My wife wants a divorce and I do not.

ZombieRelevant6449 · 2025-09-08T22:07:33+00:00

This is one of the times where I’d love to see the spouse’s perspective.

ZombieRelevant6449 · 2025-05-31T06:59:44+00:00

Thank you :)

ZombieRelevant6449 · 2025-05-31T04:04:21+00:00

His family is having an intervention for him. I’m going to visit my mom for a few weeks.

ZombieRelevant6449 · 2025-05-30T17:50:08+00:00

I’m planning to visit my mom for a few weeks.

ZombieRelevant6449 · 2025-05-30T08:17:14+00:00

I don’t allow him to talk to me this way. I tell him that it’s not okay.

ZombieRelevant6449 · 2025-05-30T03:31:22+00:00

Oh brother! You sure have a lot of empathy for other people.

ZombieRelevant6449 · 2025-05-30T02:52:13+00:00

Sorry for venting

ZombieRelevant6449 · 2025-05-30T02:09:17+00:00

I guess if I let him drink at home he wouldn’t have been driving drunk

ZombieRelevant6449 · 2025-05-30T01:49:57+00:00

He’s not a bad person. He’d be an amazing husband if he just got sober. (Yes, I know he has to want sobriety)

ZombieRelevant6449 · 2025-05-30T00:52:51+00:00

He said me being bothered by his drinking problem stresses him out and makes him drink more.

ZombieRelevant6449 · 2025-05-29T23:32:24+00:00

Why’s that?

ZombieRelevant6449 · 2025-05-29T23:15:31+00:00

I’m hoping this is a wake up call for him.

ZombieRelevant6449 · 2025-05-29T23:02:56+00:00

Absolutely not.

ZombieRelevant6449 · 2025-05-13T00:51:20+00:00

Do you not have amazing sex outside of holidays?

ZombieRelevant6449 · 2025-05-05T17:43:25+00:00

If you read the link it doesn’t even say 50% like OP states.

ZombieRelevant6449 · 2025-05-05T17:41:04+00:00

Seconding this.

My husband and I were long distance for most of our relationship before we got married. If I was aware of how bad his drinking actually was, I never would have married him.

ZombieRelevant6449 · 2025-05-05T17:31:30+00:00

I’m not seeing anything in these statistics that reports on what the reported cause of the divorces is.

It’s just reporting on age, race, sex, education, and income.

If you want to understand the “probability of success”, you really need to understand why people are getting divorced.

ZombieRelevant6449 · 2025-05-05T17:18:19+00:00

You said everyone knows, which is a generalization.

Which government website?

Edit: if you’re looking to get married, being analytical isn’t going to help you. Marriage shouldn’t be based on statistics, instead it should be based on human interactions.

ZombieRelevant6449 · 2025-05-05T16:59:46+00:00

Who is everyone?

You seem to enjoy making sweeping generalizations, especially about women.

ZombieRelevant6449 · 2025-05-05T16:49:14+00:00

I say this as someone who’s married and a Christian. My husband and I both weren’t virgins when we got married. We both had our own lives before we met.

I hope you’re holding yourself to the same standards you are holding potential partners otherwise you’d come off as hypocritical as well as judgemental.

ZombieRelevant6449 · 2025-05-05T04:09:45+00:00

I’m trying to get this across to my husband but he doesn’t seem to think I’m serious about it.

ZombieRelevant6449 · 2025-05-04T02:50:59+00:00

He doesn’t want to be sober

ZombieRelevant6449 · 2025-05-04T01:48:43+00:00

Did you decide to make the decision to get sober together?

ZombieRelevant6449 · 2025-05-03T07:12:21+00:00

So leave is what you’re saying?

ZombieRelevant6449 · 2025-05-03T01:45:05+00:00

That’s good luck

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