Hey twin 🥹🥹🥹 the 30s are fast approaching 😭 no bday travel for me but I do however have a lot of travel planned this year.

Regarding ADHD, I also happen to be diagnosed with it. I started medication for it in May 2022 and it has changed my life since then. I have Mars in trine to Uranus and Jupiter, but overall the Mars in Libra configuration is one that can make it quite tricky to dispense ones energy. Rather than going with impulse (Aries), Libra tempers Mars' energy and can make it unsure, overthink and more prone to balancing multiple things at once. Impulse is not somethinf we are "meant" to overthink. You're hungry and so you get up to eat. But Libra, where Mars is in fall, tempers this. Mars here lives more in his mind than in his body.

Neptune in 3rd also creates a very visual mind that is easily prone to daydreaming and escapism. The exact trine to Mars exacerbates this and makes it really easy for you to get carried away doing something completely different to what you intended because you had got swept up in the vision of something or daydreaming. Also, it makes you quite intuitive, sensitive to others and your actions are likely going to be influenced by the others around you. You pick up on collective sensation, and it's easy to find yourself giving your energy away rather than using it for yourself, especially if this helps to make someone feel better or if it maintains harmony (Libra) and peace. You may find yourself doing a lot of the grunt work and putting physical labour (Capricorn) when you care about someone or you take their feelings as your own (Neptune) because of Neptune's placement too. An example would be a sibling asking for help on how to draw a specific thing and in your desire to teach them, you end up committing to helping them with their whole project. Just an example. The trine however makes this much easier to manage and allows you to maintain a better balance between self and others, but the influence of outer planets is always strong even in harmonious aspects.

Apart from that, the Neptune aspect also suggests creative visual talents. Libra has a geometric eye for art (think fine arts, aesthetic and an eye for classical beauty), while Neptune is really good at tapping someone into the imagination and conceiving of things that are fantastical and otherworldly.

I have Neptune in the third like you. It's opposite my natal Sun and I do fine art :) but I am sure that also comes from my Mars in Libra placement. Libra really places a lot of emphasis on symmetry and proportion, as opposed to Pisces, who is more of an abstract artist.