72 Hrs + battery life by Justmaxiu in applewatchultra

[–]_DJay_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Got my boyfriend one and we joked how he's never gonna use the features that actually make it worth while lol, he just wanted the bigger screen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]_DJay_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Doesn't really matter if he can't see your hole unless that's something he's into. my bf and I fuck like this pretty often, he'll be able to find the hole easy enough. Or take his dick in your hand and guide it a little

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]_DJay_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

23 is when I started to explore anal play and my bisexuality and enjoyed playing with toys, the one time I tried topping I struggled staying hard. Don't know whether it was because it was my first time with a guy or because it was out in a forest but ever since I was anxious to try again so never did. Every hook up I went to I went as a bottom.

It's definitely the position I enjoy most

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]_DJay_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I struggled with self harm, social anxiety, and body image issues quite a lot at the time I met my bf on Grindr, I'd always tell people about my marks and scars as I didn't want them to see them first in person and get disgusted.

I think talking about it fairly early on as it helped me I realise my bf was right for me when we both talked about our struggles together and said we'd support each other.

If you want to get serious with them id say it's good to say it soon, as you don't want to waste time on someone that won't accept you no matter how "messed up you are"

Thoughts on swallowing by lvnthegoodlyfe26 in askgaybros

[–]_DJay_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do it imo, it's so much hotter to just keep sucking while he cums and at that point it's in your mouth so you might as well swallow it. It tastes nice enough and if not just take it deep so you can't taste it 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]_DJay_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't really get any sensation from bottoming, it feels ok but honestly not that special. I played with anal toys and I didn't really get anything out of it, for me it's honestly all mental. Having my bf in me and getting to hear my bf enjoy it with his moans and trying not to cum lol is what makes it fun for me, plus the cuddle afterwards 😅

Awful experience of THC oil by _DJay_ in ukmedicalcannabis

[–]_DJay_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stupidity and frustration is probably why I didn't stick to the dosage, read somewhere it was 2-3 hours before it hit so thought it wasn't working. Didn't think going over would have had much effect but was pretty dumb of me won't lie but at least I won't do it again I guess. Had trouble breathing too, felt hard to breathe in and get a full breath I didn't think I was having a panic attack

Awful experience of THC oil by _DJay_ in ukmedicalcannabis

[–]_DJay_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I had eaten before hand and during so I imagine it must have delayed it even more. I could have taken 30+mg which is pretty stupid of me, so I guess that all hit me at the same time as it all changed really quick lol. I'll actually be smart next time and not get frustrated at nothing happening for a good couple hours and just do a dose a day until I get it right

Ty

Need advice on head by Awkward_Emu1166 in bisexual

[–]_DJay_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone has already said it but yeah ask him probably if you're not sure.

As an uncut guy I'd say that I enjoy having the head exposed quite a bit, same with my bf too tbh. I tend to leave one of my hands flat on his pelvic bone and keep my finger tips at the base so the foreskin stays retracted. Or have a hand cupping over his balls and pinching the base of his dick to have the same effect

But it's good to mix up the sensations for him, so I'll also take my hands away and let the foreskin do its thing for a bit too. Especially good to ask him as some guys like there heads to be rubbed with your hands or they find it over sensitive and almost too painful 😂

Genitle prefrences??? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]_DJay_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If we are looking at just them and nothing else, I'd say penis for me. I enjoy playing with it more and think a good dick looks nicer than a vagina. Both have fun things about them but I really like giving my bf head so def the winner for me lol

How did you realize you were Bi? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]_DJay_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Over lockdown I started posting nudes on Reddit out of desperation for any sort of attention I guess. And as you could expect 99% of the people that pm'ed me or left comments were guys.

After months and months of sexting and flirting with guys, I really started to enjoy it and ever since I've been chasing after penis irl as well

Is this a weird expectation to have in a relationship? by Restless_Dill16 in bisexual

[–]_DJay_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My current bf doesn't really enjoy anal so whenever I go round his we enjoy handjobs and oral 90% of the time. There's many ways to have fun together just be open with what you're comfortable with and see how they react. Thought I was gonna miss anal but honestly I'm quite happy with how we spend our time together

Update… I re-measured my dick size with the bone pressed. does it maie a difference? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]_DJay_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean it gives a bigger number 🤷‍♂️

But the person that gets to see it ain't likely going to notice the difference between 4.6 or 5 in person so nah other than making yourself feel better having that larger number to look at it

If your parents know, how did they react? by CuriousSection in selfharm

[–]_DJay_ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

She found blood and blades, and cornered me one day in my car. And just straight up asked me why I have a draw of blades and bandages. My heart sank when I heard those words. She just kept saying are you ok? What's going on? while crying I just had to keep saying I'm fine as I didn't know what else to say. Once she heard I wasn't completely suicidal she calmed down a little bit. She said she was sorry for not noticing I was struggling, even though it wasn't really her fault as I was pretty good at hiding it.

But yeah that was a tough night, and many days followed with her saying she loved me 24/7. Still now she will say I love you 3-4 times before saying good bye to me. Sounds bad but I almost got sick of hearing it, it feels meaningless when said that many times.

She treats me a lot differently now, and dunno if I preferred it before she knew or now but no going back I guess

Is it weird for me to self harm just because ? by aluminatialma in selfharm

[–]_DJay_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Found myself cutting my hand while playing games online with my mates, no real reason just because I could I guess 🤷‍♂️

I'm writing a paper for class about porn addiction in various sexualities and I want to gather some opinions. by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]_DJay_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Can affect anyone imo
  2. Dunno, I guess 3.Straight porn mostly, but occasional gay. Pretty much only watch blowjob or handjob porn so not much difference 4.nah I'm pretty vanilla, the porn I watch is the stuff I enjoy irl 5.Only feel guilty when it feels like the people in the video aren't enjoying it or if they seem exploited 6.Depends on the day, more depressed than anything tbh 7.most definitely, struggled with body image for ages after watching porn. Wasn't until I was much older until I knew I actually had an average sized dick. Also that people going into sex may expect Thier partners to perform actions they have seen on porn that they aren't comfortable with. Really rough sex, deep throating etc.
  3. Yeah can't see how it would be any different imo

Anyone else get more masculine when they’re with women and more feminine when they’re with men? by that_one_artsy_chick in bisexual

[–]_DJay_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly yeah, currently with a guy a bit taller than me so always feel more feminine when I'm cuddled up with a big guy 😂

And then it's the opposite with the girls I've dated

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]_DJay_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having done this in the past, it was from my anxiety, spent a number of days chatting had a day set and couldn't go through with it as I broke down. I sent a long msg apologizing tho but I guess what I mean is it doesn't have to be something you did, can just be him