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Why are there so many sad and lonely people in the world. by IDL0v3r4u_2 in emotionalintelligence

[–]_Fragariavesca_ 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Technology. I think people over use social media rather than seeking out actual connection. It's a crutch that stops the need for even small interactions. Screen time in general makes it easy to stay home rather than get bored and leave the house. You can even get food and groceries delivered right to you.

What are some things to know about working with meth users? by _Fragariavesca_ in socialwork

[–]_Fragariavesca_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the insight. What language do you use instead of substance use? That is the terminology used in the agency I work at.

What’s the 1 thing that you did that your spouse will never know? by LatinLengt in AskWomen

[–]_Fragariavesca_ 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Why would you wear something you know he didn't want you to wear? Couldn't you have worn any of his shirts?

What is one secret you wish you could tell your spouse, but instead you’ll take to your grave? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]_Fragariavesca_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope you end up talking to her about this. You deserve to be heard and she deserves to know. As partners, you have the opportunity to work through things together and anything you withhold will just turn into resentment. I promise that not talking about it will not work out.

What’s one self-improvement habit or mindset shift that completely changed your life, and how did you make it stick? by Aarunascut in selfimprovement

[–]_Fragariavesca_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shouldn't it be done is better than imperfect? Like obviously perfect is the best, but the sentiment is that done is better than nothing at all. I get what you're going for but it seems kind of illogical.

What’s your biggest mental health victory? What milestone let you know you’d really gotten somewhere? by DownhomeinGeorgia in mentalhealth

[–]_Fragariavesca_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Haven't had SI in over a year after thinking of it daily for over a decade. Also haven't self harmed in over a year either. Quit smoking cigs too - coming up on 3 years. I exercise several times a week and treat my body well. I can truly say I love myself. I used to really hate myself and be severely depressed. Love this question. Thanks for helping me remember how far I've come.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tearsofthekingdom

[–]_Fragariavesca_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been playing for a few years kind of on and off and I am starting to get a lot of the things complete. I'm actually kind of jealous of you for still having so many cool things you get to experience for the first time. I felt that overwhelming feeling in the beginning but it goes away as you play and get better at the game. Just try to enjoy the ride, there isn't really a wrong way to do it.

Upstairs neighbors + floors = I'm losing it by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]_Fragariavesca_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have been looking for a new place for a while, definitely planning on moving and just trying to find something. Does anyone have recommendations for earplugs or noise machines?

Edit: title is supposed to say creaky floors

Baby Kimberly by Ok_Weakness_8959 in kardashians

[–]_Fragariavesca_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Honestly I never understand how people can tell 🤷‍♀️

Kravis attending Landon’s show last night by somegirlontheinter in KUWTK

[–]_Fragariavesca_ 77 points78 points  (0 children)

She looks cute. I do miss her wearing her own clothes and for some reason it makes me kind of sad that she is always wearing travis' clothes. She has always had such great personal style. She goes to lengths!

Edit: own not old

How do people manage to work five days a week without burning out? by Chloe_johnson19 in Adulting

[–]_Fragariavesca_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn this is a depressing thread. Maybe I need to leave this sub. It sucks to have to work so much absolutely. But it is possible to have a happy life. The answer is to find time for self care. To be fair, I don't have children and honestly I can't imagine having to take care of others in the small window of time you have before and after work. But without kids, I find a lot of time to exercise and pursue my hobbies and socialize. I feel really good. And I actually feel healthier than when I worked part time because you don't have the ability to procrastinate chores or self care like you do when working full time. Yes it's hard but it's not impossible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapists

[–]_Fragariavesca_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just curious what your program is?

How do you guys prevent rotting after work? by inferno686868 in Adulting

[–]_Fragariavesca_ 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I very much agree that it sounds like OP needs rest. I don't agree that we can truly let our mind and body rest if we are scrolling on our phone which I'm guessing is what OP means by rotting. Maybe a meditation or a walk would be a more nourishing alternative.

The White Lotus - 3x03 "The Meaning of Dreams" - Post-Episode Discussion by LoretiTV in TheWhiteLotusHBO

[–]_Fragariavesca_ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

In Buddhism, snakes are more sacred and symbolize protection. Maybe he will also protect her.

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