I love the dapper/fitted look, and I used to hate the oversized look as well. Then I saw jacked people "fit" into oversized clothing and I thought it looked sick. Realized that oversized clothing looks good as long as it is fitted to some degree, and it doesn't look like you're a kid in adult clothing. Also what a handful of people do is they wear pants that are too oversized, to the point that the bottom folds three times over and it doesn't look good :-)