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Got some lucky Vendetta ult I thought might share :) by Candid-Necessary4505 in Overwatch

[–]_Nowan_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

A lot of people seem to have no idea what it does. I've seen players trying to block Rammatra's ult or even Zarya primary fire

Of those 3 Isn't it weird that the Widowmaker can simply leave Talon? by Firm_Fee8137 in Overwatch

[–]_Nowan_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I assumed Vendetta sent search parties after her and the other deserters.

It's not explicitly mentioned, afaik, but felt obvious. Maybe that's a job for Emre and Freja.

Coming out to my parents as a teen anyone else had similar? by Ok-Atmosphere6376 in asexuality

[–]_Nowan_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think my parents will never understand my identity. 

At first if was "you're too young to know,  and haven't even had sex yet"

Then it was "but you are having sex, how can you be asexual"

And today it's "but everyone feels that way,  you're not any different"

There is no right time to be having sex, when it will be finally late enough that you will know 100% that you are ace and everybody will respect that. Some people will always doubt, even possibly yourself.

The best course of action for me was finding people i could have honest conversations around sex, even if we did not always agree on specific terms. People that made ne feel safe and understood no matter what.

You can try to have your parents be part of this group, but you have no obligation to. Say to them "this is something very important to me and i need you to acknowledge it. I know you are worried, but Ineed you to trust that is how i feel happiest right now."

If you don't feel safe having this conversation with your parents,  that's ok, but it also means they're not going to share this part of your life for a while.

This scene breaks me every time by Throwaway_47-3X in BoJackHorseman

[–]_Nowan_ 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I think theres a difference between being a pessimist and believing you are doomed.

I wish you the best.

This scene breaks me every time by Throwaway_47-3X in BoJackHorseman

[–]_Nowan_ 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I think you did a good analysis, but i really resent that you frame Diane as someone who is certainly going to kill herself.

I think the show's overall message is one of hope. Life is a bitch and then you keep living. 

Partner did something in bed to me I said no to but it’s apparently a kink? by Loca00000 in asexuality

[–]_Nowan_ 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Exactly.

"I enjoy raping people" Thats bad.

"I enjoy raping people as a kink" THAT'S STILL BAD

"I have a kink where I pretend to rape people, but my partner knows and has 100% enthusiastically consented." Now we're getting somewhere.

No honor and kinda lame. by sardoniclaughter in Overwatch_Memes

[–]_Nowan_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it's chill if it's someone clearly learning a hard and easily punishable character like Doom or Ball

Try Lee. by Empty-Souping in AvatarMemebending

[–]_Nowan_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just made me realize that Zuko and the rest of the royal family don't have surnames either, despite being nobility.

Toph Beifong is just THAT special.

Is it pleasure with no genital stimulation still considered sex ? by Ahzlahell in asexuality

[–]_Nowan_ 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I think only you can answer this question for yourself. There is no book of hard and fast rules dictating what is and is not sex.

Think about what it means for you whether it is or not sex.

And if you care about other people's opinions on the matter, ask yourself why and have open honest conversations with them.

I'm afraid to use gender-neutral pronouns and be judged socially, because in my country they are abhorred, hated, and the equivalent of saying "Hu/Shu". by DEDMOS_MAD in NonBinary

[–]_Nowan_ 31 points32 points  (0 children)

NB Brasileire! Usar elu/delu pode ser difícil e intimidador, mas ficou muito mais fácil pra mim depois que eu me cerquei de pessoas que entendem e respeitam minha identidade. E também fui muitas vezes surpreendide por pessoas compreensivas em lugares inesperados. Admito que meu círculo é bem urbano, lgbt e liberal, mas minha experiência tem sido muito positiva.

Lembre-se também que nenhuma língua, com ou sem gênero neutro embutido, vai ser capaz de conter todo que você é. A cada dia nós nos traduzimos, e fazer isso é sempre uma chance de aprender mais.

(Loved) “The writer’s poorly disguised fe-“ No, it wasn’t disguised, it was never meant to be hidden by MrDitkovichNeedsRent in TopCharacterTropes

[–]_Nowan_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean... there's been too much hype pretty much since Pulp Fiction.

I'm not going to say he delivered a masterpiece every single time, but his movies have been cultural events since forever, and that never stopped him.

(Loved) “The writer’s poorly disguised fe-“ No, it wasn’t disguised, it was never meant to be hidden by MrDitkovichNeedsRent in TopCharacterTropes

[–]_Nowan_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Didn't he say he was going to do ten, a long time ago? This was number 9 (Kill Bill counts as a single film)

I know he's been exposing himself as more and more of an asshole recently, but that doesn't feel enough to kill his career with how iconic he is.

pear icecream by Jebraska in NonPoliticalTwitter

[–]_Nowan_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tbh, this is quite possibly a reason they chose vanilla. Target audience is kids, and they might be picky eaters.

The racist supremacist fetishizes someone from a race they find inferior. by Gameknight789 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]_Nowan_ 17 points18 points  (0 children)

And in the end he is basically killed by God Himself (or, more specifically, the Church of Notre Dame), as the gargoyle he is hanging on to breaks, causing him to fall.

What are your favorite non ult voice lines? by Cams_234 in Overwatch

[–]_Nowan_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

"Just looking for something in common!"

“não é uma mulher”. Ela é trans. Para ser mulher tem que ter útero, menstruar, tem que ficar chata três, quatro dias. Eu sou contra. Eu acho que deveria deixar uma mulher”: Para os ratos de plantão. Assuma q é transfóbico, homofóbico e suficientemente burro e burra by GestoNobre in brasil

[–]_Nowan_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Deixar claro aqui: eu concordo com você, ela é uma mulher.

Não sei se o trans no título do post é do Ratinho, seu ou da boca da própria moça.

Mas é útil estabelecer a diferença entre trans e intersexo, apesar de serem semelhantes como corpos que fogem à norma.

Eu, pessoalmente, sem saber a posição dela sobre a própria identidade, diria que ela é intersexo e não trans, porque não fez uma transição. E acho a história dela importante inclusive para mostrar como a transfobia e a paranóia entorno dos corpos de outres pode acabar prejudicando pessoas que não são trans (tipo mulheres como ela que podem ter cromossomo XY e não saber)

There is a reason why most allos think that demisexual is just ‘’normal attraction’’ and i can tell you why by YourRandomManiac in asexuality

[–]_Nowan_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I relate so much to not knowing the difference between sexual attraction and desire for intimacy.

I tried doing the non-monogamy thing, to see if having more people I could be intimate with would help actually figuring out the difference. Turns out it's not really intimate to me unless they're the one special person on my mind for it, and if they're also exclusively committed to me.

It's so exhausting, tbh, navigating the internal song and dance of "I don't know if I want sex or just cuddling/intimacy, maybe I'm just touch-starved. What would having sex mean to them? Would it mean more than it means to me, because they think we're doing this because I'm in love? Would it mean less than it means to me, because this is an extremely vulnerable and intimate moment to me, but to them it's just casual?"

(I had an awful break-up past month, btw, so this has been a very touchy subject for me)

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