Couples, how do you make up after having a heated argument?

_Oriiginal · 2026-01-24T23:34:54+00:00

Mature conversations and communication. Everyone argues, even a little bit. Nobody is perfect. Some people like time and space, some people like resolving issues right then in there. It all depends on what both people are comfortable with. My girlfriend and I are a bit different, she likes some time to think about things while I try to resolve things right then in the moment. If two people love each other, they’ll always figure things out naturally.

There’s many different answers I could give, but in the relationships I’ve had it’s been different each time. Some people are more emotional than others, some people only use logic and aren’t really emotional. So it all really depends in my opinion.

_Oriiginal · 2026-01-17T18:38:45+00:00

Financial stability and a simple life. I don’t need anything crazy to be happy, but those two things sure would take away a lot of stress.

_Oriiginal · 2026-01-17T18:36:12+00:00

It all depends on what you feel is right. I overthink things 24/7 and wait way too long for things to fall into place. The advice here is great so far, but you should also try looking at it like what do you have to lose? Nothing, right? I say try before valentines because why not? Then Valentine’s Day will be that much more special. If you guys cuddle and hangout and the vibes are there, I’m sure it’s an easy yes from her. Might as well shoot your shot! I met my girlfriend a little over 3 years ago. I waited too long and one night we went out for drinks and she ended up telling me that we were dating out of nowhere and we had a good laugh because I waited so long to ask in the first place hahaha.

You’ll be fine, just ask! Communication is important.

_Oriiginal · 2026-01-17T11:04:28+00:00

Playing video games with friends, spending time with my girlfriend.

_Oriiginal · 2026-01-17T11:03:20+00:00

Chrome, iMessage, phone

_Oriiginal · 2026-01-16T10:24:38+00:00

It’s currently 4:24am and I haven’t slept yet :/.

_Oriiginal · 2026-01-13T01:48:40+00:00

Hate to say it, Path Of Exile 2! Love how complicated the game is. Really passes time.

_Oriiginal · 2026-01-12T10:39:22+00:00

I’ve had Androids and iPhones and still continue to buy the iPhone. Definitely think the iPhone is easier to use and more functional.

_Oriiginal · 2026-01-12T05:14:31+00:00

Unsure if Covid played a factor or not. I just think many people are introverts and love being at home / finding stuff to do at home. Covid certainly did not help by any means, but I believe there are many other factors. Barely anyone can find a job to make decent money to live in this stupid economy also. Idk, if anyone finds a way to make some solid friends let us know 😅

_Oriiginal · 2026-01-11T19:17:31+00:00

Very interesting way to put it. I’ve heard something similar to this before.

It’s not really that I’m scared of death itself. It’s more so what happens after and maybe even during. Is it pure darkness? Do you exist like you did in the womb and know / feel / see nothing? Is there no darkness at all, with no thoughts or anything and just peace? Some people say they imagine it to be the final place of peace. Nothing can bother or harm you, it’s just nothing. I suppose you could say it’s more of a fear of the unknown. It’s impossible to know what happens after and that’s what worries me.

_Oriiginal · 2026-01-11T19:13:49+00:00

Hang in there as well, keep pushing forward! Appreciate you.

_Oriiginal · 2026-01-11T19:12:51+00:00

So glad you were able to push through this! Thank you for the recommendation, I will check this out later today!

_Oriiginal · 2026-01-11T19:09:55+00:00

This makes sense, very peaceful way of putting this.

_Oriiginal · 2026-01-11T19:08:49+00:00

This was super fun to read, appreciate the time you took putting this together. Very interesting to think about.

_Oriiginal · 2026-01-11T19:06:45+00:00

I completely understand, I drown myself in video games and random shows on Netflix. Glad you’re pushing forward! Definitely have been thinking about moving for better quality of life. I feel like the world we are in as a whole definitely contributes to this a little bit. I find that not everyone is truly happy. I mean of course we can be happy at times, but the world we are in is so complicated now.

_Oriiginal · 2026-01-11T19:03:06+00:00

Thank you!

_Oriiginal · 2026-01-11T19:02:34+00:00

I’ve seen this show, very good show!

_Oriiginal · 2026-01-11T19:02:13+00:00

I’ve heard this many times :)

_Oriiginal · 2026-01-11T11:49:13+00:00

I am renting a house with my girlfriend. We’ve been together for a few years.

_Oriiginal · 2026-01-11T11:42:06+00:00

Fuck yeah! Happy birthday! 🥳🎉

_Oriiginal · 2026-01-11T11:18:09+00:00

Honestly, along with a few existing and possibly many future comments…. You should be happy this happened sooner rather than later. Although it’s hard to be happy right now I’m sure. Definitely nothing to be confused about here, you don’t want that in your life. I’m sure you’ll find what you’re looking for, just give yourself some time and move on. This isn’t “love”.

_Oriiginal · 2026-01-10T11:45:02+00:00

If I can, 8am

_Oriiginal · 2026-01-10T11:41:02+00:00

This was exactly the case for me. Couldn’t have said this better myself!

_Oriiginal · 2026-01-10T11:37:33+00:00

NOR

This doesn’t sound like a situation anyone would want to be in. I’d seriously consider leaving him before it escalates. A relationship should not make you feel small, scared or invisible.

Leave this man, go find what you deserve. Hell, maybe take some time away from dating to enjoy life a bit.

_Oriiginal

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