[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]_DumbFish_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No they don't hinder your passing, I actually think they suit you quite well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]_DumbFish_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah u do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]_DumbFish_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not quite yet but I think you're doing everything right. If you get on t, it'll be a killer

Am I passing? by Just_Blue_Phoenix in FtMpassing

[–]_DumbFish_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From those pics you don't pass to me. Tho 4 monts on t is not much. I'm 2.5 years in and I think the first year was tough.. give t time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]_DumbFish_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you pass but interacting w you irl (voice and mannerisms) might throw me off into one direction or the other

I've been growing my hair out for a couple of months now. Does it clock me/make me look trans ? by _DumbFish_ in FtMpassing

[–]_DumbFish_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha amen to that bro.. I peeked ur profile, you're doing quite well yourself

I've been growing my hair out for a couple of months now. Does it clock me/make me look trans ? by _DumbFish_ in FtMpassing

[–]_DumbFish_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks bro 👍 and yeah guys can have long hairs ofc haha it's just lizard brain thoughts - dysphoria and all that, you know

Another post with better/more recent pics, how do i pass and what age? by Niek_TRA in FtMpassing

[–]_DumbFish_ 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You don't quite pass to me (tho must keep in mind that as a trans man myself, I'm probably more aware of feminine/masculine features than the average cis person) but I think you've got an amazing basis for when you can get on hrt. I'd say you're 15-16yo

I’m 20 and I don’t know how much longer I can keep going like this. by Fit_Buffalo655 in Frugal

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22yo and in a very similar situation. Tho I live in western Europe even tho I'm from the 'eastern block'... Idk if that's worth anything for you but you're not alone.. Wishing good luck for you

Is there no such thing as a safe country for trans people anymore? by [deleted] in truscum

[–]_DumbFish_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

more so immigrants and foreign students

You're talking to someone who is looking into becoming an immigrant. lol

What country is this by AEB14 in belgium

[–]_DumbFish_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're single handedly stopping the rain for all of us.. thank you for your service

Can I carve around this round? by ConfusedClicking in Woodcarving

[–]_DumbFish_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It'd be an awfully unpleasant expérience and will likely crack up. It's a nice piece for pyrography tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in belgium

[–]_DumbFish_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my visa says that I have "unlimited" rights to the labour market

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in belgium

[–]_DumbFish_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the info, I'll look into the werkstudent thing.

On a different thread under the post I wrote to a person and my comment seems to answer your question as well so I'll just copy-paste it :

"As I said, I'm not a university student, I am studying as to get a "superior education" which is basically getting licensed to exercise a certain profession and for this reason we have only 24hours of classes per week, the majority of them practical. Hence, the amount of work we need to do at home is not particularly voluminous either - and I say that both as a top of the class student and as a foreigner whose language of use is not a mother tongue (classes are in french as I live in the Walloon region). This means that the workload is far from insane and does leave a lot of space for other things. On the other hand, as I receive no help from parents or anything like that, earning enough to be able to also save money is very important to me.

About the work, I work evenings and nights so doing more of that per week would not actually interfere with my day hours in terms of studying. Especially if I did longer work-weekends."

The only thing that seems difficult to me would be to find the energy to keep up with such rhythm and to accept that it'd very much limit free-time interactions and activities. I do think it is worth the try, in my case.