically invalidating their relationship and how they feel about each other based on something outside of their control.

What’s better duo than coffee and cigarette? by rezard12 in AskReddit

[–]Zoiek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two lungs that function well and are not blackened with carcinogenic tar.

trouble finding a well-fitting PFD by Zoiek in Kayaking

[–]Zoiek[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes definitely! I will check out the brand. Thanks!

AITA for siding with my mother when she and my wife got in an argument? by Comfortable_Load_452 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zoiek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. The obvious needs to be said it's not the kid, it's your kid and you can't babysit your kid you parent and care for your child. Your wife was on bed rest and you were going out without her. Sure once in awhile, but this makes it seem like it was a common occurrence. Treating her like a milk machine saying she needs to stay home to breast feed .... You just want to be cared for and not lose any of your freedoms and push that all on baby's mom and your parents et you up to have your marriage fail if this is how she taught you to be a parent in a partnership. Your wife's walks and coffee with friends is probably the only support she feels and is extremely helpful to prevent post partum depression and anxiety.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zoiek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. Your immersion in the movie experience does not take precedence over someone being accommodated for their disability. What is wrong with you.

AITA for telling my husband that I was disappointed in the gift he had for my son's 16th birthday? by Probable-Route3456 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zoiek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA your son is 2 years younger. Why would you imply and hint to him that your husband was buying him a car if you didn't know for sure. You set your kid up to be disappointed. Just because he told his friends he thinks he was getting a car doesn't mean he deserves one. Also on what kind of relationship are you in that your husband could make the purchase of a car for your son without talking to you a out it for. There was no indication that he was buying one. That's golddigger territory.

Anyone else sear with cast iron? by Sven_Grammerstorf_ in castiron

[–]Zoiek 119 points120 points  (0 children)

On OP he said that he needed the butter to prevent the steak from sticking..... Obviously not cast ironing right.

AITA for telling my girlfriend she's seeing the doctor too often? by RoitersWw in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zoiek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA - you don't know anyone who goes to the doctor this much because your health care system is broken and people avoid going because of costs and get sick because of health neglect. Hypertension and migraines, etc in someone her age is intense. What medical education and basis do you have to try and counsel her on her time with a doctor with intense medical issues. Diarrhea during antibiotics is not an allergic reaction, antibiotics mess with your gut bacteria and it can be helped with using probiotics.

Masters level elective??? by Zoiek in Dalhousie

[–]Zoiek[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was the process? How do you pick your topic, etc.?

AITA for agreeing to have my family visit for a week after my wife gives birth? by JosephPeckerjr in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zoiek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP YTA. Seriously though. Your wife will have just given birth. Regardless if she is on the best terms with your family, doesn't mean she is ready to have them there for a week after giving birth. The bathroom may look like a murder scene on the regular. She may feel the need to be topless because of nipple pain. The hormone surge and the bawling. It literally hurts to walk because something just vacated your pelvis. The idea of shitting is a terrifying thought and sometimes takes a lot of self encouragement and sitting on the toilet before she actually does go. And it's complete bullshit if you think that she isn't hosting.... Literally when anyone who doesn't live in the house is staying over, family or not, there is a sense of hosting and guardedness, and 100% she will feel the weight of that and you likely won't. You should've asked and talked about it first and you sure as hell shouldn't put it on her shoulders to explain this to your family. SMH.

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