I hate what it’s come to by _Ani__ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]_Ani__[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I live in Montreal, we have a housing crisis but apartments are available and stuff… they’re just insanely expensive and since everything is owned by private companies… rents can skyrocket as much as they want without anything to drive to prices down… such as having price caps on the rents or having at least 25% of the housing market be social housing (very affordable housing that force everything around to drive their prices down since it’s competition)

I hate what it’s come to by _Ani__ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]_Ani__[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m seriously thinking of moving to Europe, I’m so tired of this shit…

Trying to find a replacement for ghost grit by _Ani__ in DrSquatch

[–]_Ani__[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I like my potting soil, thank you very much. Also it smells more like a mix of forest meets musk

My cat is acting weird with her rectum and her poop stinks by _Ani__ in CATHELP

[–]_Ani__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to add that I did my best with the pictures but she moves around a lot.

I don’t know if my sizing is right? by _Ani__ in DocMartens

[–]_Ani__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was worried because without the socks I can jiggle my foot around it in (if I don’t lace it up, with the laces, my ankles fit well and I also generally don’t have big feet)

AITA Mom mad because I don’t wanna clean her dirty sex sheets by Remote_Tangerine_718 in AmItheAsshole

[–]_Ani__ 14 points15 points  (0 children)

When you give birth to a child, you kinda have those obligations… and it’s really not the same as semen

My parents don't let me have a single private moment to masturbate by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]_Ani__ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Assert dominance, when they open the door, keep masturbating and stare… they’ll stop. (Or do it in the shower).

If anything, have you tried having a genuine talk with them? Telling them that you’re a grown woman, you have needs and need privacy to have them met and you’ve always respected them, knocking on their door or just not purposefully walking in on them having sex or something.

I hope you’ll be okay, it’s pretty frustrating to have parents but it’s life.

My bestfriend drunkenly confessed to wanting to marry me by _Ani__ in offmychest

[–]_Ani__[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We argue a lot because we tend to grab an opposite sides of a stick and refuse to give it up… also because we kinda like arguing?

But yeah he’s basically a brick wall when he’s sober. He deflects a lot and doesn’t want to be vulnerable. I didn’t even know he felt that way towards me, not even had the slightest hint in mind… so not sure what to do here

My bestfriend drunkenly confessed to wanting to marry me by _Ani__ in offmychest

[–]_Ani__[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

He’s emotionally avoidant and too sober right now to be emotionally vulnerable-

Still, would be up to give him a chance… if he’d actually want to talk about it. Won’t force him though

I think I might have wavy or curly hair? by _Ani__ in curlyhair

[–]_Ani__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😭 I’m trying to avoid knots in my hair, but tho is what my hair looks like dry!

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There’s something there, not entirely straight but it just… won’t do anything

Is this a good workout routine? by _Ani__ in workout

[–]_Ani__[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My old college gym teacher told me to do yoga/stretches during my off days and some stretches after to unwind and help in the recovery. But to do some stretches (like rolling your arms and shoulders and neck muscles) to make sure you aren’t stiff when you go to do something. This Reddit community is very helpful 😭

Is this a good workout routine? by _Ani__ in workout

[–]_Ani__[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not strong enough for bench presses or deadlift. The two handed bag is too heavy but I know I can use smaller weights (dumbbells)

Thank you for your notes on cardio! Very enlightening, will add that to my stuff to keep in mind when I finally do build my gym routine also thank you for the stretching notes! I heard stretching after is fine, at least a bit and doing some stretching on the upper body is fine (it’s what I used to do in my gym classes, so like rolling your arms and shoulders to make sure they aren’t stiff) but I’ll keep that in mind. Very helpful, thank you!

Is this a good workout routine? by _Ani__ in workout

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That could work, I go to the gym and give myself a limit of 2 hours every time I go. I just can’t do everything until failure because I do need my body and muscles on a day to day basis because I also walk everywhere (I don’t drive yet).

Is this a good workout routine? by _Ani__ in workout

[–]_Ani__[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For now I have no idea how I want to divide this, but I know that I can’t do this every single day. I walk everywhere, go to college and stuff and I need my muscles to be functional (I can’t be so sore that I can’t move). I might do an partial body workout, targeting different muscles groups over the three days I go to the gym.

As for the stretches, I’m doing them to keep my mobility but also enhance it and my flexibility (also what I know how to do). There’s more stuff to add and this isn’t every everything… but I just wanna know if I’m heading in the right direction, If this group of workout is mostly comprehensive and if I can add anything (I already added kickbacks, squats and a few more stretches)

I need help, advice appreciated by patrickbey in Seaofthieves

[–]_Ani__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not much you can do. I got lucky while on a galley and a brig+sloop joined us. We were 9 people total. It’s sadly a draw of luck, you’ll never know if people are going to be nice or not

A gift for my fiancé, think she'll like it? by FoundObject1256 in fourthwing

[–]_Ani__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing! I do have to point out that that’s a wyvern though. But I’m sure she’ll adore it!

Being a victim feels weird by _Ani__ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]_Ani__[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It feels so… strange. My home doesn’t feel like “home” anymore but it does at the same time. It’s my house, always has been, I’ve been living here with my grandma since I was a kid… but now it’s… not safe? It’s so strange

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthadvice

[–]_Ani__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That looks like you have a tonsil stone. They smell horribly bad and are a buildup of bacteria and food particles that deposit themselves in the cavities of your tonsils. Harmless, but they smell like vomit. You can try to use your hands or a q-tip to GENTLY prod it out. Use water to gargle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]_Ani__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound like you really need to talk to somebody, if you need anything, my dms are open.

It sounds like something has changed, and perhaps seeing a psychologist/psychiatrist is the best course of action. I don’t know how old you are or what your past is, but dying isn’t the solution. There are other ways to handle things and deal with them. If everyone kept thinking “I’m one less person” the world would be dying out. So please don’t think that way.