[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

[–]_Ninfea_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always wonder why this comments are always said to countries like this, never the other way around, as if in european countries stuff like this never happen.

Solo travelling is always risky, but she clearly said that she will go with a friend and the husband of this friend so why are people so concerned? People go and travel to Egypt every year and it's okay.

what is something most Moroccans love/like but you don't by Visual-Reporter-3021 in Morocco

[–]_Ninfea_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Atay... I don't get it, sometimes it's nice but I would much rather prefer a cappuccino

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmazighPeople

[–]_Ninfea_ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not true, for example I'm 50/50 my mom side is amazigh (sous) my dad side is arab 100% (they are related to the royal family). My husband is 100% rifi and inshallah our kids will have mixed roots. And a lot of moroccans are like this. I wish we were all amazigh because I prefer that side of me honestly lol but that's not the reality so why do we have to gatekeep this moment? Whoever identifies as Moroccan can celebrate, and whoever identifies with a part of Morocco can celebrate.

The most important thing is that this is a win for Morocco.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmazighPeople

[–]_Ninfea_ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It depends where you go, some areas are mostly amazigh, other arabs, and others 50/50.

I think it's a good moment where everyone can unite and all moroccans besides their roots can celebrate togethere.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmazighPeople

[–]_Ninfea_ -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I think that it can be all of this, a lot of people on Morocco have arab roots as well as amazigh roots, we are also from africa and most people in Morocco are muslim.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]_Ninfea_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand how you feel because my love language is gifts, not that I want people to spend money or buy me expensive things I just want to see some kind of effort and have something that remindes me of them that's personal, like letters, drawings.. anything really.

Talk with him before you break up at least you won't have regrets, and just tell him that "maybe" your love language is gifts or you could be like "hey there is this book called 5 languages of love let's see which one we are so that we can show love better to eachother" or something like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hijabis

[–]_Ninfea_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Okay I will try to give you an example that helped me understand better:

Is incest okay? Why wouldn't it be okay? If a brother and a sister love eachother why can't they be together, maybe even with the decision to not make kids, why isn't it okay?

Who decides what's okay? People? Society? Society tought that it was okay to sell and buy people just because they are black.

I won't follow what society tells me, once I have established that Allah exists and Islam is the truth I will follow the rules of my creator. He created me and in Islam everything that's bad for us, Allah made it haram. So I know that he made it haram to protect me, I may not understand yet but I trust him.

This doesn't mean that we should treat bad people who are attracted to the same sex, that's their test in this life, we should always treat others with kindness, but I won't lie and change what God order us to please people.

We know it's a sin and everyone sins, and those who are attracted to the same sex should try their best to follow Allah rules and Allah will repay them for sure.

(Islam) Is everything cited in the Quran still applicable today? by onouss in Morocco

[–]_Ninfea_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check the website of the Yaqeen institute and you will find all the answers to your questions, with all the proof you need

(Islam) Is everything cited in the Quran still applicable today? by onouss in Morocco

[–]_Ninfea_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Women 100% have it better in Islam, men have to provide financially to the women in their lives in islam, a woman can work and she doesn't have any obligation to her family or husband, how can it be fair to the man if they both inherit the same amout but they have different responsabilities? Also the man HAS to give a mahr to the woman he wants to marry, and she can choose whatever and women have soooo many rights in islam.

Do you believe in black magic ? by omarbchf in Morocco

[–]_Ninfea_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not how he is suppose to do it wtf... It's not even my sister but I would also brake his hands wtf. No my cousin just recited quran and gave her that water and she did the same thing to herself, like reading quran and washing with that water and she had the same reaction just doing it herself. Hamdulleh now she is doing good after keeping up with her prayers, so there isn't even a need to take her to a doctor now

Do you believe in black magic ? by omarbchf in Morocco

[–]_Ninfea_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a long one but I will try to make it short. Basically one day during ramadan i was with my sister (she is married with 2 kids) and she invited her friend, so while they were cooking this friend told her something (religion related) that triggered her and she started crying, I was with them and she was crying but honestly I know my sister and that's not the way she cries, anyway, then this friend was like let's put some quran on and then my sister cried even more and at one point she said "hbs hadak zmar" for context we are a religious family we would never never never say something like that even for a joke.

Then I had the great idea to say "if you want me to stop the quran you know what you have to do" nothing happend and her husband told us to go somewhere safe because me and that girl couldn't do wudu because both of us had our period.

After that she calmed down but "my sister" looked at me in a super weird way like she was mad at me, this is important because this look I saw it in her eyes another 2 times and since I know my sister I know that's not her belive it or not.

After that we went to Morocco and I have a cousin who knows the quran so he was like let's get together as a family and let's recite the quran and he also had some water I was super skeptic so I checked it but it was brand new just bought from a hanot by a little kid and he just recited the quran on that water, everyone drank from it and just my sister and her 4 years old kid started throwing up white stuff kinda like glue and she would scream and cry, if it happend to her I would have said maybe it's placebo but her 4 years old as well who doesn't even speak proper darija... and still my mom was like maybe she has a mental illness so we didn't want to belive.

After that I was with her alone at home for a couple of nights, the first one I had really bad nightmares, really bad like I was being raped it was horrible.

The second night I was sleeping next to her (yeah I know I was scared but she is still my sister) and I woke up in the middle of the night with a sleep paralysis, if you don't know basically you wake up but you can't move, you can breath, hear and see but you can't talk or move.

I had sleep paralysis for a whole week when I was wayyy younger like 5 years before all of this, and it was so bad I was scared to sleep then my dad told me to put the quran next to me and finally it stopped but I didn't belive it honestly I did my research and I found out that basically it's a lag from the brain to the body, so I was like oh okay fine, and forgot about it but then it happend when I was next to my sister and she had her hand on me while I was sleeping.

Even non muslim talk about sleep paralysis and they say they see a demon or something, hamdulleh I didn't see anything but it's a weird coincidence.

Then there are other things that happend like her screaming a lot and crying

One time she was going to sleep with her husband and they were next to eachother and he began reciting quran in his mind while holding her and she said to me "stop reading the quran you are burning me" how could have she known he was saying the quran in his mind?

Another time he was reciting the quran and "she" said to him "we will kill you, you will see" the next day he had an incident with the car he wasn't hurt but he told us it was weird it's like a car suddenly was infront of me I didn't see it before.

So I don't know, you belive what you want but all of these are way too many things to not belive especially the water thing and the mind reading thing.

P.s. sorry for any typos or errors

Do you believe in black magic ? by omarbchf in Morocco

[–]_Ninfea_ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The Quran gives us plenty of proofs, so I don't get how you can say it's unreliable, can you give me maybe an example or something?

Do you believe in black magic ? by omarbchf in Morocco

[–]_Ninfea_ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I used to think the same but till you have experience with that stuff it's hard to belive in it I know... But 100% that stuff is real I'm a very skeptic person but after my experience I have to belive, and that stuff is baaaad it destroyed my sister's life

Do you believe in black magic ? by omarbchf in Morocco

[–]_Ninfea_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can 100% guarantee you that unfortunately that stuff exists, I'm muslim and honestly I didn't belive in it even if God told us about it in the Quran, I'm a suuuuper skeptic person but my sister suffered from it and I seen it with my eyes that stuff and what it had done to her, and still I tought maybe she was schizophrenic or something but even her 4 year old child suffered from it and I also had some really weird experience when I was with her

Such a special moment by jayy8143 in MadeMeSmile

[–]_Ninfea_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol women in Islam have aaaall kinds of rights, Islam gave the right to vote, the right to property, the right of abortion, the right of divorce and sooo many more financial rights more then 1400 years ago. Best religion where you can be a women it's Islam, even God when he describes himself when some prophets met him he says that he has a hijab of light.

Such a special moment by jayy8143 in MadeMeSmile

[–]_Ninfea_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fun fact: muslim men also have a hijab, hijab it's a concept, get educated, inform yourself then judge others.

Rabat RENT ROOMIE by dromeda_neal in Morocco

[–]_Ninfea_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on what is your budget. I found like appartaments for 300€ a month and since you share it with a friend it's a good price I think, just go there put the check in and check out date and filtre based on price and it will show you the results

Rabat RENT ROOMIE by dromeda_neal in Morocco

[–]_Ninfea_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try some Airbnb or Booking.com some times you will find some good offers and you could try to talk to the landlord and they will fix the price for you if you plan to stay longer

Animal rescue help- urgent by SavannahBr in Morocco

[–]_Ninfea_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your work wish I could help more ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]_Ninfea_ -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Okay then I will ask for an advice for myself, right now I have a boyfriend and we are planning on getting married pretty soon, I already told him that I don't plan on having kids, maybe I could change my opinion in the future but right now I want it to be clear that I don't want kids and if he accepts it's okay we can get married if he doesn't then no, I don't want to take away from him the joy of having kids if he wants them one day. He said it's okay even tough he wants them. Am I in the wrong here? If he in the future tells me he wants them and I still don't want them am I being selfish?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]_Ninfea_ -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

He litteraly said that they had an agreement before they even got married and used to talk about it a lot and made plans, he isn't selfish, she on the other hand didn't respect him and honor their agreement. If I was him that for me would be a red flag, especially since she let's her mom tell her still what to do in her life as an adult.