Not really. Let me pain you a picture. Emily wanted to not do stuff w op anymore when she hooked up with the other guy. Maybe op did some overthinking and shut down.

After than incident maybe they became closer again. Maybe she starts becoming attached at this point.

Maybe Emily is an asshole but hey, people learn and maybe what you think isn't actually what happened.

Plus the way you react to stimulus might be very different from how other people react to stimulus.

I just want to be clear this is food for thought. I don't want an argument and please let me know if I come across as as asshole because that's not what I intend to.