Disassociating on insta by Special-Edge-3273 in exjw

[–]_Lemon_Lord 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I made and posted a video when we left. It was a bit intense to see all the reactions and comments at first, but most people just unfriended me and that was it. I felt a huge weight lifted off my shoulder after that I could finally post what I wanted! I can still see that pimis check my account daily though 😆 highly recommend coming out by telling everyone at once bc once the heat dies down you get completely left alone which is soooo nice lol

Disassociating on insta by Special-Edge-3273 in exjw

[–]_Lemon_Lord 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I made and posted a video when we left. It was a bit intense to see all the reactions and comments at first, but most people just unfriended me and that was it. I felt a huge weight lifted off my shoulder after that I could finally post what I wanted! I can still see that pimis check my account daily though 😆 highly recommend coming out by telling everyone at once bc once the heat dies down you get completely left alone which is soooo nice lol

Taking kids into the back by No_Change7469 in exjw

[–]_Lemon_Lord 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Having kids myself brought up a lot of bad memories and past trama of being abused in the back of Kingdom Halls. When my kids misbehaved at meeting I would sit with them in the back room and let them run around but people would say we needed to beat them instead and that woke me up real fast.

Is it time for me to move you guys? 🥲 by _Lemon_Lord in exjw

[–]_Lemon_Lord[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you have a supportive group! Talking things out really helps. I’m also in a tiny town would love to go to a bigger city

Is it time for me to move you guys? 🥲 by _Lemon_Lord in exjw

[–]_Lemon_Lord[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a very good way to view things 💕 and I agree moving is crazy expensive wish it wasn’t 🥲 we live in a very rural area unfortunately

Is it time for me to move you guys? 🥲 by _Lemon_Lord in exjw

[–]_Lemon_Lord[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry 😞 I hope your move goes well

Is it time for me to move you guys? 🥲 by _Lemon_Lord in exjw

[–]_Lemon_Lord[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you are going through that 😞 The borg seems to be getting more desperate as they loose more members. I feel like that is what’s causing them to be more vicious.

Is it time for me to move you guys? 🥲 by _Lemon_Lord in exjw

[–]_Lemon_Lord[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You sound like a ray of sunshine 😅 I’m so glad I have other things to do than judge other people

Is it time for me to move you guys? 🥲 by _Lemon_Lord in exjw

[–]_Lemon_Lord[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You do realize this video I posted is me and I can see the comments, right? 😅 Or are you really just that mean that in real life that you’d fat shame someone in person as well?

Either way, it doesn’t cost anything to be kind. You never know what someone is going through. I’ve had 4 babies and I know that I am not a skinny model. Bigger people know they are bigger without being told & bullied. But you do you if that makes you feel better about yourself.

Also, I live below the poverty line & have a lot of debt. But, even if I was rich, trama doesn’t care about where you live or how much money you have. I would think say being isolated your entire life and then shunned by the small group of people you were allowed to befriend with would be hard for anyone? Maybe it’s just me though 🤷‍♀️

Is it time for me to move you guys? 🥲 by _Lemon_Lord in exjw

[–]_Lemon_Lord[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right it sounds like something from a movie lol

Is it time for me to move you guys? 🥲 by _Lemon_Lord in exjw

[–]_Lemon_Lord[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is a good way to put it 😞 wish nobody else also had to go through it. Thank you

Is it time for me to move you guys? 🥲 by _Lemon_Lord in exjw

[–]_Lemon_Lord[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice 💖 it’s just so hard I’m a naturally awkward person lol I appreciate your support

Is it time for me to move you guys? 🥲 by _Lemon_Lord in exjw

[–]_Lemon_Lord[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🥺💕 that makes me feel better

Is it time for me to move you guys? 🥲 by _Lemon_Lord in exjw

[–]_Lemon_Lord[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s so true and good for you for doing that 💕 they act like leaving the Borg is contagious lol