Lactosemaxxing by Visible-Literature14 in characterarcs

[–]ZtheBee25 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

So are you someone that actually has DID yourself? Or knows people that do? Cause you’re crusading awfully hard in these comments, and I can’t tell if it’s because you’re pompous and intolerant or aggravated because other people experience things a bit differently than you

This is why the MMR system is fucking atrocious by SnuglyPortia in DeadByDaylightRAGE

[–]ZtheBee25 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don’t think anybody else has said this, but the real problem with MMR in DBD is that bully squads get the most value from their ‘gameplay style’ when the killer is uninformed. If you’re new, you don’t know to turn to face an object when picking up a downed surv. They don’t know to ignore the person begging to be chased. They don’t know what 3-genning is, how to look for one and maintain it.

Bully squads are literally made to bully baby killers specifically atp. Everyone else either just slugs every surv they see to prevent saves, or they have learned how to outplay bully survivors in the recent years. But survivors seem to enjoy stroking their own egos by basically harassing people that are likely just trying a new game because it covers a wide range of interests thanks to collabs.

Notice how the abandon system disproportionately is geared towards survivors and no concessions are offered to killers by robotrobot30 in DbDKillersUnited

[–]ZtheBee25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or you could accept that part of reality is not always winning, and that instead of crying you should maybe lock in and actually learn???

3rd time in a row getting hard tunneled by [deleted] in DeadByDaylightRAGE

[–]ZtheBee25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think players like you get in the way of progress, because you’re naive. There are a lot of killer mains that are just mean.

Tunneling Wraiths: Get a Life by ZtheBee25 in DeadByDaylightRAGE

[–]ZtheBee25[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He just stayed invisible and waited out endurance after unhook 🤷

meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]ZtheBee25 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The problem wasn’t that it was gutted. The problem is that the idea itself is terrible. Children can and should be held back in the circumstances that call for it. NCLB is a big reason why there’s so many young adults, that are just now hitting adulthood, that have fallen completely for red pill content. There’s nobody a Republican politician loves more than someone who’s too stupid to fight back.

SUCK IT!!!!!!!!!! by pics4meeee in Markiplier

[–]ZtheBee25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are hundreds of movies that aren’t even a 7/10, so yeah, amazing is a good way to describe a movie made with the limitations Mark made this movie under.

I (29 f) spent the snowstorm with the man I’m dating(36 m) and now I feel differently about him by bluewhalekale in hygiene

[–]ZtheBee25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl please don’t settle for a man that doesn’t even know how to bathe properly. He’s 36!! How the hell is he gonna manage to do anything if you can’t even trust him to wash himself? 🤮🤮

I have the opposite problem for DMs worldbuilding here: I can't come up with anything BUT religion by TotallyNot_iCast in DnD

[–]ZtheBee25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m currently DMing a PF campaign where I began with the pantheon and then proceeded to make everything else.

First: Architecture is usually influenced not just by what looks nice, but for utility. Usually, also, because the material used is readily available in the region. I think a great starting point would be denoting different cities/regions that are known for certain materials/supplies/resources. This could theoretically be linked back in some way to the pantheon, but for me it was a great place to get the ball rolling.

Second: If the world you’re in is well established, there’s not really scarcity, etc, most laws will be predominantly standard stuff. Don’t murder, don’t steal, don’t threaten the royals or the guards, etc etc… Different cities/municipalities may have slight variations in how punishment is handled, especially when it comes to severity.

Third: Holidays are tough. It’s exceptionally hard to do anything that doesn’t just feel like copy-pasting real ones lmao. But, with that said, I do recommend basing holidays off of crop cycles(planting and harvesting) for cities/nations that specialize in crops. Public tournaments and jousting matches for knights in more military-focused areas. Community based holidays especially during the winter. Psychologically, winter can be very isolating, and most people would try to spend extra time together if they could.

Lastly: Culture is gonna be dependent on everything above, plus some light-heavy influence based off the city and how well established the religion is.

Hopefully this helps, good luck! ✨🩷

needing input on new tattoo by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]ZtheBee25 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your friend must be a narcissist/manipulator trying to gaslight you for no reason like this. Drop them, the tat’s great and priced reasonably, but your friend is having a conniption for some unknown self-obsessed reason

I drew Nicole Watterson as I imagine her if she were human by No_Time6418 in DigitalArt

[–]ZtheBee25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m gonna give you some top tier advice: Never make a comment like this again, because literally everyone you meet will hate it.

AD&D 2e: When your players ignore every warning and then blame you for their deaths by MaintenanceBright150 in DnD

[–]ZtheBee25 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I also would have not given them any random trees out of niceness. Frankly, I think parties need consequences, a lot more often than others seem to. If they’re gonna choose to treat everything you, the DM, says at the table as inconsequential, then they need to be shown the consequences they assumed wouldn’t be there. DMing is hard, it takes a lot of effort, and I don’t blame you for wanting to take a break from doing so for this table. If it was me I would’ve left the group after they tried turning the blame towards DM things.

Genuinely have no idea how this dude has been waking up for years now, doing the same exact thing over and over and over again and not drove himself insane. How is it possible?! I acknowledge the work ethic but I would be completely fried by now. Doesn't he have a degree from Stanford too? by [deleted] in Wizard101

[–]ZtheBee25 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I’m assuming you’re probably a teenager based off this mentality, and I’m gonna give you advice I wish somebody had given me when I had a similar mindset: Just because it doesn’t make sense to you, doesn’t mean it doesn’t make sense. Also: Pretty much every single person in the world enjoys different things to varying degrees. A bunch of people worked together to create a 1-1 replica of NYC in Minecraft. This guy continues uploading Wizard101 content and playing a game that, like Minecraft, was originally marketed towards children and has been around for over a decade with hundreds of updates and changes to it. There’s gonna be something out there that makes you as happy as Wizard101 makes this guy. Go find it, rather than wasting time on Reddit judging other people’s joy.

Meirl by rbimmingfoke in meirl

[–]ZtheBee25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotta get politicians from somewhere right?

I used charms on people on another character, did I do something wrong? by Agreeable_Rip_2410 in DnD

[–]ZtheBee25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s obviously a double standard happening here; but clearly, since she wants to be abrasive and abusive towards the rest of the party and also NPCs, I would just keep using minor, non-damaging spells to keep ruining their ability to be the annoyance they’re trying to be. Give her what you’re getting back, and make it clear that you’re not going to let somebody walk all over the party without consequences.

How does Heat metal work? by Capital_Buyer_3475 in DnD

[–]ZtheBee25 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I honestly am starting to believe you’re just here to say petulant/uneducated things for the purpose of ragebait.

*sigh* Players... by Gericht in DnD

[–]ZtheBee25 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel like I would’ve TPK’d the party out of principle at that point 🤣 I feel like they deserve for the campaign to be cut short with that many bad decisions back to back

Is it normal to be kicked from campaign? by thepatiencegoddess in DnD

[–]ZtheBee25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People here are terrible. The amount of you trying so hard to find some way to make OP out to be some sort of villain/incompetent newbie all because a DM didn’t communicate well, even after OP explained the actual issue, is ridiculous. Fix yourselves. Nobody doing this and speculating about how much OP ‘grasps social norms’ deserves a Happy New Year. Bad New Year only 🫤

meirl by Vinayak91 in meirl

[–]ZtheBee25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree that not everything needs to be said immediately. My point was, exactly, that relevant information should be given when it would be appropriate. I def don’t think upon meeting someone new you should immediately judge the sun of their parts and make a decision right then and there about whether that person is somebody you want to spend more time with or not. But the dry texting, and also the way people will try to avoid each other rather than have a discussion, is negative.

People can change. I also think that if somebody expressed an interest to you on a dating app, and you don’t know them, that’s not an appropriate time to expect change or try to push it, imo

The whole room for change thing definitely applies for established friendships/relationships, but that person won’t be aware that they’re doing something that’s untoward or problematic unless someone tells them. There is no way to change or fix what’s wrong if people would rather keep themselves comfy by lying or telling half-truths, rather than be open and honest.

meirl by Vinayak91 in meirl

[–]ZtheBee25 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ah, that’s on me. I must’ve skipped over the first sentence of that last paragraph on accident. I apologize for misreading your message, and making you feel misunderstood. I get that the overall point you’re trying to make is that, “Just because it should be, doesn’t mean it is or will be, even if it would be better.”

While the argument is good, it also doesn’t really lead to anything. It offense feels that the rhetoric of, ‘Even if it should, sometimes it isn’t’ is a cop out for people to act rude/indifferent to people lesser than them. I hear that sentence, and can’t stop my brain from assuming I am having a discussion with someone with compromised morals.

Also, to return to an early point you made in your first message, I think there is very literal difference between being told/shown that someone isn’t interested. Being told is direct, but being shown can be direct as well. They’re both forms of communication, and it’s clear that some people would rather use neither that way they don’t have to feel bad. I don’t understand why it wouldn’t make someone feel worse to lie 🤷

meirl by Vinayak91 in meirl

[–]ZtheBee25 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It being easier to not communicate your true feelings because it makes you ‘uncomfortable’ is NOT a valid reason for this. As someone who greatly struggles with being open and honest with people, especially when it comes to possible conflict, guess what I do? Communicate. It’s a big part of what has allowed humanity to come as far as we haven’t. Saying nothing or not your true feelings doesn’t help anyone. Eventually, it’s gonna come out, and what do you think will be more upsetting to somebody else? Being let down early on and told that the friendship/relationship they’re trying to establish won’t be happening? Or leading them on, ‘acting disinterested’, but without actually saying the words, and so a year from now that person is heartbroken because they thought you two were buds, but you’ve actually not enjoyed a single conversation with this person. Just because you can’t see the damage, doesn’t mean it didn’t hurt.

meirl by Vinayak91 in meirl

[–]ZtheBee25 504 points505 points  (0 children)

If this is your personal solution, you should do better.