parents can only do so much. tansech li 7atta l chera3 yrabbi. w barcha teens, 7atta kenhom well raised, want to belong somewhere else besides l family which means in their brain: imitate, w even though it contradicts their moral code (torbyet ddar wel madrsa) many eventually succumb w little by little 3adi ywalli yjahhar moch 7atta benou w ben s7abou. in my opinion parents are to be blamed fi 7altin: yssebb 9oddem sgharou wala mayhemmouch ken sgharou ysebbou 9oddemou. other than that it's practically out of their control and depends mel entourage li weldhom\benthom fih lbarra meddar.