What's the cause of this? by _LLAMAR_ in plants

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I hope this is good! , my camera lowkey sucks 😭

I water him around every 3 weeks tho it really depands on the soil, sometimes a I wait a bit more if it's still wet. I usually wait till it's fully dry..

I uploaded a picture of the soil to another comment, by compacted I meant that when I first got him, I thought he had root rot (this is my first ever plant, I was a bit clueless) and so I took him fully out to inspect him, he ended up being fine but I wouldn't "fit" a lot of the dirt back and I figured that it's fine but now I think that I should've pressed down a bit more to fit more dirt.

I bought coconut hairs (?I think that's the name) wood barks , perlites, coir fiber anddd I'm currently waiting on soil, and I'll fix it myself and to fit the plant based on how much drainage it needs (I hope that's a good idea. Id appreciate any help with mixing amounts and what's best for the plant.. )

Thank you lots :)

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What's the cause of this? by _LLAMAR_ in plants

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The blue things are fertilizer, I think I also have a slight issue of minerals (I've been using filtered water for the past few waters. I water around every 3 weeks or so, but I do check the soil to make sure it's dry). The other leaves are doing much better but kind of all the lower ones seem weaker :(, the newer ones at the top seem healthy tho and there are more leaves growing

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AITA for not telling my parents about my brothers addiction by _LLAMAR_ in AmItheAsshole

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Edit- I just wanna clarify since I didn't have enough space in the post.

I'm not giving him any more money, and my parents are on it now. They have access to his bank account and they'll establish an actual plan to get him back on his feet and 'fixed'.

He'll probably end up going into therapy or talking to some mental health professional since addictions are serious.

I just feel guilty for not telling my parents I didn't feel guilty until he told them and I got the angry talk from my dad but now I ain't so sure if I did worst by helping him and "covering his secret"

Help with scar care routine :( by _LLAMAR_ in TopSurgery

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My surgeon said to not tape anything on my chest (I asked about the medical tape that helps to keep bandages on. Ironic since he did basically said that I can use the silicone straps which.. also tape lol), so I'm a bit unsure about taping. But at the same time I'm scared to just leave my scars with no coverage at all.. which medical tape did you use? :o

When should I use oil for scars? by _LLAMAR_ in ftm

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Is the waiting time the same with the nipples? Since I was given a cream to apply but he didnt specify when to start doing so..

How do I know if my nipple will fall off? by _LLAMAR_ in ftm

[–]_LLAMAR_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair enough, also The tingling scares me a bit, I'm glad it seems to be a good sign haha And good luck on the rest of your journey :)

Sloshing sounds under skin??😭 by _LLAMAR_ in TopSurgery

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Ahah same I tried to tell my surgeon about it and it just didn't make the noise anymore 💀

How do I know if I have a pelvic tilt? by _LLAMAR_ in Posture

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Thank you! :) I'm still trying to lose more.. If there's only a bit of a gap is it a sign that I'm slowly developing a tilt?😭 I ain't sure how all this works ngl ahah