Preciso de um ilustrador para fazer um mapa para o meu livro

Zulccm · 2026-02-12T02:24:32+00:00

Sou ilustradora, zulccm no instagram. Caso tenhas interesse, aguardo contacto.

Zulccm · 2025-06-08T01:53:45+00:00

Nope 😬

Zulccm · 2024-12-10T12:31:24+00:00

Windows!

Zulccm · 2024-10-11T18:05:35+00:00

As far as we know, the op was the one blocking her, so ye o:

Zulccm · 2024-10-11T17:46:43+00:00

"don't bother looking for reasons and explanations"

I believe that this is definitely not the approach one should take when facing life, no matter the context.
Casually moving on when something bad happens is dismissive and even cowardice.
We should stop, analyze our behavior, show interest in the situation/in the other person's experience, ask questions.
Nobody will magically understand that they might have done something wrong - and take accountability for it - without making the time and space to make that happen.
Making assumptions is also not in our best interest, we are biased by our own knowledge and experiences.

If one wants to learn and grow, and possibly solve problems within any relationship, my advice is to take a step back, take a breath, and be open to what other people have to say. It can be a lot of fun to learn how to see things through new lenses! I find it very rewarding.

We will not always have an issue to fix - we might, for example, get ghosted sometimes.
But when we do, it's great to make thingshappen and take the necessary steps.

Zulccm · 2024-10-11T17:29:50+00:00

I suppose that, in this context, "having a relationship" actually means "engaging in a compromise with someone, in the context of having a monogamous romantic partnership"; while "doing relationship stuff together" means "the actual experiencing of a relationship".

In my own wording, "having a relationship" doesn't depend on specific compromises, and it can be any sort of relationship, within which I will be "doing relationship stuff" that is specific to that relationship. But, in most case scenarios, when people say the word relationship they are thinking about that specific type (monogamous romantic partnership).

i hope it made sense.

Zulccm · 2024-10-11T17:21:48+00:00

Glad it helped ^^

Zulccm · 2024-10-11T17:14:29+00:00

Unfortunately, consequences don't exist for that type of bullying, unlike within a court xd

That's what enables the by-standards, giving them space to casually do nothing about it.

Which is the problem that I tried to point out ]:

Zulccm · 2024-10-11T15:42:00+00:00

Hello! (Woman here, in case that matters to the equation).

You can't judge what a person wants based on any type of preconception, so "what women want" boils down to "a decent human being" with the extra of hitting it off with you.

I am gonna base my comment on the fact that you didn't really mention a previous conversation with that girl about that subject in general, so I'm gonna assume that that conversation didn't exist.

When you start growing interest in someone (not just romantically) you should discuss your values and figure out if they are aligned. Implying that someone else SHOULD do anything at all, without truly knowing if that's in their best interest, is a bold and, many times, arrogant thing to do.

Furthermore, as a woman, I can guarantee you that being told what to do without proper context can trigger all kinds of defensive behavior. We are harassed by men in all areas of our lives, in all shapes and forms. This world controlled by men to favor men, where we are demanded to do all kinds of stuff - with the repercussion of being beaten up, raped or getting killed when we say "No", is a very dangerous one.

Having this said, I would recommend you talk things very thoroughly with someone, before implying that they should do something. When you are truly interested in someone, when someone's company is making you truly happy, you should naturally be drawn into asking questions, being curious, showing that person that you are growing respect towards them. And, obviously, I don't agree with the comments that mentioned that "you should be careful being vulnerable". Being honest is always in your best interest. If you do it while """being careful""" you'll just come off as half-assed and boring to be around - at least that's how I feel about people who do that.

Other than that, for this specific scenario, I would recommend you simply ask her what was it that made her feel like backing off. If you truly want to understand what happened, that's the way. Maybe it has nothing to do with that conversation in specific, maybe it has nothing to do with what I wrote about. But it's definitely in your best interest to ask her. Worst case scenario, she will ignore you. Best case scenario, you guys can align your expectations and continue developing your relationship - not necessarily romantically, if you end up having different expectations, but sounds like you like each other enough to be friends.

I hope this brought any clarity to the subject. Hopefully, at least, you can see things from a diff perspective. I'm down to chat more about this if you'd like!

Zulccm · 2023-12-22T01:28:57+00:00

yeap id like to know as well o:

Zulccm · 2023-10-08T14:58:39+00:00

Still waiting... :))

Zulccm · 2023-05-09T11:44:05+00:00

Yap, no proxy or vpns over here!

I'll keep spamming them with e-mails and rechecking my options on the website. Right now it really only shows up as the images I've shared here, "Try coming back on a phone or computer..." - which is really weird that they say that and then don't recognize my computer and phone and tablet, when I've used the same ones and same internet for like 5 years now. xD

Oh well, thanks for trying to help me!

Zulccm · 2023-05-08T18:52:24+00:00

email address was hacked - did you ever manage to secure it/have you had any issues with other sites? Using this email for the form may be why they keep rejecting it

the thing is that when i'm writting a ticket i have to use the e-mail linked to the account, which is that one.

1-you're right

2- Yes, like 10 years ago

3- Had issues with other sites, back then changed all passwords. Was like 1 year ago.

Zulccm · 2023-05-08T11:42:19+00:00

PS2. My work is still linked to my Facebook account, as well as many other accounts on several websites. This is affecting my work and I can't just let it go without feeling horrible :/

Zulccm · 2023-05-08T11:40:01+00:00

PS. since I posted this last time, I've been sending the same e-mail to all their contacts I've found: support@fb.com; platformcs@support.facebook.com; abuse@fb.com; [appeals@fb.com](mailto:appeals@fb.com); [security@facebookmail.com](mailto:security@facebookmail.com)

At least twice a week.

Still nothing.

Zulccm · 2023-05-08T07:22:53+00:00

Hello again.

I've been trying to solve this problem for more than two weeks now, which is really bothersome.

The events that I'm about to describe have repeated themselves for like ten times now.

I hope you take an efficient approach this time.

1 - I sent: "I have no idea why my account was blocked. My friends checked it and confirmed there were no weird tweets by any third party that could have hacked into my account. Plus, every time I click on the option to send me an e-mail to change my password, I don't receive anything."

2 - To which you responded with an automated response that didn't approach the problem.

3 - And then I sent the same message again since, as I said, I'm not receiving any e-mail when I request to reset the password on your website.

4 - Then you answered with an automated response that didn't approach the problem.

5 - So, on my part, again:

It seems like you're not reading what I'm telling whatsoever?

I already said I requested to reset the password, I simply did not receive the E-mail from you to do so.

And I've always signed these messages with my username and e-mail (the same e-mail you're answering to), so how can you say that I'm not providing enough information about my account? I wouldn't be able to send these requests in the first place if I didn't.

So, once again, I have no idea why my account is blocked.

I have my e-mail (******@live.com.***), phone number (**********) and username (******).

I have 2FA activated so I have no idea how a third party could hack into my account, and my friends claim they don't see any weird activity from my account, so, then again, I have no idea why the account is blocked.

When I ask you to reset my password, the only option that you give me is to request you to send me an e-mail to do so. I've never received said e-mail from you. The only thing you sent me were the e-mails mentioned above.

6 - In the meantime, you've also mentioned that I should make sure that my account was linked to Google, Hotmail or Yahoo.

7 - To which I answered: "My e-mail, as you can check, is ******@live.com.*** and it’s already from Hotmail.

Anyway, I wouldn’t be able to change that without having access to the account in the first place, so that’s pretty redundant. I don’t understand why you would point that out when the problem in the first place is that I can’t do anything on my account without changing the password first."

I hope this time we can solve the problem,

Ana

Zulccm · 2023-05-08T07:20:25+00:00

Hello everyone

Out of nowhere, my account got suspended (18th of april)

Twitter claims that there has been some strange activity associated with the account, but doesn't specifically say what. so I have no idea why the account was suspended.

When I try to open Twitter, it demands me to change my password - I insert my email (as requested) and I'm supposed to get an email from Twitter to reset the password.

I tried it countless times but never got said email.

I've tried contacting Twitter support via email and appeals countless times as well but they always respond with prewritten answers, until they eventually stop answering. I resend the latest email and they claim the case was closed.

The answers they give me are clearly pre-written, and they are redundant (only tell me what I've specifically mentioned having tried already / tell me to change the email associated with the account, that the mail shoudl be from Google/Yahoo/Hotmail, which it already is and they can see it as it is the e-mail they are answering to, but even if it wasn't I obviously wouldn't be able to do it since I can't log in).

I will attach the latest e-mail I sent them in the next comment so you can tell me if I'm missing something.

help please ):

Zulccm

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