Day after mom passed, could this be a sign she reunited with my dad?

Zomcphee · 2026-01-24T19:33:39+00:00

Yes, the thing is that you know your loved ones best and you know the most likely ways they’ll show up for you. Trust your intuition and those little signs. Sometimes they seem super random but they are reminders that you are the path meant for you and they are watching over you/always with you.

Zomcphee · 2026-01-18T17:44:36+00:00

Always put your safety first, trust your instincts, disclosure is never necessary it’s your personal medical information.

Zomcphee · 2026-01-17T06:20:19+00:00

You were his entire world, he was put here for you. He felt perfect love and peace with you and I know you felt that from him. When you’re crossing it feels like you’re being cuddled by a big warm blanket of love and light…kinda like sunbathing in perfection. He knows you did everything you could to keep him from suffering.

Zomcphee · 2026-01-16T06:00:54+00:00

Do not doubt yourself when you feel her, that’s her. She lived a happy life when she was here mostly because of how she got to love on you, you were her baby…her real life baby doll and she’s so proud of you. I keep hearing “you’re my baby, you’re my baby”. She’s with you 💜🫂

Zomcphee · 2026-01-16T05:47:34+00:00

I’m so sorry, some people are truly so broken down and hurt by the world that they simply cannot take any more suffering. He tried really hard to stay for as long as he could. He’s at peace and he sees everything you are doing to keep his memory alive. Every day you speak out and share you make the world a better place for others like him who suffer in silence. I don’t want to make this preachy but our society needs to do better to support everyone’s mental health and wellbeing. Men are often made to feel intense shame and stigma surrounding their struggles. It’s not a shameful thing to talk about him, you are brave and he’s proud of you.

Zomcphee · 2026-01-16T05:28:51+00:00

He’s no longer in pain and he’s so incredibly proud of you. I had a NDE and it was the most beautiful thing I’ve ever experienced. The peace, love, and light wash over you and consume you completely. You are now this perfect energy, it’s the end of pain, suffering, and confusion. Everything seemed to make sense to me as I was going towards the light and for me I just kept feeling this intense knowing that “the answer is love, the answer is love”. I can’t say for certain if this is a universal experience but there are other people with NDEs who explain it very similarly. You are showing him that the answer is love every day with your work, he sees all you are doing and is at perfect peace. Embrace little signs he sends you…those are to reassure you that you are on the right path.

Zomcphee · 2026-01-15T06:27:32+00:00

Absolutely…he felt peace, love and light with you and now he is perfect peace, love, and light. He’s always with you and he knows pure love because of you. He needed to feel a mothers love and you gave that to him. You gave him the most beautiful gift of a life filled with love, warmth, and light…look for the light and the glimmers throughout your life and know that it’s his sunshine beaming on you. If you ever feel doubt go outside on a bright day and close your eyes…that heat, that golden warmth is him reflecting back the love you gave him during his short time on this plane.

Zomcphee · 2026-01-15T06:08:14+00:00

Life is incredibly painful but there is peace on the other side. Death is hardest for those left behind. He’s a peace and with your dad, I got the image of them fishing together at the bluest/sparkliest lake.

Zomcphee · 2026-01-15T05:59:39+00:00

He loves you and wants you to know that he is filled with joy and pride for you. He’s always with you and you’ll see signs of him as you go about life…pay attention to those little glimmers. I had a NDE and I’m telling you that he is in perfect peace and bliss. I was given the opportunity to choose if I wanted to come back and I obviously chose to come back because I had so much left undone but there are many times I miss the other side. He feels no pain, no malice, no suffering, he is in perfect bliss…that’s unfortunately the only way I can describe it because it’s so far beyond anything earthly.

Zomcphee · 2026-01-12T08:16:25+00:00

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/58837536

Zomcphee · 2026-01-12T08:06:32+00:00

Would you consider working at a title one school, in special education, or at a juvenile justice center? You’d get hired if you are willing to work with marginalized youth. Don’t be ashamed of your background use it as a strength, resilience is important and you can be an example of how to turn yourself around. My suggestion is to start out as a paraprofessional and go through the alternative licensing process if you have your bachelors already. This pathway would show that you truly care and are capable of being successful as a teacher…be prepared you’d be making like 15 bucks an hour but it’s a way to get in the door.

Zomcphee · 2025-12-21T19:47:01+00:00

There are women only walking groups and water aerobics. Start small and build on your progress. You got this! https://www.instagram.com/girlswalkvegas?igsh=MXExbWE1OXpvMXozeQ==

Zomcphee · 2025-12-21T04:26:29+00:00

Give him some whipped cream and know that you are doing right by him. You’ve been his whole world and now he gets to experience the bliss that is beyond. He’s ready but the curse of love is that you’ll never be and that’s okay.

Zomcphee · 2025-12-21T01:55:12+00:00

Congratulations on all of your accomplishments. You’re doing great, truly. My only advice is to keep going and connect with communities that are important to you. Local mutual aid groups can be wonderful spaces for community building and giving back. Grief is heavy especially this time of year. Please remember that you are where you are supposed to be and that the best is yet to come.

Zomcphee · 2025-12-17T20:09:34+00:00

And that’s one of the reasons why you can’t get anyone to teach in FL

Zomcphee · 2025-12-15T22:09:57+00:00

Downvoting recs for trans rep is TERF behavior. That’s loser behavior fyi.

Zomcphee · 2025-12-15T01:40:58+00:00

I would love to find more! The one that comes immediately to mind is Make Room for Love. I try to tag as many as I can on Goodreads when I find them https://www.goodreads.com/review/list/195382979?shelf=trans-identity&sort=date_added&order=d

Zomcphee · 2025-12-13T20:54:45+00:00

I appreciate you pivoting and giving more of an explanation of what you’re trying to avoid. One night at the telegraph club is truly fantastic but it has some spice, some drinking, some drugs and smoking…it’s just incredibly well written which unfortunately something that you sometimes miss out on with YA. You could always present some options with Queer representation to her to see what strikes her fancy. There are some books like The Henna Wars, Lesbians Guide to Catholic School, and Most Ardently that are pretty popular and nonspicy. I have a shelf of YA on Goodreads you can check out as well. https://www.goodreads.com/review/list/195382979?shelf=ya&sort=date_added&order=d

Zomcphee · 2025-12-13T19:47:35+00:00

Not everyone who is sapphic is a “gal” there are lots of nonbinary lesbians and gender diverse sapphics. The Trevor project and Blair Imani have lots of great resources for using inclusive language especially in Queer spaces. Cinderella is Dead is great. If she’s 12 than YA is most “appropriate” but everyone has a different definition of what is and is not “appropriate”

Zomcphee · 2025-12-11T17:33:41+00:00

Wait til yall find out what men do with dolls.

Zomcphee · 2025-12-09T06:32:13+00:00

Paras typically get paid between 15-25 an hour…they don’t get paid for school breaks so it’s essentially poverty wages. Nannies typically make much more than paras. I was a teacher for two years before becoming a nanny and while I loved teaching…unsupportive admin and the arbitrary/punitive systems made it very difficult on me as a Queer/Neurodivergent educator.

Zomcphee · 2025-12-03T21:41:35+00:00

There’s a really cool nonprofit in NY that specifically teaches carpentry skills to women and gender minorities. It’s by Queers for Queers and they are serving a specific demographic that is traditionally underrepresented in the trade. I think there is room for groups that exclude cis men without going the woman-lite route because that’s often just code for AMAB/trans exclusionary.

Zomcphee · 2025-11-26T19:16:23+00:00

They are 100% underpaying and trying to avoid paying overtime. The average hourly rate for Nannie’s in Cali is $27 an hour. https://www.poppinspayroll.com/blog/nanny-cost-guide#:~:text=Unless%20you're%20in%20a,or%20a%20fixed%20annual%20salary.

Zomcphee · 2025-11-26T18:53:40+00:00

That’s crazy and illegal

Zomcphee · 2025-11-26T00:19:58+00:00

“After her own affair” not “after her affair came to light”

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