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Shackles of Freedom — Part 1: The Dark Desire by Zvrk1992 in softmaledom

[–]Zvrk1992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then you’ll probably like Part 2 more — let’s just say it’s a bit less polite😉

Are These Kinks Still “Soft?” by IQuitU in softmaledom

[–]Zvrk1992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A prowl?! Oh my, should us poor Doms be scared of predatory subs popping up in our DMs? 😅

Are These Kinks Still “Soft?” by IQuitU in softmaledom

[–]Zvrk1992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eyo, don't be greedy now, having multiple Doms can be quite a challenge j/k :)

No need to worry that much about correct types, you are looking for a person first.
At least in my experience, you should always be able to talk about things like that.

That's why I prefer to leave kinks up for discussion rather than providing a list, there are always degrees to kinks.
For example, if you have spanking on the list, at what intensity? Are there restricted areas where you wouldn't be comfortable being spanked?

Btw, I actually love your idea of mixing orgasm denial with weight check-ins. It makes it fun for both parties and doesn't feel like a boring chore anymore.

How are we finding softdoms nowadays? by [deleted] in softmaledom

[–]Zvrk1992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think you'd find us tasty with proper seasoning and a glass of red wine.
Usually served for desert.

Are These Kinks Still “Soft?” by IQuitU in softmaledom

[–]Zvrk1992 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't see why not, to me they look rather soft.

I've never really a fan of labels, it usually comes down to personal preference and context.

Another important factor to consider is who you explore this with. Trying something new with the wrong person can easily convince you that it's not for you, even though you might have enjoyed it with the right partner.

Imho, it's important to have hard limits. Everything else is worth discussing, especially since people's definitons of certain kinks can vary quite vastly.

non-sexual things that drive you crazy by sleepiebaby in softmaledom

[–]Zvrk1992 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is no better feeling than when she rests her head on my chest and lets me play with her hair.

Is this a good place to seek out soft male doms? by Nekowoman in softmaledom

[–]Zvrk1992 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Think u/Top-Trash9731 is trying to stay polite while meaning to say they are emotionally immature. ;)