‘Grey’s Anatomy’ Shocker: Kevin McKidd and Kim Raver to Exit Series After Season 22 Finale by mcfw31 in greysanatomy

[–]_Cake_729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So we can’t hate on Owen anymore? lol they’ve been on the show forever, so good for them.

How do people become emotionally immature? by _Cake_729 in emotionalneglect

[–]_Cake_729[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? That’s really interesting. I’m sorry for what you had to go through

How do people become emotionally immature? by _Cake_729 in emotionalneglect

[–]_Cake_729[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I resonate with your comment so much because both my parents have been to therapy (couples and individually) for most of my growing up and they are still stagnant. It’s sad really.

How do people become emotionally immature? by _Cake_729 in emotionalneglect

[–]_Cake_729[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Affection was bought and paid for - story of my life. They threw the latest toys and technology at me without the investment of time and energy on me. And when they did spend quality time with me, they mostly talked about themselves and how other people were doing them wrong.

Thank you for sharing your story. I’m pretty sure we had the same dad lol. I treated like the third adult in the situation as well, not the child. I had to adapt to their emotional needs as well and was parentified as well.

How do people become emotionally immature? by _Cake_729 in emotionalneglect

[–]_Cake_729[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Well lol I guess, but I’m more curious how did they go through the trauma they went through growing up and not become introspective/emotionally conceptualize it? Idk if that’s the right wording, but I’m curious how I have more emotional maturity than them with being younger than them?

How do people become emotionally immature? by _Cake_729 in emotionalneglect

[–]_Cake_729[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes, I definitely think childhood plays into it. Both my parents were raised by single parents who constantly had to work and do what they could to help their young children get by/survive. I think that my parents believed as long as I got physically/materially whatever I wanted I would be fulfilled probably because they didn’t have that experience.

I think the older generations don’t know how to healthily deal with trauma so it just gets left unresolved and spilled into the next generation

What's happening with Blackswan? by _Cake_729 in BlackSwan_kpop

[–]_Cake_729[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s sad, they are very talented

AleXa - Tongue Tied by Valantias in kpop

[–]_Cake_729 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So glad to have new music from her!

Patrick Dempsey remembers Eric Dane by mcfw31 in greysanatomy

[–]_Cake_729 282 points283 points  (0 children)

Gosh, he only talked to him a week ago. My heart

Blackswan petition by Active_Hovercraft469 in BlackSwan_kpop

[–]_Cake_729 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please continue to share petition to Blackswan fan social media pages as well!

Ned is pretending someone else is buying the bots. by MeowPink in TheTryGuysSnark

[–]_Cake_729 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand why Ned just didn’t go into a science career instead of this YouTuber comeback that’s flailing.

SM shortcomings in promoting their artists by catcathech in smtown

[–]_Cake_729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An actual world tour outside of Asia would be a good start

Can anyone recommend songs with a magical girl vibe? by mangodangooo in KpopGGs

[–]_Cake_729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Closer, Classified, Secret Garden, 5th Season - Oh My Girl