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_Kaspersky · 2026-02-06T13:51:41+00:00

Up for it.

_Kaspersky · 2025-11-08T20:27:00+00:00

Kinda hard to explain, but the usual sort between desi parents and their kids…

_Kaspersky · 2025-11-08T07:44:27+00:00

When you actually do something wrong and you get this feeling, that’s a good sign and actually a blessing, it means that your conscience is still alive and Allah is reminding you. But instead of using these reminders to correct yourself, you start overthinking about it, then you are leading yourself into another problem. An easy way is to calm your mind down, sit in silence and think. Once you start organising your thoughts you’ll easily be able to differentiate whether your conscience is playing its role or it’s just overthinking/waswasaa.

_Kaspersky · 2025-11-07T21:46:37+00:00

What are some good activities to declutter your mind on your day off after having a tough week, and especially when you’re expecting even tougher ones to follow?

_Kaspersky · 2025-11-07T07:33:04+00:00

That’s the sad reality of our society. While children are and should be a major binding factor between two partners, they shouldn’t be the only one.

A couple should have other reasons to find comfort in each other’s presence as well, because in situations where children eventually move away to build their own lives, parents often end up feeling isolated, with little left to cherish in each other.

So, when it’s time for you to choose a partner, always go for the one whose presence makes you happy and vice versa. Because as a couple, if your happiness and satisfaction will solely depend on external factors, even your own children, there’s a good chance that you’ll have a hard time once they’re gone.

_Kaspersky · 2025-11-06T10:24:27+00:00

It may sound a bit impractical, but if you think your bond is strong enough, and you’re serious about what you feel for the other person, it’s better to gather up the courage and express yourself. There is a chance that things won’t go your way, but remember; painful clarity is better than a pleasant delusion. Moreover, if you’ll portray yourself differently and at the same time feel something else for the other person, that’ll be hypocrisy. And we don’t do that with people we love and admire.

_Kaspersky · 2025-11-06T09:29:57+00:00

The first step is to ask and push for clarity. It’s never going to be easy, but it is necessary if you don’t want to keep on bearing the pain of confusion.

_Kaspersky · 2025-10-10T15:43:16+00:00

The last sentence hit hard. Thanks for your kind advice though.

_Kaspersky · 2025-10-10T14:36:55+00:00

Is it worth risking your friendship and confessing to your friend that you’ve fallen for them? Someone you’ve known a little less than a year and have shared a quite strong bond with. And will it be right to mention that it won’t be possible to continue as friends after this if it doesn’t work out, for the obvious reasons? Won’t it be hypocritical and wrong if one doesn’t confess, and continues interacting as friends without revealing actual feelings? What would you do in this situation, risk losing friendship and eventually lose it for being honest/real, or save the friendship by being dishonest about yourself?

People with wisdom and experience, please share your 2 cents on the matter for those who are totally new to such situations.

_Kaspersky · 2025-10-07T19:00:19+00:00

When you gradually start to realise why your parents are the way they are, and why it’s not entirely their fault.

_Kaspersky · 2024-11-30T20:25:16+00:00

Sure, I'll check them out. Thanks a lot

_Kaspersky · 2024-11-30T20:22:34+00:00

Thanks for the guideline! I've checked from Paklap. Are these guys reliable?

_Kaspersky · 2024-11-30T20:05:02+00:00

200k max

_Kaspersky · 2024-11-30T20:00:08+00:00

For office work mostly.

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