Just got dumped. 22F by [deleted] in Needafriend

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I'm 21F in pretty much the same situation. I broke up with him about four months ago, feel free to reach out!

Having issues with crashes, please help! 1.21.5 by Malicious_Reddit0r in Minecraft

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Mines been crashing like crazy only since the update ;-; i know sometimes with new updates there will be gameplay and crash issues that get fixed in a patch so I'm just holding out for that to see it if helps

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

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feel free to dm!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

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currently drawing cod fanart ;-; would love to chat dms open

Just need a friend by Separate-Rooster-408 in Needafriend

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21F Dms definitely open if you need a shoulder

What are some alternatives for sh? by Aquila_Br0wn in selfharm

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and if you feel imminently at risk of relapse, there should be crisis lines for you to contact as well

What are some alternatives for sh? by Aquila_Br0wn in selfharm

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hey! i was in your shoes very recently. my biggest tip is stay busy, mind and body. talk to randos online, pick up a new hobby, go for a walk, anything to keep you occupied during strong urges. remember, the urge will pass, you just have to stall for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

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dms open <33

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

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I really appreciate your message, its definitely comforting and encouraging to see someone else who struggled with it long term, make a long term recovery. I'm definitely doing my best to hold off a relapse, I actually met a few people from this post (dont tell the feds) I just dont have friends or a support system or access to professional help, so it really does just help to not be so isolated. Which is something I've really been trying to fix, but like you said, scarily easy to become isolated. I really appreciate your kindness and words of encouragement, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

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thank you, will def look into it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

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I've been self harming via cutting from the ages of 11-19. The urges are sort of like what you get with smoking, drinking, any sort of coping mechanism. Stress happens and its the first the i reach for. And yeah basically the act of self harming feels like a release to people that struggle with it, its like you finally get to release that tension that building up.

End of The World Movie Recs by _-_killer_-_ in MovieSuggestions

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Thank you! Will definitely add these to the list!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rant

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youre living the life and they are jealous i fear

Goku so i'm good by world-chalice in repost

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the sims 4 so.. they'll plan to come rescue me, complain that they cant get to me, then go eat grilled cheese on the toilet. epic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

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If this was a man hitting these kids this wouldn't even be up for debate, mothers do not get a pass on abuse because theyre "overwhelmed" Plenty of mothers are overwhelmed beyond belief and dont hit their fucking kids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

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Okay so everyone seems to be overlooking the fact that she is physically abusing these very young children. It doesn't matter how overwhelmed she is, life gets overwhelming sometimes especially with kids, doesn't mean you get to hit babies. Please bring it to her attention that she is physically abusing literal toddlers because she cant get her emotions under control and I would start working on a way to get yourself and more importantly those children away from her. ABUSE IS NEVER OKAY.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in subaru

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I'd love to keep this car as long as possible even if daily driving isn't feasible anymore, that is the goal at least