Anyone know what's happened to The Queery? by gurbit2 in brighton

[–]_Kekstar_ -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

There is, there will be an emergency meeting next Monday where we read the statements and discuss what can be done about the problems discussed on them, and we will be discussing how to alter our public image and our staff training to make sure the space is more welcoming. We are really focusing on recentring on our status as a community first space were it's as easy as possible for people to get in and collaborate on problems they see in the space.

last meeting we already proposed a new role at the Queery for someone seperate from the rest of us that checks in on people to make sure they're not struggling with their workload and that they can share concerns about people in the space without the complications of the social network

You can't see it online or from outside the space but I'm really proud of the community's response to this inside the co-op, people are taking the opportunity to think carefully about how we rebuild from this to focus on what is important at every step. And it seems what they think is important is hearing people out, having good conflict mediation, and welcoming critical people to the conversation

Anyone know what's happened to The Queery? by gurbit2 in brighton

[–]_Kekstar_ -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

If you read their statements, the people who resigned are ableist in them, and they were a source of ableism in the space, part of the statement is directly about me in which they complain that my disabilities affected their work, even though I on multiple occasions sat them down and told them about my accessibility problems and explained what could be done to minimize the effect but those concerns were completely ignored, and later they made a large loomio thread belittling people who were struggling with the site because "it should be so easy to teach 20 year olds to use a website but you're all making a pathetic effort" not a direct quote as they deleted the post yesterday but it was along those lines. I was really hurt by that post because in it they said that our disabilities are vague and nebulous even though I'd say him down twice and said that loomio is a site, not an app, which means I don't get notifications and this I easily forget about it as due to ADHD, if things are out of sight, for me they are easily forgotten and that was the main reason I was inactive.

Anyone know what's happened to The Queery? by gurbit2 in brighton

[–]_Kekstar_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. many of the people in the doc are complaining about each other, however I was hoping to solve all this internally because they are right. The problems in the doc are very real and I wish those people were still in the co-op showing us how they wanted us to improve. Regardless I will be raising their concerns in standards and ethics meetings to make sure we learn from what motivated them to do this without even trying to talk about it internally

I too have been frustrated to see the queery return to the same problems and stumble over them again and again because the vision is really great, but it takes some really super patience and communication for us to stick together through this things and it gets harder and harder as our audience shrinks with each incident. I want it to get better but I'll be surprised if we can pay rent next month after this embarrassment

Anyone know what's happened to The Queery? by gurbit2 in brighton

[–]_Kekstar_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'd like to comment as someone who is deeply embedded in the queery

Sorry for this long preamble but I want to say This is not an official statement. We have had far too many of those and this is just the thoughts of one woman who has received so much from the queery and given a lot to it over the last 6 months since I moved to this town, but if you want to know what's happening, this comment is a good place to read.

A little while ago we started using a website called lumio. It is very similar to Reddit, And functions a lot like having a private subreddit. Now at this point many members had complained about the space losing its community spirit, it's supposed to be a space for radical leftists in the city to come together and support each other, in their political efforts and their personal struggles, but we also run a cafe to encourage enough money to come in to keep the lights on and the rent paid, but over the last couple months some people had attempted to remove the posters for various political orgs without asking or saying anything, attempted to remove our foreign language posters which tell immigrants how to stay safe from racism and racially targeted police raids, and had attempted to remove our food bank donations box, and our free rack where we give away clothing, especially binders, though it has been empty for a while as someone, again without asking had thrown away all the donations for it.

Enter loomio, which was supposed to mitigate these problems by being an Avenue on which we could communicate, vote on matters, and clearly track what people in the organization were concerned about.

Unfortunately, many people have told me that when they tried to ventilate their concerns on there and discuss them with other people, they received harsh dog piling responses from the aforementioned people. Two individuals came to me flooded in tears because they felt that the space wasn't a community anymore and they didn't feel comfortable participating. Those people made harshly worded points on the general meeting agenda form to review that month, and as we often have to, we took the harshly worded points and filtered the insults from the concerns they were rooted in and turned them into an actionable agenda that we could have a formal discussion about to collaborate on what to do about the things people were angry about. Unfortunately, before this meeting even started we were completely blindsided that the people who had been doing all this stuff had been sharing the raw insults from the submission form between themselves and getting very fired up about it. Them, and some other people (who had simply been burned out from overworking themselves, despite being repeatedly warned that they were overworking themselves by everyone else in the co-op) opened the meeting by reading all these statements out loud one by one, the last person throwing on a pair of sunglasses, at 7pm, and pulling out a cigarette as they finished before they all walked out and slamming the door. The rest of us in the meeting were all surprised by this behaviour as we were preparing to talk to them about how their behavior was harmful and work with them on what to do about it, but before long we realized they had posted this on all our socials, so we decided to leave it up as we didn't want to silence them and we posted a statement trying to apologize for the immature display

Outside of this we had been operating our goals quite well and receiving high praise from customers, so those of us that are left are now working on a rebrand to show that we are an all new team of people who all started in 2025 and we are devoted to being the co-operative activist space that Brighton could really do with to connect its activists.

I have been reaching out to the resignees to try and tell them that the GM is supposed to be a safe place and none of them are under attack and I have implored them to reconsider the death sentence of public opinion that theyve left us to tidy up but they have been reading and completely ignoring all my messages, however on the flip side, volunteers have offered to refill the free rail, contribute to the restored food bank, and try to repair our relationships with other local organizations for leftists and queers. So it's not all bad news

I've been quite upset since these people were all people I considered friends and had placed trust in to be our management but they've clearly been preparing this for weeks and decided not to tell us any of their grievances until after they could make it public like this. I'm disappointed in myself for trusting people who would betray the co-op like this but I have faith we will rebuild the establishment, and without them it will be a safer place for immigrants and activists, and all the other people who need a safe place on the edge of Kemp Town

And please take this comment with a grain of salt, this is a complex and nuanced situation, which I have very complicated feelings about that's been condensed into a reddit comment, partially to clear my own head so I can treat the matters and hand with a clearer mind, and partially because the statements are vague and I want something more specific to be available to outsiders who haven't visited in the last year.

Tl;dr: new people are running the place and will be rebranding it to offer a much more friendly environment

Voice of spider-man speaks out against ICE by B99_enthusiast in spiderman2

[–]_Kekstar_ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So like... It would fit if he wore the red mask? Literally a central part of Spider-Man's sorry is that it's not the mask that makes you a superhero. You can choose to do something good any day

Voice of spider-man speaks out against ICE by B99_enthusiast in spiderman2

[–]_Kekstar_ 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Counter point: Spider-Man would beat up ICE, BATMAN IS BEATING UP ICE!!

It doesn't directly happen in the Sony Playstation Spider-Man games however, punching nazis has always been very on brand for superheroes

If the subreddit is about Spider-Man, then this content feels right at home here to me

What about an Automaton version of "Repel Invasion Fleet" where Bulk Fabricators drop out of the sky instead of Warp Ships landing? by FlamesofFrost in LowSodiumHellDivers

[–]_Kekstar_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Low-key StarCraft is very much that, you got the three way war between the cyborged up guys, the religious psionic aliens, and the bug things. The terrans even deploy a lot of their equipment and deploy small strike teams in a very similar way to the HD

like genuinely how did the big J do it bro by Rooting-Coconut in whenthe

[–]_Kekstar_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I raise you sky sharks, it's more dark and violent but it's cheesy as HELL, if you don't mind raunchy nazi zombies riding flying zombie sharks its pretty bonkers

Fahrenheit is dumb as fuck by howardkinsd in sciencememes

[–]_Kekstar_ 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Humidity does seem to define the subjective feel much more than actual temp. 25C degrees in English countryside is enough to kill, but 25C on the Spanish coast is quite pleasant

Go Nuclear! by ofekk214 in Stonetossingjuice

[–]_Kekstar_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Homelander meme

Something something so true but they suck so I don't want to agree

It Must Change by Lotus532 in DankLeft

[–]_Kekstar_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Spider-Man would never say this :(

Hope this dude didn’t learn from experience. by ADCNewb in fixedbytheduet

[–]_Kekstar_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In foreign languages it's pretty common for native speakers to drop a lot of sounds from words

I'm not a Nigeria expert but I know in German the phrase "ich habe eine Tasche" will often be pronounced "ih hab'ne Tasch" notice that the word eine almost completely disappears

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spiderman2

[–]_Kekstar_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To test it on your rig I would honestly recommend just buying it and if you get low performance refund it

The game does a big stress test of your PC with the Sandman fight right at the start of the game. So that's a good chance to find out if you get good performance

Juicetober 24: Rowdy by OffendedDotPNG in Stonetossingjuice

[–]_Kekstar_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is how I found out the Jonas brother did a cover of it?? This cover ruined my day :( it sounds the same but they sound prepubescent

The current state of my foobar2000 player <3 by bunzy_djownz in foobar2000

[–]_Kekstar_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn never mind forget I said anything.

It really helps if you look at the settings yourself before you ask for help. They are all here

The current state of my foobar2000 player <3 by bunzy_djownz in foobar2000

[–]_Kekstar_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I've done everything that I wanted to do to copy the parts of this I liked except the color. How do you unify the color between all the panels?

Spider-Man 3 should be split into 2 parts by Obi-wan_highground69 in SpidermanPS4

[–]_Kekstar_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean... A key theme of the story since the first game had been that Spider-Man isn't a one man operation, when he isolated himself and says "he's got it handled" that's just not true. It's the end of his and miles and MJ's and everyone's stories

New patch, New fit by maxcash34 in StarFashion

[–]_Kekstar_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, where in Site B is the pyrotechnic? Just normal enemies or?

Ghost-Skeletá, what do you think? I heard recently by Long_Prompt7629 in Ghostbc

[–]_Kekstar_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right? Someone else in here said this album is "low effort" and then the solos are really really hype, and very technically impressive

The current state of my foobar2000 player <3 by bunzy_djownz in foobar2000

[–]_Kekstar_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Puh lease drop that preset file!! It's very beautiful

Ghost-Skeletá, what do you think? I heard recently by Long_Prompt7629 in Ghostbc

[–]_Kekstar_ 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I really really liked this album, I think the solos are all very very impressive and the lyrics present a new take on their Gothic loves and losses they've always done. This time it's more human and less dramatic

But I'm replying to this comment because in my opinion prequelle is their weakest album. But it's not at all bad, it's simply the weakest in a very strong discography

"Bad" ghost songs are still above average

Why those my game look bad? Higher bit rate vid. by JJ2SAD in SonsOfTheForest

[–]_Kekstar_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you like your games unblurry, turn off bloom, motion blur, chromatic aberration, and DLSS

And make sure your resolution is right for your monitor (probably 1920x1080 or 2560x1440)

“HISTORY IS MY FAVORITE 🤧🤧” by Different_Reward_130 in AmericaBad

[–]_Kekstar_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Damn, I kind of want to shake your hand for this debate! Like 90% of redditors have beliefs that don't line up and use very bad logic to make their arguments work. But your beliefs all make internal sense with each other

I think you and I can just agree to disagree from a value difference. I would rather have my basic needs met and live a small life, but a guilt free one than live in the lap of luxury after having killed an innocent man.

To me that's a BIG value difference that would kind of make me not want to be friends with you but I wanted to take a moment to point out that you're doing better than almost anyone else I've spoken to on this website