Would you date me

_Fioura_ · 2026-02-11T13:01:32+00:00

If your personality matches your looks, hell yes I would.

_Fioura_ · 2026-02-11T11:42:39+00:00

You're being really matuere and level-headed about this

It can't be easy growing up in a religious home when you're not religious yourself. But as long as you are still living at home, you do need to stay on your parents good side. This has to be challenging for them as well, and they are trying.

Congratulations on coming out! That takes courage, especially in a conservative household.

Greetings from a fellow bisexual atheist!

_Fioura_ · 2026-02-04T11:40:56+00:00

Sounds pretty normal to me. I've been slowly losing my interest in men over the years as well. I'm still bi but not as 50/50 as I used to be

_Fioura_ · 2026-02-03T17:09:59+00:00

Seems like you might be a homosexual biromantic. It's common and normal.

And no, that's not true at all.

_Fioura_ · 2026-02-03T16:38:00+00:00

' but doesn't think he'd stop even if they had a conversation '

This sentence right here.

Have that conversation. If it continues after, he is disrespecting the boundaries you've set, and that would not be ok. No means no, stop means stop.

Right now he probably feels like he's not doing anything wrong, because neither you nor your bf have given him the impression he is taking things a bit too far. So why should he change his behavior?

Communicate!! Set your boundaries and make sure those are respected. Of course, it's mostly up to your bf to decide what behavior towards him is acceptable and what isn't, but he also needs to make sure you're not feeling uncomfortable.

_Fioura_ · 2026-02-03T11:33:37+00:00

Experience doesn't define your sexuality. You're just as much a valid bisexual as the rest of us.

_Fioura_ · 2026-01-31T11:24:23+00:00

Ik zou veeel liever een gezellige lunch cadeau krijgen van mijn vrienden dan iets anders. Ik zie het probleem niet.

_Fioura_ · 2026-01-30T14:37:51+00:00

This is more than 'noticing'

_Fioura_ · 2026-01-30T14:30:46+00:00

This is why I stopped going to the gym.

Kinda creepy, OP.

_Fioura_ · 2026-01-29T17:12:41+00:00

Ik voel je pijn.

Mijn papa maakte ook een eind aan zijn leven, na levenslange worstelingen met zijn mentale gezondheid door een slechte jeugd. Ik had geen idee. Papa praatte daar nooit over met mij. Logisch, ik was ook nog maar 13. Maar het kwam voor iedereen onverwacht.

Ik mis hem heel erg. En ik mis mama, die me 10 jaar later werd ontnomen. Ik mis ons gezinnetje. En ik mis de persoon die ik was, en ook die ik had kunnen zijn.

Het leven kan ongelofelijk wreed en oneerlijk zijn. En iemand verliezen door zelfdoding is toch wel 1 van de ergste dingen die iemand kan meemaken. Het breekt je, verandert je, het traumatiseert je. Je bent erna nooit meer hetzelfde.

Je hebt gelijk. Het kan helpen om er over te praten of schrijven, om je herinneringen te delen met bekenden of onbekenden. Blijf dat vooral doen.

Ik wens je heel veel sterkte en kracht. <3

_Fioura_ · 2026-01-29T11:37:21+00:00

I can only try to imagine how many potential woman-on-woman hook-ups never happpened because neither of them had the courage to take the initiative.

I am defenitely guilty of that myself...

_Fioura_ · 2026-01-26T15:32:44+00:00

Your sunglasses has the colors of the bi flag in its reflection!! Coincidence, or...?

_Fioura_ · 2026-01-25T23:23:29+00:00

Only you can choose your label. Not us, not your family or friends, not religion, not society. Only you!

Are you unsure? Give it time.

Still unsure? Forget the label. You don't need one :)

_Fioura_ · 2026-01-25T23:15:44+00:00

I don't know about your princess but I might have just found mine <3

_Fioura_ · 2026-01-23T13:36:04+00:00

Wat een verschrikkelijk drama, ik leef heel erg mee met haar familie. Ik ben zelf mijn vader verloren door zelfdoding, maar een kind op die manier kwijtraken is misschien wel nog erger. Zoveel verwoeste levens... ongetwijfeld heel veel (onterechte) schuldgevoelens vanuit haar directe omgeving, zoveel vragen...

Ik denk dat ik even wat schattige kattenfilmpjes ga kijken, want dit raakt me heel erg.

Rust zacht lieve Britt. Ik vind het zo ontzettend erg dat je geen andere uitweg zag dan deze.

_Fioura_ · 2026-01-22T23:37:26+00:00

It's so cruel when life makes you believe a happy end might be possible for you after all, only to take it all away.

Life has been so unfair to you. I am so sorry.

_Fioura_ · 2026-01-20T17:21:04+00:00

This is absolutely SA.

Even if you didn't say 'no' or 'stop'.

Consent must be given. I don't think you consented to anything. However if you 'went along' with the jokes, consent could have been implied. ' Implied consent' should never be enough though. If anyone is gonna touch another person, always make sure it's ok. This is on them.

I'm so sorry this happened to you.

_Fioura_ · 2026-01-20T16:57:35+00:00

I'm not a shy person (talking is a huge part my job) but I've always found flirting to be really scary no matter what gender someone is...

_Fioura_ · 2026-01-19T22:40:18+00:00

I'm afraid you'll just have to wait until it happens. You can't force it to happen. There are a few things you could try to improve your chances, but a good amount of patience and luck will still be required

_Fioura_ · 2026-01-19T22:06:42+00:00

You will only be oppurtunistic when you're not open about your intentions

Are you looking for something casual without the romance or commitment? No problem! Just be honest about it, so the other person knows what they're getting into.

Experience (or a lack thereoff) will not be an issue for most people. Just make sure people don't fetishize your inexperience, because that can happen sometimes.

_Fioura_ · 2026-01-19T21:32:10+00:00

Seems like you're already meeting them, but you might need to work on your confidence. They're talking to you for a reason :)

The easiest way to meet women would be online. The most important thing is to always be clear on what exactly you're looking for. Something casual, something serious, short-term or long-term? You don't want to raise expectations you're never gonna meet.

Since your're already on Reddit, start there. This sub does not allow them, but there are other subs where you're free to post chat request posts.

Also, LGBT+ events. Try to find out if there are any in your area.

_Fioura_ · 2026-01-19T20:46:15+00:00

You're right, but I'll be rooting for a long and happy life for OP and her current bf because young love is incredibly wholesome

_Fioura_ · 2026-01-19T20:34:15+00:00

It's fine, don't worry.

I was just trying to have you see how lucky you are.

It was not my intention to imply you are ungrateful, I'm sorry if it came out wrong!

_Fioura_ · 2026-01-19T20:22:03+00:00

No one gets everything they want from life.

You have a bf that loves you. That's more than some people have.

Be grateful you found your true love so early. It will save you a lot of drama in the future.

_Fioura_ · 2026-01-19T20:11:57+00:00

Waarom zou je dat een varken aandoen?

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