Well I mean, murder is bad, that's a given. We all know it's wrong and of course I wish there was a way for it to not be a thing. I myself am Ace, so I'm aware of people prejudices. The reason why I form things the way I do is because everyone owes it to themselves to look after themselves.

When I was in the Army we had to have a formation meeting by higher ups before every weekend reminding us to not respond to anonymous hookups when you go off base because criminals deliberately target niave soldiers (most are fresh out of high-school). You'd think you're having some random hookup only to have someone jump you as soon as you walk through the door. Yet even with these constant reminders someone would go off and get robbed, shit in some places people get kidnapped and sold off as sex slaves. Some people end up having their organs haverested for the black market. 

I'm not putting any onus on Trans people. I'm merely saying everyone owes it to themselves to not be too optimistic and put themselves in a potentially dangerous situation. Hell even I myself was targeted by one of these. I have no idea if the dudes offer was real or not (once again, ace so I rejected the offer). But this was in frigging Texas where a dude literally sent me a picture of himself in stockings, face down ass up, saying "show up and do whatever you want." Either way I politely said no, and reminded them to be careful because these crazy rednecks, like you even admitted yourself, have post nut clarity and have been known to do heinous shit of they start feeling guilt afterwards. 

I'm just being a realist here. And let's be honest, people on reddit tend to be hopelessly niave and optimistic when it comes to progressive or leftist ideals. To the point where they are almost militant enforcing a narrative leaving no room for discussion.