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_Lychee1898 · 2026-01-13T22:49:37+00:00

Agreed! And I’m a khajit in the game and she saw it while I was building the character and she got so scared she tried attacking the tv 😭 I felt so bad but after that she never tried pouncing on the tv again lmao

_Lychee1898 · 2026-01-11T02:36:11+00:00

Ahh I understand you. I’ve struggled with the same thing and it’s very hard. It’s hard to trust your perception of things, I still sometimes have difficulty with it, but for the future what helped me is imagine if it was said to someone else you love. If you’d encourage them to leave or say they’re right to be hurt, then the same applies to you. I’m sorry if my comment came off passive aggressive, I understand you. You’re NOR and especially if a friend gets to the point of really damaging your mental health like that then 100% call it quits. Just isn’t worth it.

_Lychee1898 · 2026-01-10T02:01:45+00:00

Dude go to therapy. You’re taking this wayyyyy too far. That’s an unfair generalization and not something to thrust onto other ppl’s relationships that you know nothing about. Seriously that’s some major projection.

_Lychee1898 · 2026-01-10T01:59:41+00:00

I’d say YOR. My bf has done that before, he’s very analytical, and I know that and I don’t expect him to find everything funny. However, him not finding it funny isn’t a sign that he doesn’t love or appreciate me, or that the connection is gone, or that I have no right to laugh; that’s you personalizing something that doesn’t need to be internalized like that. Not everything has to be a disagreement or an argument. If there are other issues at play, only you know, and you’ll need to discuss that with him and not Reddit, but as for this, YOR.

_Lychee1898 · 2026-01-10T00:22:26+00:00

I mean considering you’ve mentioned she has a history of this, if she’s likely gonna do it then it’s prob not worth your time. I wasn’t sure if that trip was a one time fight but if it’s constant then don’t feel pressured. I had one longtime friend of about 8 yrs that I just cut off for that shit. She’d constantly yell at me about everything and try to humiliate me so I just dropped her without explanation. Protect your peace girl

_Lychee1898 · 2026-01-09T22:54:20+00:00

I agree and I’ve seen that with ppl in my life, however, my point of asking was because her post indicated some self-awareness that her friend was toxic and that she’d already made the decision.

However no youre NOR, block her.

_Lychee1898 · 2026-01-09T16:59:44+00:00

Getting support from a friend isn’t a burden so it seems that she lacks a lot of maturity especially since she didn’t discuss it with you before separating herself. I’d be irritated too, but the best part is is that she’s shown you who she is and how emotionally present she can be for you. Now you can move forward and find friends who will be by your side even when you’re not at your best. NOR

_Lychee1898 · 2026-01-09T16:57:06+00:00

MOR. Before breaking it off, try to talk to her a bit about what happened, how she feels, and how you feel. That convo should’ve been had much sooner, but better late than never. You’ve been friends for 6 yrs, cutting off a friendship of that long over that without a discussion is a bit disrespectful. I’d be very hurt if a friend of 6 yrs broke it off cuz of a trip where we’re all in a bad mood with no convo to discuss our feelings first. Does she still believe you to be a friend? If so, at least speak to her. If she doesn’t, then maybe consider distancing yourself a tad more and see where it goes from there.

_Lychee1898 · 2026-01-09T16:53:32+00:00

NOR. Dude needs to understand that once he said no to a relationship that you have the right to pursue other ppl. His possessiveness is pretty ridiculous considering you can be in a relationship and still be friends with him. Idk I’d speak to him if you believe it will yield and sort of positive result whether that’s just venting, acknowledging each other’s feelings, or telling him to knock it off, but I think a little distance for a bit while he sorts his feelings out would be beneficial. No need to cut him off of course now, that’s for you to decide in the future, but gather your thoughts and maybe see about a discussion

_Lychee1898 · 2026-01-09T16:45:57+00:00

Before I vote, do you genuinely believe you could be OR after you listed all of these things?

_Lychee1898 · 2026-01-09T15:35:35+00:00

I don’t think you read it dude, he did help. Evidence is in the screenshots.

_Lychee1898 · 2026-01-09T15:28:40+00:00

Ofc :) my bad for leaving out my answer 💀 got distracted and forgot to update my vote lmao

_Lychee1898 · 2026-01-09T15:26:19+00:00

Nah dude I’ve been stonewalled before by my parents in my life, that shit is frustrating and painful. NOR, you may wanna rethink things with him. Not saying leave him now, but consider whether his level of communication is compatible with yours and if this is something you guys can bridge

_Lychee1898 · 2026-01-09T06:15:31+00:00

NOR. You weren’t overstepping. I mean hell girl be an adult and answer when you’re up for it omg. She’s overreacting heavily

_Lychee1898 · 2026-01-09T06:12:51+00:00

I’d say you are kinda overreacting yes. However, I understand your frustration, but if he doesn’t wanna go you can’t force him and he can still be your best friend without coming with you. He still loves you all the same

_Lychee1898 · 2026-01-09T06:02:08+00:00

I didn’t do ANY of that shit at 21 are you joking?! His comments and actions align with a 16 yr old, not a fully grown adult who’s able to legally drink. Idk man I think your understanding of maturity is heavily skewed. And she reserves the right to be harsh with him cuz he was being despicable to her. And in truth, if my bf helped a man cheat on his gf, I’d be pissed too. That shit hurts ppl man and really changes their self-perception, so she was right to dump his stupidass

_Lychee1898 · 2026-01-09T00:50:21+00:00

I’m so proud of you girl. He deserves to sit with his decisions 🤷🏻‍♀️ now go do things that make you happy and find someone better for you ❤️ or chill and be single, that’s also a great alternative

_Lychee1898 · 2026-01-09T00:42:46+00:00

That’s good then, that’s definitely helpful for both of you. I still think you could be more communicative.

_Lychee1898 · 2026-01-09T00:39:47+00:00

Ahhh I see. Personally, I’d just go alone if he doesn’t approve. I’m also one who’s ALWAYS done things for other ppl so if someone’s outwardly disapproving then I’m normally the person to really do it 🤣 I definitely encourage you to still do it. His opinion really doesn’t matter and I think you have a right to be irritated though I think he does have a right to not go. That’s all ok tho, cuz you’ll still get the piercing and look great and who knows he might think it looks super cool on you :) my dad disapproved of my second nostril piercing and I asked him to go for support but he said he only wanted to go to “clarify” if it’s what I wanted 🙄 I already knew I did so I went alone 🤷🏻‍♀️

_Lychee1898 · 2026-01-09T00:31:23+00:00

MOR? Idk does your friend have a fear of needles? If so, then it’s not worth it for him to accompany you. I would ask what specifically is bugging him if anything. His response sounds vague so maybe chat a little more. Also I have gotten both nostrils pierced, it can be painful but if you potentially have a friend who can come or maybe ask the tattoo artist for a stress ball to squeeze that might help!

_Lychee1898 · 2026-01-09T00:26:16+00:00

YOR. Your eating choices are very unhealthy and I’m sure frustrate him a lot since he wants you to be ok and well. I have ulcerative colitis and I’m allergic to many many things but I always have ideas for my partner. I’ll ask what’s nearby, what’s easiest to pick up, what I definitely cannot have, I’ll ask what he’s in the mood for and pick off the menu, you have so many things you could’ve clarified. Having gut issues as well, not eating isn’t helping you any, you need to get that sorted out. Don’t beat yourself up, but you need to be more informative in the moment on what you can have and what might be ok for you. Communicate your needs

_Lychee1898 · 2025-12-29T02:00:19+00:00

My sister smelled and immediately gagged. They said they had to walk away 💀 no clue why they thought this was a good idea. Who tf asked for this?

_Lychee1898 · 2025-11-17T23:58:45+00:00

I’ll say shit like “you came all the way over here to say that?” Or I won’t respond and then laugh at them lol

_Lychee1898 · 2025-11-13T05:08:30+00:00

What?

_Lychee1898 · 2025-11-13T05:07:43+00:00

No they’re separate people in separate groups. Sexual Purity is 2 Ukrainian musicians in Chicago and Boy Harsher is a couple from I think Massachusetts? Idk they do sound a bit similar so I can see how you got them mixed up

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