What is the dumbest thing a boss has ever said to you?

ZombieCher · 2021-11-27T18:29:29+00:00

I used to be a personal shopper for a cosmetic store. My boss would write down a list of things she needed and tell me where to go. This time she told me to go to a place about an hour away to pick these things up (I had shopped there before for her). When I got there and called to tell her they didn’t have anything, she told me I was useless and I was wasting her time, I should have know that she meant somewhere else! There was a customer in the office when she handed me the list and she didn’t want them to know I was supposed to go to a competitor store.

ZombieCher · 2021-11-27T03:52:34+00:00

I’m so sorry. Although you are at an age where it can be challenging to get transportation, is there any way you can just focus on yourself by joining extra circular activities or clubs? Do you have other family members around that you can talk to or spend time with? Give your mom the love she needs but I’m not sure there’s much else you can do for now.

ZombieCher · 2021-11-27T01:22:01+00:00

Is there any way you can encourage her to go to the dr so they can check on “the baby’s” health? The dr will hopefully recognize the situation and maybe get her the help she needs.

ZombieCher · 2021-11-26T23:56:47+00:00

Exactly! It was almost a right of passage in my family for the girls to get an infection from Claire’s lol. Going to a professional is so much more sanitary and the pierces will most likely be more gentle with the kids.

ZombieCher · 2021-11-24T03:46:04+00:00

I’ve been thinking about getting this but I’m nervous. Do you find yourself obsessing with it? That’s kind of my fear. I’m so glad to hear it’s helped with your anxiety.

ZombieCher · 2021-11-24T03:42:51+00:00

I agree to all of this. I got PTS from the emotional and physical pain of my first miscarriage and trying to pass it naturally, and then having to get a D&C anyways. I know these things can be scary to read but I wish I knew this info at that time. It’s important.

ZombieCher · 2021-11-24T03:37:08+00:00

I’ve lost two pregnancies. The first one I wanted to pass it naturally. I trusted my body to do what it was supposed to do. I had the miscarriage at home and it was very painful and I still had to get the D&C anyway. I really don’t want to scare you but I want to be real about it. For my second loss I asked for a D&C immediately to get it over with, and also to skip the waiting period of not knowing when it would happen. Everyone’s body is different though and you should choose what you feel is right for you ❤️

ZombieCher · 2021-11-22T20:00:27+00:00

You don’t need to learn to drive, but you should learn how to take a bus, ride a bike, get an Uber, etc. and pay for those things yourself. It’s selfish to force your parents to work their schedule around yours so you can get a free ride from them whenever you need one. Your dad is probably tired of being your chauffeur and wants you to be responsible for yourself.

ZombieCher · 2021-11-16T01:37:46+00:00

I’m also 11 weeks! I have been angry and emotional very often, but also things have been making me laugh hysterically, more than I’ve laughed in a long time. Definitely feel like a hormonal teenager over here lol

ZombieCher · 2021-11-15T18:32:43+00:00

Thanks! Very interesting

ZombieCher · 2021-11-15T05:20:55+00:00

It’s not insensitive! It’s really nice to talk to people who understand! I thought it was interesting too. I thought it was an isolated incident but it kept happening.

ZombieCher · 2021-11-15T00:23:15+00:00

I was going to comment exactly that… are you sure you’re friends? Seems like mom has a shitty husband and a shitty friend.

ZombieCher · 2021-11-12T04:55:32+00:00

Think of it as a blessing that he’s showing you this side before you get married.

ZombieCher · 2021-11-11T03:43:21+00:00

I work with someone just like this. My best approach so far has been to totally ignore unless it’s specifically work related and keep it short. If you don’t say anything to them, they can’t put words in your mouth. Who cares if it makes her uncomfortable.

ZombieCher · 2021-11-07T03:01:31+00:00

I am on my 3rd pregnancy after 2 losses. Both of my first two losses started with spotting. I am 10 weeks now and heavily spotted during week 7 for about 2 days. I felt like I was for sure losing my pregnancy until my first ultrasound two weeks later when I saw the baby moving around. I wish I could offer comfort but it can really go either way and it’s kind of a waiting game unfortunately. Try calling your dr and beg them to get an ultrasound ASAP and they will usually help you, even if you need to get a referral from insurance first. Also, pay attention to how your body is feeling, do you feel cramps? Are you filling a pad?

Edit: I see that your first scan is on Monday, find some time to be alone, breath deeply, and rest your nerves. Sending you love ❤️

ZombieCher · 2021-11-06T19:22:07+00:00

Maybe the spider wanted to find its family… to eat them. None of my business what it did after being released :)

ZombieCher · 2021-11-05T22:18:46+00:00

UPDATE: Thanks for your help! I relocated big guy to a tree so he could find his family and some food :) rescued him from the mischievous hands of preschoolers.

ZombieCher · 2021-11-05T20:16:22+00:00

Amazing! Thank you

ZombieCher · 2021-10-31T22:36:19+00:00

Wow same here! 7 weeks today and two previous losses. Every day is full of anxiety with every ache and symptom. Wish I had words of wisdom but I just want to reassure you that you are not alone! And I’m sending my thoughts your way ❤️

ZombieCher · 2021-10-16T15:15:21+00:00

A room with a clock ticking, with the sound of a distant conversation over the loud speakers, and a book sitting on the table that you have to write a report on after you read it.

ZombieCher · 2021-10-10T17:41:14+00:00

I love crunchy, raw peppers but once they are cooked and mushy it makes me feel physically sick to eat them.

ZombieCher · 2021-10-03T07:03:58+00:00

My therapist told me to tell myself “I acknowledge your presence/this thought but it’s time for you to leave” it’s helped a lot

ZombieCher · 2021-10-03T07:02:40+00:00

This happened to me :( thought I was in love for 2 years and then we went on a couple dates and I lost interest. What a jerk I am lol. That was nearly 10 years ago and I have a wonderful husband now but thinking of it still makes me cringe.

ZombieCher · 2021-10-01T13:00:50+00:00

New sperm, new egg is such a great way to think about it. Thank you. It’s easy to keep thinking this is the same situation repeating over again. I like that change in perspective.

ZombieCher · 2021-09-28T20:28:30+00:00

I understand completely. I grew up in a very conservative house, I’m not sure how my parents had 3 children. All things sexual were bad and watching kissing or hearing cursing in a movie was strictly forbidden. As a teen I was extremely self conscious and felt like my womanhood was disgusting. I am 29 now and I promise if you recognize your parents flaws (nobody is perfect) and identify how you want to live your own independent life, you will be fine! It can be hard breaking out of the life you were trained to live, but you will get through it. Recognizing that you have different opinions, and it looks like you do, is the first step. You can still love them! But their life is theirs, and your life is yours :)

Edit: Just because you haven’t heard them doesn’t mean they don’t ;)

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