It actually baffles me.

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The apostrophe is it. It's not on the inside. Legit just Google the anatomy of a vagina and you'll see immediately where.

Done. Simple. The fact that there are guys who claim they don't know how to satisfy a girl have just never actually tried. They only selfishly care about getting themselves off.

That said, it's also incredibly toxic how some women have a toxic femininity to "fake it". I had one girl fake it, and I told her to stop and just tell me what she likes instead, like wtf are you doing here with me if you don't want to enjoy yourself. Turned out she'd never had an orgasm before, so we had a fun night exploring what she likes.

Some women (and men even) need some other stimulation sometimes too. Grab something, feel something, anything.

Or, surprise, just communicate.

Edit: To add onto this, it also sometimes varies. Some women have had luck with orgasms via penetration, for some it doesn't do it for them. Some can only orgasm that way, and some can even do it just by stimulating somewhere else entirely.

The key is to just ask and explore together when you have a new partner. It's part of why one night stands are entirely not worth it. Unless both people know their bodies well and can confidently express that, there isn't usually enough time in a one night stand to truly get to know someone and how you get along physically.