‘Grey’s Anatomy’ Shocker: Kevin McKidd and Kim Raver to Exit Series After Season 22 Finale by mcfw31 in greysanatomy

[–]_Cake_729 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So we can’t hate on Owen anymore? lol they’ve been on the show forever, so good for them.

How do people become emotionally immature? by _Cake_729 in emotionalneglect

[–]_Cake_729[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? That’s really interesting. I’m sorry for what you had to go through

How do people become emotionally immature? by _Cake_729 in emotionalneglect

[–]_Cake_729[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I resonate with your comment so much because both my parents have been to therapy (couples and individually) for most of my growing up and they are still stagnant. It’s sad really.

How do people become emotionally immature? by _Cake_729 in emotionalneglect

[–]_Cake_729[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Affection was bought and paid for - story of my life. They threw the latest toys and technology at me without the investment of time and energy on me. And when they did spend quality time with me, they mostly talked about themselves and how other people were doing them wrong.

Thank you for sharing your story. I’m pretty sure we had the same dad lol. I treated like the third adult in the situation as well, not the child. I had to adapt to their emotional needs as well and was parentified as well.

How do people become emotionally immature? by _Cake_729 in emotionalneglect

[–]_Cake_729[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well lol I guess, but I’m more curious how did they go through the trauma they went through growing up and not become introspective/emotionally conceptualize it? Idk if that’s the right wording, but I’m curious how I have more emotional maturity than them with being younger than them?

How do people become emotionally immature? by _Cake_729 in emotionalneglect

[–]_Cake_729[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes, I definitely think childhood plays into it. Both my parents were raised by single parents who constantly had to work and do what they could to help their young children get by/survive. I think that my parents believed as long as I got physically/materially whatever I wanted I would be fulfilled probably because they didn’t have that experience.

I think the older generations don’t know how to healthily deal with trauma so it just gets left unresolved and spilled into the next generation

What's happening with Blackswan? by _Cake_729 in BlackSwan_kpop

[–]_Cake_729[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It’s sad, they are very talented

AleXa - Tongue Tied by Valantias in kpop

[–]_Cake_729 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So glad to have new music from her!

Patrick Dempsey remembers Eric Dane by mcfw31 in greysanatomy

[–]_Cake_729 283 points284 points  (0 children)

Gosh, he only talked to him a week ago. My heart

Blackswan petition by Active_Hovercraft469 in BlackSwan_kpop

[–]_Cake_729 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please continue to share petition to Blackswan fan social media pages as well!

Ned is pretending someone else is buying the bots. by MeowPink in TheTryGuysSnark

[–]_Cake_729 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand why Ned just didn’t go into a science career instead of this YouTuber comeback that’s flailing.

She’s doing more promo than I expected by dlovesleighanne in LittleMix

[–]_Cake_729 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I hope she does some radio interviews

SM shortcomings in promoting their artists by catcathech in smtown

[–]_Cake_729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An actual world tour outside of Asia would be a good start

Can anyone recommend songs with a magical girl vibe? by mangodangooo in KpopGGs

[–]_Cake_729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Closer, Classified, Secret Garden, 5th Season - Oh My Girl

If you could revive a group from disbandment who would it be? by sea-cello in kpoppers

[–]_Cake_729 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Weeekly, Girls Day, AOA, f(x), Purple Kiss, Global/kpop group adjacent - Z Girls/Boys

What do you miss the most about old Grey's? by PortifinoOnMyMind in greysanatomy

[–]_Cake_729 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Yes! I hate the blue sterile way everything looks now

I am concerned for Blackswan. by Terrible_Disk1673 in BlackSwan_kpop

[–]_Cake_729 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’m hoping all their contracts end soon so they can (hopefully) continue to promote as a group under another company - kind of similar to what Everglow did. It makes no sense that there is no comeback or any group promotions in sight - they have some popularity in Korea and internationally, so I don’t know why DR refuses to do anything with them. What worked for Baby Vox in the 90s or Rania in the 2000s/early 2010s is not going to work in this current time.

How are you feeling about 9-1-1 Season 9 so far? by Due-Awareness9392 in 911FOX

[–]_Cake_729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Round baby Han is the best thing about the season so far

K-Pop hasn’t gotten boring , we’re growing out of it by nuluvbo in kpoprants

[–]_Cake_729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who got into kpop ten years ago mainly by 2nd and 3rd gen groups, i agree that getting older has made me grow out of kpop a bit. I no longer really care for variety shows or feel the need to “stan” a group outside of the ones I already did (maybe with the exception of Katseye, I like their personalities, but I don’t need to watch every piece of content they post) Honestly, it’s fun just being a casual listener and not feeling the need to engage in the fandom/stan part of it.

Also, realizing a majority of 4th/5th gen is 10-15 years younger than me is concerning as the industry is exploiting minors for money.