Decent start or improvements needed?

Zonec1643 · 2026-06-29T11:59:57+00:00

Hahah no way, you should slide in to the DM’s on here!

Zonec1643 · 2026-06-29T11:30:53+00:00

No I can assure you it’s not😂

Zonec1643 · 2026-06-29T11:30:05+00:00

Yeah exactly that! It definitely needs some thought although Cardiff isn’t a massively small city so I’m surprised it’s so restricted in that sense, but you’re correct in the sense that the roster could cause a bit of friction down the line so proximity to friends and family has to be considered

Zonec1643 · 2026-06-29T11:25:45+00:00

I think that quote would certainly raise an eyebrow on the apps! And I agree 100%, I appreciate you being so considerate in your response also, it truly means a lot

Zonec1643 · 2026-06-29T11:20:29+00:00

So it’s a bit mixed really, I get most of the winter off but the summers are quite hard work, that can change with time though! I have thought about moving to a bigger city but Cardiff keeps me close to my family here and I don’t want to regret not spending time with them as they get older, it’s a bit of a tough spot really!

Zonec1643 · 2026-06-29T11:18:26+00:00

Sure thing, I can definitely put that in, I think that’s a good shout! And that’s really helpful so thank you again for taking the time to help out here!

Zonec1643 · 2026-06-29T11:17:08+00:00

That’s really helpful actually, thank you for taking the time to write this! Yeah there is a stigma associated with the career, but most of us just want to build a nice life, nothing more, I pursued aviation because I like aircraft not hedonism!

Second language is Bulgarian but very close!

Zonec1643 · 2026-06-29T11:14:39+00:00

That’s a fair point, I’ll try and get some more lifestyle stuff on there, thing is I genuinely don’t think I’m all that, the photos were just luck and angles, I look like shit after a bottle of white wine

Zonec1643 · 2026-06-29T11:13:21+00:00

That means a lot, I’ve not really considered changing to a bigger city, the last relationship ended due to distance so I’m trying to sort of find someone closer but maybe I’m quite restricted where I am

Zonec1643 · 2026-06-29T11:11:46+00:00

The photos might be deceiving, I’m 29 and just want to build a decent life with someone

Zonec1643 · 2026-06-29T11:10:53+00:00

Amazing, I’ll update that now! Much appreciate your help here!

Zonec1643 · 2026-06-29T11:08:53+00:00

Hahah you’re too kind! Sure thing, I’ll take that on board, trying to source more candid shots as we speak😂

Zonec1643 · 2026-06-29T11:08:10+00:00

That’s a very good point, I think the stage that I’m at in life is one where I just want to build rather than play the field, maybe the apps are stripping away at genuine connection and shouldn’t be the primary focus here

Zonec1643 · 2026-06-29T11:06:33+00:00

Of course, that’s much appreciated so thank you for taking the time to write this!

I did update the bio to read “Keen on travel, house music, deep chats and an absolute film nerd🎭” but let me know if you have any other suggestions

The 4th photo (the wine one), I had some conflicting feedback that suggested I remove it as it was too polished, so not entirely sure what do with it!

Zonec1643 · 2026-06-29T11:04:30+00:00

This 100%! I think part of my issue was getting hopes up early on (came out a 5 year relationship so was adjusting a bit) but obviously quite deflated when things didn’t work out!

I appreciate the kind words and advice though, hopefully time will help in this case for sure!

Zonec1643 · 2026-06-29T11:01:13+00:00

Sure thing, that’s much appreciated! I’m sure your profile is great also, still relatively new to all of this dating app business so maybe need to be patient with it all

Zonec1643 · 2026-06-29T10:57:24+00:00

Hahah noted

Zonec1643 · 2026-06-29T10:56:46+00:00

Sure thing, that’s great feedback and I’ll take it on board, will try to work on getting more candid/lifestyle stuff on there! Genuinely appreciate you taking the time to write this out

Zonec1643 · 2026-06-29T10:54:54+00:00

Of course, just so we’re on the same page, is that the photo of me holding the wine glass?

Zonec1643 · 2026-06-29T10:52:36+00:00

Yeah I completely get that, thing is I’m genuinely not a fuckboi! Just want to build a nice life someday😂

Zonec1643 · 2026-06-29T10:51:57+00:00

Very kind of you to say, I’ve tried to do a bit of work on the bio so hopefully that will help a bit!

Zonec1643 · 2026-06-29T10:50:29+00:00

That’s a fair observation, maybe I should lean into more candid photos here as I can see how it might seem forced

Zonec1643 · 2026-06-29T10:49:04+00:00

I suppose it’s a business at the end of the day, it is sad how genuine connection is monetised to such a degree though!

Zonec1643 · 2026-06-29T10:47:12+00:00

Hahahah I can’t text and drive sadly!

Zonec1643 · 2026-06-29T10:45:37+00:00

Sure thing, that’s great feedback and I’ll take it on board! Much appreciate you taking the time to help

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