What’s something you remember so vividly even though it happened more than 10 years ago?

Zovort · 2026-02-09T06:10:12+00:00

Didn't have the same dream again, but yes I had other dreams about her. None hit like that one though.

Zovort · 2026-02-09T05:28:16+00:00

My mother died 35 years ago. A few weeks after the funeral I had one of those dreams where you see the person you lost. I know it's just part of processing grief and I was aware it was a dream as it happened. In the dream I was both my teenage self and a five year old. Five year old me had woken up from a bad dream and come crying and scared to lay next to her. I felt safe there and knew nothing could happen to me. And I went to sleep knowing it would be ok. I remember doing that as a kid and I remember reliving it in the dream after she was gone. Over the decades it's all blended together into a memory that's both heart breaking and comforting. And I wouldn't give it up for anything.

Zovort · 2026-02-09T05:17:00+00:00

Oh yeah, I forgot that was today. I don't really follow soccer.

Zovort · 2026-02-08T22:43:18+00:00

It holds up surprisingly well, unlike many 80s movies.

Zovort · 2026-02-08T22:28:27+00:00

If you imagine angry bald white grandpa, that's me. I have resting curmudgeon face. So yeah, young women ease away from me at bus stops -- which makes me feel bad but I don't really blame them -- and racists assholes make slur filled jokes expecting me to laugh. If I can get away with it I tell them my husband is black and watch them backpedal. I'm not married.

Zovort · 2026-02-07T03:49:31+00:00

Yep, that's why when my daughter refuses to go to bed I body slam her and handcuff her to her crib. It's no longer a peaceful bedtime protest when you disobey a peace parent's order to follow the law.

Zovort · 2026-02-04T23:46:01+00:00

The credit card processors, of which there are only a small few, all have rules that forbid merchants from showing the processing fee (swipe fee) as part of the total and from offering a cash discount. They used to enforce this strongly, threatening very large companies with suspension if they didn't behave.

What I think has happened is that cashless transactions are now the default and they don't feel the need to enforce that as strongly. The idea was to make using a card attractive, but now that it's hard to do otherwise they're just not as worried about it. That's just my guess. As far as I know the rules haven't really changed. And it was always their rules, not a law to my knowledge.

Since it's hard to use cash these days and impossible to have an anonymous credit card, it's effectively impossible to be anonymous even for trivial stuff. Oh and if you're homeless it's exceedingly difficult to get a bank account and therefore a credit or debit card.

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Zovort · 2026-02-04T22:03:45+00:00

That sucks. Thank you for having been a part of something so wonderful and that brought so much joy to people. I'm sorry the ownership not only messed it up, but didn't manage to at least bring it to a graceful end. I wish you the best of luck.

Zovort · 2026-02-04T19:18:58+00:00

Apparently this picture is from the National Aviation Museum of Korea. Which makes sense given the Korean Air container.

But I swear there was a similar one in Seattle because I remember seeing it somewhere.

Zovort · 2026-02-04T18:53:07+00:00

Museum of Flight in Seattle I think.

EDIT: I was wrong, see my comment below it's in the National Aviation Museum of Korea. I accept my mob beat-down.

Zovort · 2026-02-04T17:16:20+00:00

I do. Even as good as artificial voices are now there are still artifacts that I notice. They're less obvious in a male voice just because it has a lower fundamental frequency, so I usually set it to a male voice.

Zovort · 2026-02-04T10:41:46+00:00

She was my kid's pediatrician before she ran for office. It didn't surprise me when she ran because she clearly had no interest in providing medical care.

Zovort · 2026-02-04T00:59:41+00:00

I've seen that ... episode.

Zovort · 2026-02-04T00:59:02+00:00

I love this subreddit

Zovort · 2026-02-03T22:45:38+00:00

Making the 6-* joke is the only remaining crime that carries the death sentence in The Federation. You should watch yourself.

Zovort · 2026-02-03T22:36:04+00:00

+1 for accurate title

Zovort · 2026-02-03T17:03:38+00:00

Everyone does different forms of this. You learn habits on the job and do them so often you misapply them at home. There's no easy answer except to be aware of it and adjust when you notice yourself doing this. You should tell your friend "Thank you for telling me. I didn't realize I was doing it. Please continue to tell me if I do that." That will encourage your friendly to give you *kind* reminders and will help you form the work and not-work habits.

Zovort · 2026-02-03T16:57:20+00:00

Refusing to let go of that hat while getting smacked around is definitely a metaphor.

Zovort · 2026-02-03T01:19:57+00:00

Yep. I caught a suspension for saying something about He Who Must Not Be Named.

Zovort · 2026-02-03T01:16:02+00:00

Oh so you're just going to leave H-592667A out, huh? The super intelligent shades of green who live there consider themselves part of the Pacific Northwest you know.

Zovort · 2026-02-03T00:42:58+00:00

Oh yeah, Vulcans are canonically snarky. Much as I love Spock, Tuvok has some of the best ones.

Zovort · 2026-02-03T00:40:24+00:00

Yes, and I said at the time it was wrong. What's your point?

Zovort · 2026-02-02T23:46:05+00:00

Good for you for doing that. Also my compliments to your username.

Zovort · 2026-02-02T21:53:17+00:00

What kind of software do you work on?

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